2013年1月3日星期四
About Love
Love, this seems to be a timeless topic, as long as there are men and women of the place, there will be love. Chat with a friend yesterday, related to love. Love is in the end what? I do not seem to know how to interpret. Just think that love is just a feeling, or feeling. As if the only experience is any gorgeous words can not be portrayed. But love has to go through several stages.
Honeymoon period
Just men and women fall in love, it is the love of the stage. This feeling is when you meet the person you love, you will make inexplicably stupid things; When you see him (her). Be another person or to myself ramble about his (her), this is love. When you are in his (her) side will feel comfortable, gentle and considerate, he (she) is neither feel tired nor bored, which is happiness. You saw him (her) face, will be excited, mind resuscitation, does everything think she (or her) to speak for him (her) to try to please him (her) favorite, so he (or she) understand Do you like him (her). Your mouth, gentle words will blurt out, you glance will reveal caress eyes. For you, he (she) is decorated in the world, to make life attractive; Do you like sitting on his (her) feet for no other reason, there is fun just to sit there. With him (or her), you feel that life is happiness. Maybe he (or she) days, you will feel very natural, but suddenly one day to find him (or her) figure will not worry you will be uneasy over the world to look for him (her), will be filled with hope of want to see him (her).
Run-in period
Love is also a need to run, just like marriage. This stage experience before love and less sweet, have become more quarrels, and even suspicion. But love does not mean that the recession and perish. Just love to put the life and needs to be recognized, so it will be tested in a variety of ways, the quarrel is one of them. You do not even understand why she would because a lollipop quarrel with you, will not understand how he is going to war because of a negligence. Everything from the uncertainty, because of the need to repeatedly prove that another is not that they need not be together forever and own personal.
Sublimation period
The experienced front repeated testing and adjustments, and persevered is suitable. The love of this time, as people say, a long time, Love derivative becomes affection. Not feeling light, sublimation. When love becomes a family means to each other have become an integral part of another life, becomes a habit. As you sleep habits around him (or her) breath. Less passion, but any kind of feelings are unmatched. Also any feelings is not a substitute for it.
About love, we never seem to have lots to talk about a topic. Different people will have different feelings. But this wonderful vision of love but everyone has. I remember a friend of mine said I was too simple, like princess living in a fairy tale kingdom forever, forever love fantasy, full of expectations, seemed unrealistic. In fact, if your heart with this beautiful vision of not, The Pursuit of Happyness, certainly not at home. Moreover, you will not have the kind of experience something to look forward to a happy life.
Heart, love, it can easily be Cupid shot, will be the earliest encounter happiness. Bless all hearts with love: a lifetime of happiness! !
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