2013年1月4日星期五

Love is A Promise


They had just admitted to the university, he is out from the remote rural children, she is also a time when they were laughing at those in the countryside, they will always be comforted each other, for a long time, two hearts the nearest.

Love, not just a commitment and all lovers as they played Dafan, from the park, little money, most of the time, she and he wanted to soak in the library, writing a small piece of paper. Though poor, love the world of light is the same. He and her love as naturally.

Are poor, and other lovers than less intimate embrace cinema less Valentine's mysterious world gift. He rarely buy her something. Once she sees in a red jacket. 10 dollars, he touched his pocket, only seven, so he had embarrassed smile. Later, she bought the yarn to knit two. Are red gloves. Value, right? He took her in his arms, and vowed to be good for her lifetime.

Junior year, they go out to work, the situation is better, he had little money to do tutoring. This time, he used his two months salary to buy her a necklace. Because once the shops, she stared at the necklace long. At that time, he said, I have money to buy it for you. It is a silver chain, very fine workmanship, wearing really beautiful in her neck. She is not a particularly good-looking girls, but there are significant other proof beautiful necklace. Shortly happens to be her birthday. As a birthday gift he gave her, and she said, I also have the same gift for you.

She gave him her first. That, in a shabby little hotel. She and him, lingering so emotional. He said that my life will be a lifetime of hello, let us love life, no matter when and where, regardless of who will have much ability, good or bad? In life, we do not separate. Her own body curled into his body, with tears streaming down his face. She believed that this man would do him good.

Two months later, her nausea and vomiting ... she was pregnant. This is a terrible thing, she was looking for him to discuss. How to do? Out to do it, he said, we are still a student. School know that we will be expelled, next year we graduated, do not take the risk. No! She is stubborn, I want this child. This is my and your children, because I love him, I want him to.

A month later, her office due to illness dropped out procedures, and then with a belly to back home. Almost every day, he wrote to ask her to his college graduation, the birth of a child, a boy.

She did not come back to school, and his stay in the big cities Shanghai, he could have been back to the mountain, because she was there waiting for him. She did not tell the family, she took the children to work in a small company, earning and subsistence, she was waiting for his graduation, and then live with, but he did not come back, he said Shanghai opportunities money I will pick you up and out.

, He did not realize this promise.

The actual situation is, he only the home seen her once, she becomes difficult to eyes, broken mess of hair, his eyes have not had time to wipe the eye repeatedly wear clothes extremely dirty, there are even milk stains. The children crying mess, dapper, she is a woman not yet out of the mountains, he waves afraid. Really want her? Really take her to go?

She is still as dependent on him, and asked him how to? He said that the mix is ​​not good, you wait. He is lying, then he has been a department manager in charge of the monthly salary can get 7,8 1000, and she was only a few hundred dollars, before leaving, also take one thousand to him and said, you expenditure in Shanghai, holding holding. His tears to burst its banks, and know their own negative this woman on the train, he open it wrapped in paper, scattered a thousand dollars, probably her to scrape together a lot of loose change was lobbied reasons.

But he lied to her, he decided to use the money also.

Soon, he sent her twenty thousand, write a letter, he just said, I'm too busy, may get married first time, he also embarrassed directly break up. Then she soon put the money back to go, she said, I'm sorry, I did not wait for you, I'm married, says good love life, I got married.

He cried, and she is more sensible a woman for him, she was married ah! She returned to free him, he have the courage to return home to see her trip. Since then, he thought, each of Ben future, perhaps her husband will suit her more than their own.

Him beautiful fashion woman love him, because her departure, he decided to re-start his love, not to mention the girls home powerful, very helpful to him, and soon, he and the girl away crossing the ocean to study abroad, and opened his own company in the United States, he had too much money, he had a villa and a private car, he and her dream has, and he knows that he is a bad man, too broken, so he chose to return home after 51 to invest in a company, he was ready to help her in her hometown.

And she was a middle school teacher hometown fast 40, a half-white hair, some extra padding, puffy eyes extremely overworked atheism, to meet the moment, they froze for a long time, years to the She increased the marshes, but to increase his mature charm.

He saw their children, a 17-year-old young man, as his replica, has been recommended for admission to the North, would like to say thank you, can feel the language then single, he would like to say I'm sorry, but it did not feel this qualification in substandard office for a long time, he was afraid to ask a what you love to do the work?

She smiled, the wrinkles of the mouth of the move, "I said quietly, not married.

In that instant, he rose from his chair, and tears off guard fall to heart flood dike, she has been waiting for him, has been waiting so lovestruck.

You silly, he scolded her eyes in tears, shaking some people, you said you love life, I think it is true, you said, he covered her face, and then slowly knelt in love , he was not as good as this woman, he does not know what is good as gold, some when he could no longer be with her, but he knew she was his heart a pearl, Allure of value. His aircraft back to the United States, he opened a package she sent, which is two red gloves, already old, off-color, off cotton, he put his hand into swab Figure just stretched it out, broken line is really old, many years, what can forget you can forever? Only her, her pure eyes as the year, to say the want to love life, and still moving.

It turned out that love is a lifetime is not a simple case, that is it takes a lifetime to complete. Own heart, his love, but he did not do it, he knew that in my entire life, he is not just sorry for him, he is sorry love.

2013年1月3日星期四

About Love





Love, this seems to be a timeless topic, as long as there are men and women of the place, there will be love. Chat with a friend yesterday, related to love. Love is in the end what? I do not seem to know how to interpret. Just think that love is just a feeling, or feeling. As if the only experience is any gorgeous words can not be portrayed. But love has to go through several stages.

Honeymoon period

Just men and women fall in love, it is the love of the stage. This feeling is when you meet the person you love, you will make inexplicably stupid things; When you see him (her). Be another person or to myself ramble about his (her), this is love. When you are in his (her) side will feel comfortable, gentle and considerate, he (she) is neither feel tired nor bored, which is happiness. You saw him (her) face, will be excited, mind resuscitation, does everything think she (or her) to speak for him (her) to try to please him (her) favorite, so he (or she) understand Do you like him (her). Your mouth, gentle words will blurt out, you glance will reveal caress eyes. For you, he (she) is decorated in the world, to make life attractive; Do you like sitting on his (her) feet for no other reason, there is fun just to sit there. With him (or her), you feel that life is happiness. Maybe he (or she) days, you will feel very natural, but suddenly one day to find him (or her) figure will not worry you will be uneasy over the world to look for him (her), will be filled with hope of want to see him (her).

Run-in period

Love is also a need to run, just like marriage. This stage experience before love and less sweet, have become more quarrels, and even suspicion. But love does not mean that the recession and perish. Just love to put the life and needs to be recognized, so it will be tested in a variety of ways, the quarrel is one of them. You do not even understand why she would because a lollipop quarrel with you, will not understand how he is going to war because of a negligence. Everything from the uncertainty, because of the need to repeatedly prove that another is not that they need not be together forever and own personal.

Sublimation period

The experienced front repeated testing and adjustments, and persevered is suitable. The love of this time, as people say, a long time, Love derivative becomes affection. Not feeling light, sublimation. When love becomes a family means to each other have become an integral part of another life, becomes a habit. As you sleep habits around him (or her) breath. Less passion, but any kind of feelings are unmatched. Also any feelings is not a substitute for it.

About love, we never seem to have lots to talk about a topic. Different people will have different feelings. But this wonderful vision of love but everyone has. I remember a friend of mine said I was too simple, like princess living in a fairy tale kingdom forever, forever love fantasy, full of expectations, seemed unrealistic. In fact, if your heart with this beautiful vision of not, The Pursuit of Happyness, certainly not at home. Moreover, you will not have the kind of experience something to look forward to a happy life.

Heart, love, it can easily be Cupid shot, will be the earliest encounter happiness. Bless all hearts with love: a lifetime of happiness! !

Don't Be Jelous

She contacted me have said many times, from undergraduate to graduate, every time I wanted to take to find her out Pinjiu, she always reminded me to me there is a bright fresh, but I really only took her as a sister to see other that feeling. Do her thinking is very comprehensive, every time I call home, my mother always kept nagging at the ear: small South, favors good ah, beautiful and excellent after we two do relatives I went to the mother's relatives drop in for a save toll. privately speculate countless times, is not she gave my mother bribed? -

But in the end I still have to fight and Min grace room, eagerly waited one morning in the bedroom, the candidates did not appear the second time I tell myself that even if Sister Furong to candidates, I would not hesitate choose the latter rather than the former. -

I know that the Min grace this person is definitely not fuel-efficient. Fight room the next day, this woman gave me trouble, I admit that I really wanted to take her into pieces. The next morning at six up and dress up, because the night before iron son said he wanted me to introduce both beautiful, with two beautiful women I at six themselves from head to toe to pack a lot of eight when iron sub call me downstairs, I went downstairs Pidianpidian closed when Min grace a mist looked at me. At that time, I felt that comfortable ... I did not expect just arrived downstairs, just raised his hand to say hello and human beauty, Min grace upstairs shouted into the following: "The south, out to take care of people, and sister play at night, I'll wait for you to come back for dinner. action spot on Jiangzainali the iron sub with a look at the alien's eyes looked at me: "Luo Xiangnan, only one night ... ye cooked meal?" I like root The wood like startled to know that there Diansha. Then is to go out for a morning, two beautiful Leng Shimo Zheng Yanqiao I look ...

Came back at noon, I kicked open the door, she saw my actions, immediately went up to his face ridicule: "south, tired of it, such a hot day." I flew her a supercilious never thought and She bucket, and I know her bucket up to the end I am sure to suffer. Then I went to the couch holding the remote control slide like to change with the channel. Then she had to say: "Luo Xiangnan, knowing that I've liked you, you still find me under the eyes of little girls, I can stand it, ah." To be honest, after listening to these words I was a bit coursing. She went on to say: Luo Xiangnan, aesthetic problem ah? Looking for it to find pictures, also from bad to worse, both beautiful morning, not fuel-efficient. "Listen to her say to the fire I said: "I is an aesthetic problem, but just strange strange, you say my aesthetic how you point not forward side of it?" she heard this green face. For words, I am proud for several days. -

The later discovered She said that both beauty really not good stuff, and I'm a little fluke, thinking she Man or Tingyou the vision. But I also summed up a truth: the fight room is a dangerous thing, especially unsuccessful, but the woman had a strong jealousy and crush you.

2012年12月28日星期五

The years pale face

The years pale face, the quicksand deposition of the pearl. I do not know how many years, snatched the youthful years, life rings will turn faster, the most beloved of my life before I understand life and death, cruel death at different times, ruthless away relatives - his grandmother and uncle.

The first time away from home to school that day, tears pulling pain our eye. Your eyes are red from crying, rough hands touched my head, and murmured: Blessings, go to the other side to remember to write back, sick, remember to call my brother to take you to see a doctor in a timely manner what to buy, eat in school If someone bullied you remember telling my brother. Cold remember more clothes ... my eyes are red from crying ferocious stare cold parents, listening the wicket aunt anxious blowing on the car's sound, I clung to the train platforms, railings, adhere to the dead are not on the train cruel father and an I picked up the wearer's plug into the cart, I kick the name of his father's arms, until the train doors closed that moment, the door of my parents solemn warning his brother to take care of me brother tightly pregnant live me his eyes trace sympathy. At the moment, I realize that I want a very long time to meet with you, I cried and beat the train windows of despair, through the window, I saw your site, hand one a wipe from the face tears. Eyes gazed at me in the train, the parents escorted you step by step with the movement of the train moving, until the train disappeared in the end you can not catch it, I can not see the end.

First semester winter vacation home, parents are busy with work, no time to go to the train station to meet us, and thus served to pick our glorious task, who knows when my brother and I just take a step off the train door, your sharp-eyed to see us , regardless of image yell my name, ran hurried kiss my face over and over again, carefully looked at me, his face sometimes exposed to frown and a surprised expression, murmured: you are not school not used to the dish, is not reluctant to buy something delicious to eat enough with pocket money in school, you see, so you lean. Then, you turned to the brother scolded fiercely that he would not take good care of me, brother wronged endure all this does not belong to his crimes. Towards the site, check the itinerant security aunt smile to say to you: You see your heart is so anxious to see grandson, 14:30 car 14:00 to remind you here and so no later than, chosen to 6:00 am on a cold day, I'm really afraid you love their grandchildren! You did not answer, you give her a very slight sun's smiling face. Out of the train station, I hold your hand, serious to say to you: the grandmother to come pick me up just 30 minutes early enough, are not allowed as it is today so early to pick me up, otherwise I would be angry. You gently pinching my nose smile said: Silly boy.

Warm and delicious dinner will begin looking at the sumptuous dinner on the table, kept his mouth turned saliva, secretly aiming a living room, not people, and my heart thought, before tasting one being the eyes closed to enjoy mouth delicious dishes the taste, and my father came into my solemn roar to me: school teachers how to teach you, how educated are not. I the tears endured outflow wronged also yell at him: I was not educated, I was fighting and classmates you hard heart of an 8-year-old child to another city to study, you are not worried I will not go hungry, the sick will not know called my brother to bring a doctor, you know, selfish that you do everything that is good for me. I think for yourself! You lift blazing slap "popping" sound rang in my face, my heart to hate you, I cried and reincarnation to leave the living room, back to the room, with wash parents hate such a flood of tears, I despair the think my child is a parents love. At the moment, and grandmother gently pushed open the door, hugged me slowly, should, and I tell parents how how not, in fact, you are in the sets of my words, let me change the bad ideas of the parents, You told me the father apologized to me, and I insist that it will not, you will, really as bad as you might expect, the next day my father bought my favorite gourd doll discs gave me request I rude behavior expressed understanding. Therefore, I and the stalemate of the parents have been alleviated, I better. You looked on a harmonious picture, your mouth smile, forehead wrinkles also cater you laugh very obvious.

One year, but each year. The expiration of the three years, and grandmother still maintained that the station platform to bid farewell to the posture, eyes still some reddish bloated, eyes still looking at the car, the pace is still one step two steps chasing my leavin ... ... then I go home, your old figure active in the platform, looking at the car down pedestrians, searching for my shadow, followed by the string of another string of kissing my face. This year, my triumphant return, I stepped out of the door, the pace is so, so excited. Why? When I look to the site, and grandmother, you figure what ah? I dragged heavy suitcase, stepped out of the site, and asked often and you say hello aunt, why? The aunt said that today do not see you, my grandmother, love my grandmother, you do not trouble ah! Suddenly felt my heart hurts hurts my heart stop jump was amazing, I quickly ride back to your home. Entered the room, the living room pale, the incense before placing the tablets, stinging my eyes, the legs soft kneeling on the ground, the most familiar face, kindly face, the most favorite of my grandmother, why ? You suddenly lying that does not belong to your place! This must be a dream, a dream, I constantly shaking his head, I do not believe, I howled, and why? House of Love my grandmother, you do not answer me ah! Grandma, you see, I test the focus of the city's junior high school, is the city's junior high school! You look at the good, I am unable to scream crying, but you just do not answer my ears only worried about my parents and brother looked at me and calling me ... wake up, my parents and brother worried mother told I, grandmother until the last moment she disappeared, his mouth still calling my name, big eyes wide open efforts to want to see me one last look ah! But ...... I'm in the examination room, and why? Grandmother, you do not work hard ah! I agree so quietly left me, I tell you, I do not agree with this practice, I do not agree! I sat in bed tussle with beds, holding my mother, The condensate choke cried and said: Blessings, Come on, my mother will be sad, and grandmother do not want you, you have to carry on ...

PASSING fleeting, you promise me I, warmth. Grandmother, House of Love My grandmother, whether Fortunately you in heaven? Your granddaughter miss you.

2012年12月26日星期三

Six Word




Handed several never said thank friends is not easy! Friends, perhaps to say "thank you" is an easy task, even simple to could recall However, I really do not have to say a thank you be able to do, but it is a rare realm of true friends life do not say a 'thank' words, emotions and friendship between them, not because of the lack of a 'thank' words, while there is no way inferior to the contrary, more precious.

Said Xie word, this friend of love implies a deep sense of family; said Xie word, this friend's situation is much more simple and natural. When we lost a lot of unnecessary courtesy, presented in front of each other is a natural and really pure friendship, no disguise, not false, and some are just mind close communication; does not say thank word, not spiritual apathy, and expression and returns becomes another form that is abandoned empty promises, the real treasure of friendship internalized as a force in our hearts, to build genuine friendship building. Think of our own, all the friends, there are several able life to say thank you friends? Vast sea, the vicissitudes of things. When we are faced with a growing number of so-called reality, looking for a do not say thank friends, and how hard. If you have a friend Needless to say thank you, even if it only has you cherish it.

You know, this friendship is that money can not buy, it is time not lead back to the share of the sincere friendship Heart exchange are the wealth of your life. When you pay, you do not have to always look forward to a friend to say thank you. A thousand times, thanks a thousand times, and may not be able to compete with an understanding eyes! I have at least five Needless to say thank friends, so I am grateful to God, will cherish the hard-won mutual affection!

2012年12月25日星期二

On the family

Day in day by day from the side over the 40-year-old, seems to suddenly see the light, suddenly bearish many things, figured out a lot of sense ...

Life is simple happy fate: life in a foot, hard to find ten feet, the old saying goes quite reasonable, there is no need to do unnecessary struggle, God early as you arrange everything sawed sawed .

Hungry have about money: external things, support vain, big deal for him to eat seafood, I eat a pickle, the same as full control, nothing more than that he wore mink, I'm wearing a down jacket, still warm,

Concerning status: that something fundamental has nothing to do with me, he for his dignitaries me for my poor people, the final resting place is not all that little box like sketch says: What?

About the Business: there is no distinction or distinction, the man for me for all, as long as the legal, do what pocket money most shameful, things do not dry Siyaomianzi a pain.

Marriage: broken pot own broken lid Han people since so what people love the original firm want to marry him, there must be a reason to marry him. Now, he can not tolerate turning a blind eye to close one eye, open eyes one eye, look at the poor only bright spot for him, no one is perfect thing.

On the family: a few discordant notes ingenious conspire a chances to play the unusual and beautiful piece of music that, you appreciate how, anyway, the music in which performers.

About friends: want to leave you, do not insist, chances are seeking back is a villain, really ingratiate themselves, they do not call them every day, as long as the other problems, and say hello on call, Liangleichadao OK.

Children: on and give you a certificate of deposit, of course, not your account, password, and I wonder if you just kept inside when you can take out to enjoy, it depends on its owner, do not count on it When the dedication.

About parents: they account for me, although they are not trying to recover the cost, but also the double your money back when, perhaps until they left me, can not clear it.

Maybe I was really decadent, getting old, depression, but also feel relaxed, open-minded, cheerful, everything and competing every day than people, it is not solely against themselves, and torture yourself.? learn to coax yourself happy, will calm the people around.

Looking back, I drove there bike which I ride there walk which I walk there Zhu Shui which my crutches there are no legs which, I have no legs be dead which ... ... ha ha, you might laugh at me than down, but people only in this way than to not expect you A life for decades, whether you live the emperor or a beggar, and ultimately is not attributed to a pile of loess What?


2012年12月24日星期一

The Power of Examples Is Endless


The power of examples is endless. This sentence, we all can understand. That the person to find a role model for my own life - you most want to be.

If there is no readily available, can also be a combination of "a. Then, as the role is assumed, psychology called within the simulation, that is all the time to think of yourself as you want "a.

Not only manners to be like, the more important is the thinking and behavior should be like. Reflect on their own often lead to positive thinking positive frame of mind: "If he (she) would want to do this? Him (her) what would they think and how to do it?" Mentality and behavior is closely linked: and behavior, positive thinking and behavior is bound to develop a positive attitude.

A Frenchman, 42-year-old is still nothing, he also believes that simply unlucky thoroughly: divorce, bankruptcy, unemployment ... he does not know the value of their own survival and significance from birth. His own dissatisfaction becomes eccentric, irritable, and very fragile.

- Days, a Gypsy fortune teller in the streets of Paris, he is free to try. Gypsies seen his palmistry, said: "You are a great man, you are great!"
"What?" He was shocked, "I was a great man, you're not kidding?!"
Gypsy said quietly: "You know who you are?"
"Who am I?" He thought to himself, "is Cooler is a pauper, I abandoned life!" But he still pretending to be calm and asked: "Who is it?"
"You are a great man," said Gypsy, "You know, your reincarnation Napoleon! Flow of blood in your body, your courage and wisdom, Napoleon ah! Mr. Do you really did not notice, you look much like Napoleon? "
"Would not it ..." he said hesitantly, "I divorce ... I'm broke ... I lost my job ... I almost homeless ..."
"Hey, it was your past, the Gypsies had said, your future can be incredible If you do not believe, Mr. do not have to give money to a good However, after five years, you will be the most successful French ah! because you Napoleon's incarnation! "

The surface, he left the pretend do not believe, but my heart there never had a great feeling. He generated strong interest in Napoleon. Home, trying to find all books of writings relating to Napoleon to learn.

Gradually, he found that the surrounding environment began to change, friends, family, colleagues, bosses, have changed in another perspective, another expression of his. Things started smoothly. Later, he had realized that, in fact, everything has not changed, he changed: his courage, thinking mode in imitation of Napoleon, and even walk and speak like.