The years pale face, the quicksand deposition of the pearl. I do not know how many years, snatched the youthful years, life rings will turn faster, the most beloved of my life before I understand life and death, cruel death at different times, ruthless away relatives - his grandmother and uncle.
The first time away from home to school that day, tears pulling pain our eye. Your eyes are red from crying, rough hands touched my head, and murmured: Blessings, go to the other side to remember to write back, sick, remember to call my brother to take you to see a doctor in a timely manner what to buy, eat in school If someone bullied you remember telling my brother. Cold remember more clothes ... my eyes are red from crying ferocious stare cold parents, listening the wicket aunt anxious blowing on the car's sound, I clung to the train platforms, railings, adhere to the dead are not on the train cruel father and an I picked up the wearer's plug into the cart, I kick the name of his father's arms, until the train doors closed that moment, the door of my parents solemn warning his brother to take care of me brother tightly pregnant live me his eyes trace sympathy. At the moment, I realize that I want a very long time to meet with you, I cried and beat the train windows of despair, through the window, I saw your site, hand one a wipe from the face tears. Eyes gazed at me in the train, the parents escorted you step by step with the movement of the train moving, until the train disappeared in the end you can not catch it, I can not see the end.
First semester winter vacation home, parents are busy with work, no time to go to the train station to meet us, and thus served to pick our glorious task, who knows when my brother and I just take a step off the train door, your sharp-eyed to see us , regardless of image yell my name, ran hurried kiss my face over and over again, carefully looked at me, his face sometimes exposed to frown and a surprised expression, murmured: you are not school not used to the dish, is not reluctant to buy something delicious to eat enough with pocket money in school, you see, so you lean. Then, you turned to the brother scolded fiercely that he would not take good care of me, brother wronged endure all this does not belong to his crimes. Towards the site, check the itinerant security aunt smile to say to you: You see your heart is so anxious to see grandson, 14:30 car 14:00 to remind you here and so no later than, chosen to 6:00 am on a cold day, I'm really afraid you love their grandchildren! You did not answer, you give her a very slight sun's smiling face. Out of the train station, I hold your hand, serious to say to you: the grandmother to come pick me up just 30 minutes early enough, are not allowed as it is today so early to pick me up, otherwise I would be angry. You gently pinching my nose smile said: Silly boy.
Warm and delicious dinner will begin looking at the sumptuous dinner on the table, kept his mouth turned saliva, secretly aiming a living room, not people, and my heart thought, before tasting one being the eyes closed to enjoy mouth delicious dishes the taste, and my father came into my solemn roar to me: school teachers how to teach you, how educated are not. I the tears endured outflow wronged also yell at him: I was not educated, I was fighting and classmates you hard heart of an 8-year-old child to another city to study, you are not worried I will not go hungry, the sick will not know called my brother to bring a doctor, you know, selfish that you do everything that is good for me. I think for yourself! You lift blazing slap "popping" sound rang in my face, my heart to hate you, I cried and reincarnation to leave the living room, back to the room, with wash parents hate such a flood of tears, I despair the think my child is a parents love. At the moment, and grandmother gently pushed open the door, hugged me slowly, should, and I tell parents how how not, in fact, you are in the sets of my words, let me change the bad ideas of the parents, You told me the father apologized to me, and I insist that it will not, you will, really as bad as you might expect, the next day my father bought my favorite gourd doll discs gave me request I rude behavior expressed understanding. Therefore, I and the stalemate of the parents have been alleviated, I better. You looked on a harmonious picture, your mouth smile, forehead wrinkles also cater you laugh very obvious.
One year, but each year. The expiration of the three years, and grandmother still maintained that the station platform to bid farewell to the posture, eyes still some reddish bloated, eyes still looking at the car, the pace is still one step two steps chasing my leavin ... ... then I go home, your old figure active in the platform, looking at the car down pedestrians, searching for my shadow, followed by the string of another string of kissing my face. This year, my triumphant return, I stepped out of the door, the pace is so, so excited. Why? When I look to the site, and grandmother, you figure what ah? I dragged heavy suitcase, stepped out of the site, and asked often and you say hello aunt, why? The aunt said that today do not see you, my grandmother, love my grandmother, you do not trouble ah! Suddenly felt my heart hurts hurts my heart stop jump was amazing, I quickly ride back to your home. Entered the room, the living room pale, the incense before placing the tablets, stinging my eyes, the legs soft kneeling on the ground, the most familiar face, kindly face, the most favorite of my grandmother, why ? You suddenly lying that does not belong to your place! This must be a dream, a dream, I constantly shaking his head, I do not believe, I howled, and why? House of Love my grandmother, you do not answer me ah! Grandma, you see, I test the focus of the city's junior high school, is the city's junior high school! You look at the good, I am unable to scream crying, but you just do not answer my ears only worried about my parents and brother looked at me and calling me ... wake up, my parents and brother worried mother told I, grandmother until the last moment she disappeared, his mouth still calling my name, big eyes wide open efforts to want to see me one last look ah! But ...... I'm in the examination room, and why? Grandmother, you do not work hard ah! I agree so quietly left me, I tell you, I do not agree with this practice, I do not agree! I sat in bed tussle with beds, holding my mother, The condensate choke cried and said: Blessings, Come on, my mother will be sad, and grandmother do not want you, you have to carry on ...
PASSING fleeting, you promise me I, warmth. Grandmother, House of Love My grandmother, whether Fortunately you in heaven? Your granddaughter miss you.
2012年12月28日星期五
2012年12月26日星期三
Six Word
Handed several never said thank friends is not easy! Friends, perhaps to say "thank you" is an easy task, even simple to could recall However, I really do not have to say a thank you be able to do, but it is a rare realm of true friends life do not say a 'thank' words, emotions and friendship between them, not because of the lack of a 'thank' words, while there is no way inferior to the contrary, more precious.
Said Xie word, this friend of love implies a deep sense of family; said Xie word, this friend's situation is much more simple and natural. When we lost a lot of unnecessary courtesy, presented in front of each other is a natural and really pure friendship, no disguise, not false, and some are just mind close communication; does not say thank word, not spiritual apathy, and expression and returns becomes another form that is abandoned empty promises, the real treasure of friendship internalized as a force in our hearts, to build genuine friendship building. Think of our own, all the friends, there are several able life to say thank you friends? Vast sea, the vicissitudes of things. When we are faced with a growing number of so-called reality, looking for a do not say thank friends, and how hard. If you have a friend Needless to say thank you, even if it only has you cherish it.
You know, this friendship is that money can not buy, it is time not lead back to the share of the sincere friendship Heart exchange are the wealth of your life. When you pay, you do not have to always look forward to a friend to say thank you. A thousand times, thanks a thousand times, and may not be able to compete with an understanding eyes! I have at least five Needless to say thank friends, so I am grateful to God, will cherish the hard-won mutual affection!
2012年12月25日星期二
On the family
Day in day by day from the side over the 40-year-old, seems to suddenly see the light, suddenly bearish many things, figured out a lot of sense ...
Life is simple happy fate: life in a foot, hard to find ten feet, the old saying goes quite reasonable, there is no need to do unnecessary struggle, God early as you arrange everything sawed sawed .
Hungry have about money: external things, support vain, big deal for him to eat seafood, I eat a pickle, the same as full control, nothing more than that he wore mink, I'm wearing a down jacket, still warm,
Concerning status: that something fundamental has nothing to do with me, he for his dignitaries me for my poor people, the final resting place is not all that little box like sketch says: What?
About the Business: there is no distinction or distinction, the man for me for all, as long as the legal, do what pocket money most shameful, things do not dry Siyaomianzi a pain.
Marriage: broken pot own broken lid Han people since so what people love the original firm want to marry him, there must be a reason to marry him. Now, he can not tolerate turning a blind eye to close one eye, open eyes one eye, look at the poor only bright spot for him, no one is perfect thing.
On the family: a few discordant notes ingenious conspire a chances to play the unusual and beautiful piece of music that, you appreciate how, anyway, the music in which performers.
About friends: want to leave you, do not insist, chances are seeking back is a villain, really ingratiate themselves, they do not call them every day, as long as the other problems, and say hello on call, Liangleichadao OK.
Children: on and give you a certificate of deposit, of course, not your account, password, and I wonder if you just kept inside when you can take out to enjoy, it depends on its owner, do not count on it When the dedication.
About parents: they account for me, although they are not trying to recover the cost, but also the double your money back when, perhaps until they left me, can not clear it.
Maybe I was really decadent, getting old, depression, but also feel relaxed, open-minded, cheerful, everything and competing every day than people, it is not solely against themselves, and torture yourself.? learn to coax yourself happy, will calm the people around.
Looking back, I drove there bike which I ride there walk which I walk there Zhu Shui which my crutches there are no legs which, I have no legs be dead which ... ... ha ha, you might laugh at me than down, but people only in this way than to not expect you A life for decades, whether you live the emperor or a beggar, and ultimately is not attributed to a pile of loess What?
Life is simple happy fate: life in a foot, hard to find ten feet, the old saying goes quite reasonable, there is no need to do unnecessary struggle, God early as you arrange everything sawed sawed .
Hungry have about money: external things, support vain, big deal for him to eat seafood, I eat a pickle, the same as full control, nothing more than that he wore mink, I'm wearing a down jacket, still warm,
Concerning status: that something fundamental has nothing to do with me, he for his dignitaries me for my poor people, the final resting place is not all that little box like sketch says: What?
About the Business: there is no distinction or distinction, the man for me for all, as long as the legal, do what pocket money most shameful, things do not dry Siyaomianzi a pain.
Marriage: broken pot own broken lid Han people since so what people love the original firm want to marry him, there must be a reason to marry him. Now, he can not tolerate turning a blind eye to close one eye, open eyes one eye, look at the poor only bright spot for him, no one is perfect thing.
On the family: a few discordant notes ingenious conspire a chances to play the unusual and beautiful piece of music that, you appreciate how, anyway, the music in which performers.
About friends: want to leave you, do not insist, chances are seeking back is a villain, really ingratiate themselves, they do not call them every day, as long as the other problems, and say hello on call, Liangleichadao OK.
Children: on and give you a certificate of deposit, of course, not your account, password, and I wonder if you just kept inside when you can take out to enjoy, it depends on its owner, do not count on it When the dedication.
About parents: they account for me, although they are not trying to recover the cost, but also the double your money back when, perhaps until they left me, can not clear it.
Maybe I was really decadent, getting old, depression, but also feel relaxed, open-minded, cheerful, everything and competing every day than people, it is not solely against themselves, and torture yourself.? learn to coax yourself happy, will calm the people around.
Looking back, I drove there bike which I ride there walk which I walk there Zhu Shui which my crutches there are no legs which, I have no legs be dead which ... ... ha ha, you might laugh at me than down, but people only in this way than to not expect you A life for decades, whether you live the emperor or a beggar, and ultimately is not attributed to a pile of loess What?
2012年12月24日星期一
The Power of Examples Is Endless
The power of examples is endless. This sentence, we all can understand. That the person to find a role model for my own life - you most want to be.
If there is no readily available, can also be a combination of "a. Then, as the role is assumed, psychology called within the simulation, that is all the time to think of yourself as you want "a.
Not only manners to be like, the more important is the thinking and behavior should be like. Reflect on their own often lead to positive thinking positive frame of mind: "If he (she) would want to do this? Him (her) what would they think and how to do it?" Mentality and behavior is closely linked: and behavior, positive thinking and behavior is bound to develop a positive attitude.
A Frenchman, 42-year-old is still nothing, he also believes that simply unlucky thoroughly: divorce, bankruptcy, unemployment ... he does not know the value of their own survival and significance from birth. His own dissatisfaction becomes eccentric, irritable, and very fragile.
- Days, a Gypsy fortune teller in the streets of Paris, he is free to try. Gypsies seen his palmistry, said: "You are a great man, you are great!"
"What?" He was shocked, "I was a great man, you're not kidding?!"
Gypsy said quietly: "You know who you are?"
"Who am I?" He thought to himself, "is Cooler is a pauper, I abandoned life!" But he still pretending to be calm and asked: "Who is it?"
"You are a great man," said Gypsy, "You know, your reincarnation Napoleon! Flow of blood in your body, your courage and wisdom, Napoleon ah! Mr. Do you really did not notice, you look much like Napoleon? "
"Would not it ..." he said hesitantly, "I divorce ... I'm broke ... I lost my job ... I almost homeless ..."
"Hey, it was your past, the Gypsies had said, your future can be incredible If you do not believe, Mr. do not have to give money to a good However, after five years, you will be the most successful French ah! because you Napoleon's incarnation! "
The surface, he left the pretend do not believe, but my heart there never had a great feeling. He generated strong interest in Napoleon. Home, trying to find all books of writings relating to Napoleon to learn.
Gradually, he found that the surrounding environment began to change, friends, family, colleagues, bosses, have changed in another perspective, another expression of his. Things started smoothly. Later, he had realized that, in fact, everything has not changed, he changed: his courage, thinking mode in imitation of Napoleon, and even walk and speak like.
2012年12月23日星期日
In college
Emotions, to take care of all the students in the university's another thing that is possible for other students. In college, we found that two students: a classmate only concerned about their own achievements, their interests, their own how to win in the competition, does not care about others. This mentality to develop general community will be trounced, because this society will not accept the only people to fight for their interests. Therefore, the time in college to learn to focus on other people, good left to others as much as possible, a bad thing as much as possible for themselves, so you get the trust of the students, the future you things, someone will help you. I was in college, we adhere to four years to draw water sweeping quarters. I find in the new East university students to help, they are willing to help me. Because they feel that in college I was a good person, a person willing to help people, so that the formation of a team of university students with dry New Oriental. My circle contacts have been very, very widely, but my best friend is still university students.
In college, another thing we have to do as much as possible in emotional something. I am talking about is not just friendship, affection between men and women. In college if given the opportunity to talk about a love that is a very good harvest. I was in college, there would be no girls to talk to me, if you have this opportunity, or to seize the opportunity. Of course, not to fall in love and fall in love. The must really unforgettable fall in love with each other, in order to talk about. Because only in good faith in order to truly feel, in order to bring real growth. If you really love each other, love wholeheartedly. I say single-minded than in the university only talk once in love, but when talking about can only talk about one. Because a real feelings of belonging in the heart of a period of time with no distraction, feel deeply in love with another person. If you truly love, you have to love the generosity. Generous, I said not to let your boyfriend or girlfriend to someone else, but in college talents, they fall in love with you today, tomorrow may fall in love with someone else. Sometimes love there will be a special phenomenon in college when our class took place over such a thing, the two male students buddies, a guy has a girlfriend, and we play with, results playing playing Another two people play to go, the boys push to one side. As we all know, love is the happiest two people love each other, or two people at the same time does not love. Love is the most painful is it? You also deeply in love with each other, the other no longer love you and you love each other's heart and how also fit to. A university last year, two people fall in love, then this girl does not love the boys, the boys are also deeply in love with this girl. Boys how could not pass the test, the last boys went to the women's dormitory, the girls pushed down from the window, and then jump. This is a tragic love story, but it is a dirty love story. This despicable is that this boy's despicable, if you really love each other, we must bless them all the way, and let them take a good, but not to hurt them. So, if I found the two men talk about love, and that I must bless them, they go all the way Well, until walked divorce. You can not say that destroyed their lives with the lives of others at the same time our students here will encounter this kind of love and pain, and also be sure to use a generous way to solve this pain.
In college unloved, how do you do? In other words, the university is not necessarily everyone should love, not necessarily everyone has the opportunity to fall in love. Even if you want to talk about, but do not have anyone to talk to you in love. My first love and last love, a 25-year-old when I graduated from university two years later, in the campus of Peking University to find my girlfriend, later became my wife, the mother of my child. That is to say, the students remember, even if it is late for love that is true love. If we say that there is no love today, you wait. Like today you do not succeed, you wait. To work hard to find waiting in the waiting, waiting to believe in their own future someday, you can move toward success and glory. Today our topic is called "I believe the future". "I believe the future" is a poem written by the famous Chinese poet forefinger. Ask someone must believe that, regardless of your environment, no matter where you are today, as long as your heart is genuine passion for life, as long as you believe in your future one day will become a better place, as long as you believe in hard work and struggle the power, you must have a better future.
2012年12月19日星期三
For our eyes
I remember one philosopher said this sentence: For our eyes is not the lack of beauty, but the lack of discovery. In real life, there will always be many people complain about the social ugly, people walk through the social ugly.
Good at discovering US fact, this idea is too radical, there are a lot of beauty in society or, is found because people do not just blindly through the surface of a conclusion. The story is this: day, get together and go to the beach to swim beauty and ugliness, beauty is wearing a beautiful coat, and ugly to wear ugly coat. Two swimming after the the ugly first on the shore, casually picked up a coat to wear, followed by the United States also put on a coat on the shore, and the two went home. The home was found wearing the wrong clothes, ugly find themselves beautiful, and the United States found themselves ugly. In fact, the beauty and ugliness are compared in terms of this story is to explain beauty and ugliness sometimes only need a coat can change, the key is that they have not found.
Life is so, when a face black, the look of scars girl to come to your side, the first reaction is how so ugly, in fact, when you carefully looked at, you will find, his smile was brilliant to see it is beautiful, and then when you get along with her for some time, you will find that her teeth very kind heart. When you walk in a barren fields, the fields filled with garbage and stink to high heaven, and even the busy flies out of the time to patronize. You feel nausea should not, there are other feelings, you will be killjoys want to get out of here as soon as possible, but when you stop and anxious footsteps, you will find next to the lush grass is thriving growth, as well as the budding flowers facing the sun extraordinarily mouthwatering. The United States is that there in the the ugly middle of the key is to rely on our eyes to discover, which requires us to be more careful, more observation, good find the beautiful from the ugly behind.
October 2, 2007 World Summer Special Olympics in Shanghai grand opening, this is a special group of people together to fight for their sports dreams. They are people who have a special body, they are defective. Assuming see from the outside, they may give the first impression is ugly, but when they stood at the moment of the sports arena, you will find that they are beautiful, they are the world's most lovable person.
With the advancement of technology, improving the quality of people's minds, people's aesthetic has changed. Some abstract thing people can go to find his beauty, this is progress, people know how to discover the progress of the United States, the arm of Wei Nasi people given reverence, the United States is reflected most vividly. Van Gogh painted paintings of life after death it was discovered the beauty of his paintings side. Making it painting became priceless. Van Gogh Unfortunately lifelong, would not this end, if the people are good at to discover beauty. Around the United States like a shadow and the shadows not leave, but we did not go to pay attention to him, did not go to carefully found.
Beautiful and ugly in fact, sometimes is a step away, beautiful, ugly, ugly in the beautiful, which wanted us to go to be good at discovering, When eyes go carefully taste ugly in the beautiful, you will find that this is also a kind of happiness from the side to find those people to get rid of the ugly, beautiful side to his own spiritual world purify their minds in the beautiful.
The eyes are the windows of the soul, to knock on the window with a beautiful, to feel more comfortable, why not do it? Let's heart to drip beautiful life, and those who have been forgotten beauty.
2012年12月17日星期一
In our lives
In our lives, even quiet, there will be changes colors.
She is a disabled girl. Mouth to speak do not know to be a long time to say a word, and often could not quite hear what she said? The legs walking step by step forward brushed against her at home every day in addition to the Internet is sleeping. We have in our shop, books, a computer, there is the concern, then guests. So every day she was very reluctant to jobs.
Watched her clumsy in front of the computer pounding the keyboard seems very nice. Although her disability is very strong and very persistent. I must have their own very insignificant compared her. Daily from home, she riding a tricycle to the store. Whenever I went to the store to see she has not changed to my heart uneasy. Always afraid of her accident on the road. Her snow-smart, knows a lot about computers. She is very cheerful like the Internet, listening to music. I think if she could like normal. She must be perfect. Is a all boys favorite object. Sometimes I say that you will inadvertently! She will refute me, I'm not stupid you do not look down on me. I will leave with a smile. Then silence ~~. On that occasion, my colleagues and I talk about feelings. She listened very attentively. Also tells us that she also likes boys. I said: "courtship." She was very shy, said: "ah," I am very happy for her. I still can not help playing excited her. I said: "listen to me, please do not into the vortex of feelings." She not understand the question: "Why?", I said: "I do not want to see you hurt." Her with desperate eyes watching me said: girl like me who would like it? silent for a moment to tell her, "Why not," the beauty of the soul is really beautiful and I know she knew I comforted her. maybe I really comfort her. I really do not know that there will be boys willing to willing to take care of her? I really want to know?
In fact, she is really good, very smart. Sometimes the guests to play manuscript. I encountered the word she will not play in the side with clumsy fingers forward the letters on the keyboard to tell me how to play. The work is not busy, she would sit in front of the computer for a long time practice typing, clumsy hand beat is slow. She is very persistent. Whenever I work difficulties, wanted to give up when you can see when she was in the name of the persistent struggling. I will continue.
Watching her feel very small. Always felt that the world owed me, thinking of all of a sudden she appears "destruction". Her appearance gave me deep insights. My life has a new lease of life.
I want to tell the whole world to do the life of disability. You are so cute, you kind of love the spirit of life in exchange for my desire for life. The world because you become beautiful.
She is a disabled girl. Mouth to speak do not know to be a long time to say a word, and often could not quite hear what she said? The legs walking step by step forward brushed against her at home every day in addition to the Internet is sleeping. We have in our shop, books, a computer, there is the concern, then guests. So every day she was very reluctant to jobs.
Watched her clumsy in front of the computer pounding the keyboard seems very nice. Although her disability is very strong and very persistent. I must have their own very insignificant compared her. Daily from home, she riding a tricycle to the store. Whenever I went to the store to see she has not changed to my heart uneasy. Always afraid of her accident on the road. Her snow-smart, knows a lot about computers. She is very cheerful like the Internet, listening to music. I think if she could like normal. She must be perfect. Is a all boys favorite object. Sometimes I say that you will inadvertently! She will refute me, I'm not stupid you do not look down on me. I will leave with a smile. Then silence ~~. On that occasion, my colleagues and I talk about feelings. She listened very attentively. Also tells us that she also likes boys. I said: "courtship." She was very shy, said: "ah," I am very happy for her. I still can not help playing excited her. I said: "listen to me, please do not into the vortex of feelings." She not understand the question: "Why?", I said: "I do not want to see you hurt." Her with desperate eyes watching me said: girl like me who would like it? silent for a moment to tell her, "Why not," the beauty of the soul is really beautiful and I know she knew I comforted her. maybe I really comfort her. I really do not know that there will be boys willing to willing to take care of her? I really want to know?
In fact, she is really good, very smart. Sometimes the guests to play manuscript. I encountered the word she will not play in the side with clumsy fingers forward the letters on the keyboard to tell me how to play. The work is not busy, she would sit in front of the computer for a long time practice typing, clumsy hand beat is slow. She is very persistent. Whenever I work difficulties, wanted to give up when you can see when she was in the name of the persistent struggling. I will continue.
Watching her feel very small. Always felt that the world owed me, thinking of all of a sudden she appears "destruction". Her appearance gave me deep insights. My life has a new lease of life.
I want to tell the whole world to do the life of disability. You are so cute, you kind of love the spirit of life in exchange for my desire for life. The world because you become beautiful.
2012年12月16日星期日
a little overbearing
Last weekend, she and her husband together go on an outing, surprise, in order to point the little things the two altercation, results spellbound. Returned home, she asked her husband sent grievances. After a moment, she turned the locked himself into the bedroom, continuous nearly 10 hours, do not eat or drink.
Every time, and her husband been having some trouble, she would "hunger strike" of self-mutilation way to punish her husband, the longest record up to 23 hours. Looked the husband askew anxiously repentant look, she hit the bottom of my heart comfort to him.
This is no exception, you have not seen for a few hours, the husband on the first running out of patience, and first in the door to come back to the pace, then gently knock on the door, and finally beat heavily.
She finally could not bear to insist, then opened the door. The husband came into the room, not a word, helpless face, hands and patted her behind, pulling her to dinner.
A long time, her husband still remains silent. This is how the matter? Accordance with past practice, the husband sitting next to her, should be kept to say a joke to make her laugh is you!
"You want to what?" Finally, she stopped the hands of chopsticks, the first to break the dreary deadlock. "If," the husband, looking intently at her, "a few years later, this house only yourself, you and kick hunger strike, who again urge you to dinner?" Myself! That How about you? "Without missing a beat she answered, blurted out. First, or leaves you. Husband look calm, but a calm tone of how much reveal a little sad, "everything may happen!"
So how could that be? ! She never imagined the day will lose her husband. Usual, she always culmination of surly and even a little overbearing, wanton vent their annoyance and dissatisfaction, it is clearly her husband as one can not just family members crusade or a vent emotions warehouse.
However, the husband is not only long she was less than three years old "big boys"? True demeanor had seen her husband in front of his parents: lazy, arrogant and weak. Perhaps her husband home little time revisit some parental care care, right? Rarely seen in front of her are lazy and arrogant weak, on the contrary, always give her the care sincere love.
At this point, looked at her husband that slightly weary eyes, she can not help but guilty remorse up: Why do I repeated injuries always beloved husband? Why am I so do not care about the feelings of her husband? Identified only the husband can accept and bear with all her fault entirely by his own, able to forgive her shortcomings and wayward, and do not have any complaints.
Anything if you do not cherish only blindly requests and injuries, and how can we ensure that it will not defeat it? Even share the most mellow and dearest people between emotion.
This weekend, she completely understood, there is one thing not to squander human life, and that is emotion! It is on this weekend, she deeply understand, must treat lover.
2012年12月14日星期五
One spring Saturday afternoon
One spring Saturday afternoon, the residential area next to the newsstand kiosks master text tert-positive leisurely flipping through magazines. Wearing a red dress, the 15-year-old looks like when a little girl went to the kiosk before, there was not looking around, it seems a bit overwhelmed, looked at the telephone, and quietly walked away, however little while later, went to kiosks ago.
Phone calls to heaven do not know is anti repeatedly wandering at the newsstand before and uneasy look, her bright red dress, especially, attracted the attention of the text t he carried looked at the girl and called to her: Hello! little girl, are you looking for magazines it? "" No, uncle, I ...... I want to call ...... "" Oh, you hit it! "Thank you, uncle, and long-distance calls can also play this?" "Of course you can ! international calls can fight. "
The little girl carefully picked up the microphone, and moved a number of seriously good text tert disturb the girl simply pretended like reading magazines, leaned to the side. Little girl panic slowly relaxed, the phone finally opened up: "Mom ... Mom! Kogiku, how are you? Mom with my uncle came to Tongxiang, last month uncle wages, he gave me 50 bucks, I have put money on the pillow, I gather the 500 mail to go to his brother to pay tuition, buy fertilizer to give the father. "little girl thought for a moment and said:" Mother, I tell you, my uncle's factory can eat meat every day, I have gained over the mother you worry, I can take care of themselves. Oh, by the way, my mother, the day before yesterday here an aunt gave me a red skirt, and now I'm wearing a skirt to call you Mom, uncle's factory watch TV, I like to see the film of the children studying in the school ... "Suddenly, the tone of voice of the little girl changed hand wiping his tears, "Mom, your stomach often hurt it? there flowers it? I miss home, want his brother to my father, miss you too, Mom, I really, really I miss you dream often dream ah! mom ... "
The girls never say no anymore, Wen Shu raised his head and looked at her lovingly, the girl hurriedly put down the microphone, panic microphone placed several times before to put it back on the phone. "Girl, homesick, right? Do not cry, have the opportunity to go home and see Mom and Dad." "Ah, uncle, telephone bills and how much money you?" Is not much you can say more with her mother for a while, I undercharged you a little money. "Uncle Wen habitually looked to the phone on the counter, my God, he suddenly found that the electronic display of the phone is not even charges the girl's phone did not get through!" Damn, girl, I'm sorry! you have to re-fight, just, ah, your phone is not turned on ... "Well, I know, uncle!" In fact ...... In fact, our hometown no phone call. "Uncle Wen puzzled and asked:" you just not talk to my mother yet? "little girl finally Kuchu sound:" In fact, I do not have a mother, my mother has been dead for more than four years ... every time I see his uncle and his companions to call home phone, I really envy them, I just want them to my mother play call his mother to speak ... "After listening to the remarks of the little girl, the text hand tert could not help, rubbed his reading glasses back the tears: "Good boy do not be sad, you just say, she must have heard my mother, she may be watching you, you are so naive, so dutiful daughter, she will be happy after you can in a week on here to call your mother and uncle do not charge you money. "
Since then, the master of this little country girl and city kiosks, had forged this "Food of Love". Every Saturday afternoon, Wen Shu here waiting for the little girl, the girl through a phone line and a phone number does not exist, the earth and heaven, mind and soul connection straight to the desire.
Phone calls to heaven do not know is anti repeatedly wandering at the newsstand before and uneasy look, her bright red dress, especially, attracted the attention of the text t he carried looked at the girl and called to her: Hello! little girl, are you looking for magazines it? "" No, uncle, I ...... I want to call ...... "" Oh, you hit it! "Thank you, uncle, and long-distance calls can also play this?" "Of course you can ! international calls can fight. "
The little girl carefully picked up the microphone, and moved a number of seriously good text tert disturb the girl simply pretended like reading magazines, leaned to the side. Little girl panic slowly relaxed, the phone finally opened up: "Mom ... Mom! Kogiku, how are you? Mom with my uncle came to Tongxiang, last month uncle wages, he gave me 50 bucks, I have put money on the pillow, I gather the 500 mail to go to his brother to pay tuition, buy fertilizer to give the father. "little girl thought for a moment and said:" Mother, I tell you, my uncle's factory can eat meat every day, I have gained over the mother you worry, I can take care of themselves. Oh, by the way, my mother, the day before yesterday here an aunt gave me a red skirt, and now I'm wearing a skirt to call you Mom, uncle's factory watch TV, I like to see the film of the children studying in the school ... "Suddenly, the tone of voice of the little girl changed hand wiping his tears, "Mom, your stomach often hurt it? there flowers it? I miss home, want his brother to my father, miss you too, Mom, I really, really I miss you dream often dream ah! mom ... "
The girls never say no anymore, Wen Shu raised his head and looked at her lovingly, the girl hurriedly put down the microphone, panic microphone placed several times before to put it back on the phone. "Girl, homesick, right? Do not cry, have the opportunity to go home and see Mom and Dad." "Ah, uncle, telephone bills and how much money you?" Is not much you can say more with her mother for a while, I undercharged you a little money. "Uncle Wen habitually looked to the phone on the counter, my God, he suddenly found that the electronic display of the phone is not even charges the girl's phone did not get through!" Damn, girl, I'm sorry! you have to re-fight, just, ah, your phone is not turned on ... "Well, I know, uncle!" In fact ...... In fact, our hometown no phone call. "Uncle Wen puzzled and asked:" you just not talk to my mother yet? "little girl finally Kuchu sound:" In fact, I do not have a mother, my mother has been dead for more than four years ... every time I see his uncle and his companions to call home phone, I really envy them, I just want them to my mother play call his mother to speak ... "After listening to the remarks of the little girl, the text hand tert could not help, rubbed his reading glasses back the tears: "Good boy do not be sad, you just say, she must have heard my mother, she may be watching you, you are so naive, so dutiful daughter, she will be happy after you can in a week on here to call your mother and uncle do not charge you money. "
Since then, the master of this little country girl and city kiosks, had forged this "Food of Love". Every Saturday afternoon, Wen Shu here waiting for the little girl, the girl through a phone line and a phone number does not exist, the earth and heaven, mind and soul connection straight to the desire.
2012年12月13日星期四
political arrangements
Han Fu political arrangements in accordance with the notice of the State Council on the 2013 part of the holiday arrangements ", in 2013 many workers will face an eight consecutive days of work, the special case of three for seven consecutive days of work.
Han Fu Zheng pointed out that, under section 38 of the labor law in China, "the employer shall ensure its workers at least one day a week". "The provisions of the State Council on the working hours of employees, the provisions of Article 3," workers eight hours a day, working 40 hours a week ".
He believes, according to the above specific provisions, general laborers week work only five days a particular case, the employer must also ensure its workers at least 24 hours a day of rest per week.
New Year Festival "in accordance with the arrangements of the 'notice' for eight consecutive days to work continuously after the Spring Festival seven days of work. 8 days and 7 days spanning two weeks, is not consecutive week, two holiday arrangements involve generalized the law and narrow understanding, let's regardless of whether it is an offense, but before the Labor Day 7 consecutive days of work, the Dragon Boat Festival for seven consecutive days before the work occurred within a week from Monday to Sunday. "Han Fu-cheng said.
In his view, continuously on duty seven days a week, which is obviously set the situation of the employer alleged labor law violations, the laborer is therefore deprived of their statutory right to rest at least one day a week.
2012年12月12日星期三
Two List
14 years ago, that stormy night, I deserted, followed love you to Shenzhen for a working girl. Poor after you get the job in addition to sick mother, ailing father and half-broken tile roofs, the rest of me. Remember When I first came to Shenzhen to work the way I did a month Private teacher wages costs.
I have suffered are to life with Zhang Xiangshou.
Perhaps my vision is good, you are great. Today, 10 years later, when my family all the people breathed a sigh of relief, forgive me that I did not marry the wrong husband, with the car, with the villa but you said to me bluntly, you find the "soul Concert If I am willing to dissolution of marriage, property, children gave me; otherwise you betray me, I can not complain about it.
I laughed and said three days later to give you an answer.
Three days later, I set out a list of marriage to give you a look over:
A marriage of 10 years, you wear old 3 sets of pajamas, worn out four pairs of slippers, worn out 21 pairs of shoes. The shoes break up, because the more time you spent money out, so there will be successful "Mind Salon" fancy.
2. Marriage 10 years, I wear old 10 sets of pajamas, forward rotten 11 pairs of slippers, riding bad 16 pairs of shoes. My broken slippers and shoes, because I take care of home and children more time than you, a lot of time outside and you fought side by side, worked hard, I became freshness "Huanglian Po.
3. Marriage of 10 years, evergreens your appreciation X times, after the divorce, discharged from Shenzhen Hangzhou so many beautiful women waiting for "successful, mature and good taste" you pick.
4 youth fast disappearing devalued 10,000 times; 10 years of marriage, divorce I remarried 1%, I despise old men of similar age and I call a spade a spade, unless bad general The man is not willing to marry a middle-aged woman with children.
5. Marriage 10 years, busy only cooked 26 meals for me to eat.
6. Marriage of 10 years, a busy year of 365 days, daily meals, good food for you to eat.
7 10-year marriage to give birth to a child, I spent 10 months, raising, education, taught for 10 years.
8 10 years of marriage, a child, you spent 10 minutes, and gave him a surname.
9, 10 years of marriage, my parents and you live in harmony, not a loud discourse.
10 marriage of 10 years, you have been unwilling to forgive her daughter eager parents did not yell too loudly Mom and Dad. Poverty when you say my mom and dad will not answer you, you resolutely refused to call; no longer afraid of them had not called after money. Are you willing to own daughter to be able to choose when to choose poverty? Hope that their daughter is rich, it is human nature!
Dear, if you read the summary of the above marriage, with his eyes looked at me and said the divorce, I grant your wish. What time do you told me, I promise you divorce.
, I just waited for you for a year, you did not mention the matter of divorce. Become to go home early, wash cooking will be mopping the floor, you are not to redeem it? Perhaps, because the majority of conscience, in this world or a house more than prison!
2012年12月11日星期二
Love is the need for capacity
Have, we do not know love, easy coquetry When the wayward. Love a person have the right to overbearing and said: "Do not wear that dress, ugly death. Wear this, this is my new you buy." Zhang Xiaofeng says "a woman's views on love. In fact, a lot of women in front of their men are so overbearing wayward. We thought that love him, have the right to him, do not like him. We thought that love him, you can look at his pockets, watching his chats, check his mailbox. We thought that love him, of course, you can hide in front of him to vent our emotions -
Overbearing, self-willed, as long as our overbearing allow him to realize our dependence, our headstrong to make him happy, all emotions are cute like a baby: in the silence of the night, you rub his pregnant inside, refused to go to bed like a baby; tired of walking when you walk him back you spoiled;, you shook his arms and kissed his face is like a baby when he was angry. Short, spoiled is the spice of love, is the natural expression of intimate love, coquetry never quarrel fuse. When coquetry into a stubborn, When our wayward become unreasonable, when our love into distrust. Dear, love and our drifting away -
Have, we do not know love, easy to suspect when ridicule -
We love him, really, this love can even penetrated the bone marrow. We thought that the only man in the world best, we think we love the man, another woman must like. So, we put him in the mouth with the fear, afraid of breaking my hands. We do not know that what treasure we go, we become about the outcome, nervous -
Because I love him, so we are afraid of losing. Our fear of accidentally, and he which woman to Guaipao the. So, we begin to lose self, we begin to be sensitive, suspicious -
Love him, and we will believe him. Only if you believe him, you can happier. Because you feel happy, you will love him, and he will love you more. Suspected once implanted in your mind, and your love will disappear a little bit. Because you always would like to put him at worst, nature, psychological suggestion own every day to stay away from him. You are in pain, suffering, and you hurt yourself, hurt with love. Love is not possession, love is forgiving generosity Mastery understand -
"Chinese-style divorce" Lin Xiaofeng finally understand the truth, she said: Love is the need for capacity. Because I do not have this ability, so I failed, so I love the talent so desperate to be away from me -
Love is the need for capacity. That ability is, let the people you love to love you -
2012年12月10日星期一
Chance to Win
I'm not good at speech, just want to thank the members of the Nobel Committee have generously granted me the honor here.
Any writer, when he knows there are many great writers have not received this prize impossible peace of mind to accept the award without feeling not deserve. Here we do not have to enumerate the names of these great writers. Because here are listed based on his knowledge and conscience own list.
I request the ambassadors of their country, I read this speech on behalf of, but want felt by the mind of a writer say the best is not easy. Something a person works may not be immediately understood, at this point, sometimes he is fortunate; but the passage of time, in the end they will be very clear, according to the size of them, and the writers have the Midas touch skills, writer immortal works will make or forgotten.
Writing is in peak condition, is a lonely career. While various writers' organization can alleviate the loneliness of the writer, but I suspect they may not be able to promote the creation of the writer. A writer grew up surrounded by the crowd being, of course, you can get rid of the sense of his loneliness, but he works tend to flow in mediocrity. A writer working alone in solitude, if he is indeed striking, must daily face eternity, or face eternal lack.
For a real writer, his every work should continue to explore a new starting point for those who have not yet reached the field. It should always try something never been done before, or someone else did not pan out, so that he have the chance to win.
2012年12月9日星期日
Old Couple
The Old Couple, the word is really a touching. Contains not only love, it is a non-banned status. From newlyweds to practice to this level of "wife", Bureau posts to be even more difficult than the early age of civil servants to rise, here the number of inclusive commitment, trust, appreciation and loyalty ...
When they began to call each other "wife", between husband and wife truly enter nirvana: Do not you hate his "Mediterranean", beer belly, you only care about the "three high", no longer care about your measurements. Many have very sensitive topic, such as the name of your former male (female) friends, that once you or his brooding romance "Today is not when a mutual funny jokes! Happiness of his wife's life is similar: a day in the Mamalielie contention quarrel noisy usher in a sunny new day. Is a foul-mouthed, philandering wife specific.
Need to operate a happy marriage, marriage is like a tango,
Need someone into someone retired, co-ordination, tacit action. Stepped on the foot, stumbling are very normal. Know understand social dance tango dance partner is not temporary pull with the general will have a fixed partner, because the tango is particularly stressed the tacit understanding. So marriage as the tango, but marriage is different from the tango: a tango ten minutes would be finished, whenever there is a contradiction, endure what passed. Marriage this tango, but it is going to jump a lifetime! So, it is not enough to rely on patience. Patience but also revealed that she, communication, otherwise, it would never be more than a "partner" practicing less than the realm of the "wife".
The couple dispute is normal, "courteous, Juanqimei" is not necessarily a happy couple, the confrontation of ideas, not personal views. So bustling contention dispute enforcement for decades, more and more without scruples "wife" period - two hand in hand to the supermarket to buy what you want to compete, go for a walk, who go too fast, who is too slow to have to fight car time which way to where to Shui have to fight ...... are his wife, nothing Kaibulekou? So noisy join both the Alumni Association and retired colleagues for dinner, go to the gym, to participate in a variety of activities to accompany each other ... his wife a little like Siamese twins - a young man constantly cries do not lose in marriage self, and strive to have their own private space, think that only when you call each other husband took his wife's hand, only the most insecure!
When the marriage run-in to call each other husband, the feelings between each other than, "I love you" expressed a deep, because the two have one each other, you have me, I have you. Just as "War and Peace" Bier said his wife Natasha: You say that I love my fingers? Perhaps I will not be a day to feel I love it because it has become a form part of my body, once I missing fingers, it is far less than just sadness and pain, because I have mutilated. This is the feelings of the wife.
In China, the majority of the elderly are "old before getting rich", but as long as his wife to accompany the side, is the richest.
His wife is the most successful marriage and moisture level. Today found that many young couples in the parents of such a "sunset is magnificent," valuable time, in order to allow a mother to their children, virtually "forcing" Mom and Dad separated. Perhaps the young people feel that all this age, what separated not separated. They do not know, Mom and Dad is very cruel. Young couples, Japan, long, small do heart grow fonder; wife, I said, is the Siamese twins, both traveled thousands of miles, finally ushered in the "sunset is magnificent," but "it is almost dusk, let the old the dad mom multi point Sishou time!
When they began to call each other "wife", between husband and wife truly enter nirvana: Do not you hate his "Mediterranean", beer belly, you only care about the "three high", no longer care about your measurements. Many have very sensitive topic, such as the name of your former male (female) friends, that once you or his brooding romance "Today is not when a mutual funny jokes! Happiness of his wife's life is similar: a day in the Mamalielie contention quarrel noisy usher in a sunny new day. Is a foul-mouthed, philandering wife specific.
Need to operate a happy marriage, marriage is like a tango,
Need someone into someone retired, co-ordination, tacit action. Stepped on the foot, stumbling are very normal. Know understand social dance tango dance partner is not temporary pull with the general will have a fixed partner, because the tango is particularly stressed the tacit understanding. So marriage as the tango, but marriage is different from the tango: a tango ten minutes would be finished, whenever there is a contradiction, endure what passed. Marriage this tango, but it is going to jump a lifetime! So, it is not enough to rely on patience. Patience but also revealed that she, communication, otherwise, it would never be more than a "partner" practicing less than the realm of the "wife".
The couple dispute is normal, "courteous, Juanqimei" is not necessarily a happy couple, the confrontation of ideas, not personal views. So bustling contention dispute enforcement for decades, more and more without scruples "wife" period - two hand in hand to the supermarket to buy what you want to compete, go for a walk, who go too fast, who is too slow to have to fight car time which way to where to Shui have to fight ...... are his wife, nothing Kaibulekou? So noisy join both the Alumni Association and retired colleagues for dinner, go to the gym, to participate in a variety of activities to accompany each other ... his wife a little like Siamese twins - a young man constantly cries do not lose in marriage self, and strive to have their own private space, think that only when you call each other husband took his wife's hand, only the most insecure!
When the marriage run-in to call each other husband, the feelings between each other than, "I love you" expressed a deep, because the two have one each other, you have me, I have you. Just as "War and Peace" Bier said his wife Natasha: You say that I love my fingers? Perhaps I will not be a day to feel I love it because it has become a form part of my body, once I missing fingers, it is far less than just sadness and pain, because I have mutilated. This is the feelings of the wife.
In China, the majority of the elderly are "old before getting rich", but as long as his wife to accompany the side, is the richest.
His wife is the most successful marriage and moisture level. Today found that many young couples in the parents of such a "sunset is magnificent," valuable time, in order to allow a mother to their children, virtually "forcing" Mom and Dad separated. Perhaps the young people feel that all this age, what separated not separated. They do not know, Mom and Dad is very cruel. Young couples, Japan, long, small do heart grow fonder; wife, I said, is the Siamese twins, both traveled thousands of miles, finally ushered in the "sunset is magnificent," but "it is almost dusk, let the old the dad mom multi point Sishou time!
2012年12月6日星期四
Stay
The group at the hold mouth, alone hold the heart. Actually teach people how to conduct themselves in society.
The group at the to hold mouth, solitude hold the heart group to hold the mouth. Get along with others, to pay attention to their own language. To get along with others, rhetoric, it seems that the broad perspective, knowledgeable huge accumulation, know ye not that the impression is frivolous, superficial and arrogant. Along with others, would like to say that is to say, there is no masking, no evasive, often inadvertently hurt others.
Silence is golden, this extremely simple language contains extremely intriguing truth. -
Silence does not mean that thinking stop. Deep thoughts often derived from the the seemingly silent thinking process. Temporarily silence the people, positive thinking in silence, listened in effective trade-offs can often misses the point, Midas touch shows insights, Lingrenganpei admiration. -
The silence does not represent the thinking of emptiness. The silence is a ready to wait for the process, and the silence of the earth in the birth of the autumn harvest, the silence of the eagle in the waiting wings of the fly, severe winter silence Blossoming Spring is in the build-up.
Silence savings momentum. Often Winners applaud, but I do not know they are willing to silence, willing spirit to silence. Is the so-called late bloomer, Great Music, not craze, blockbuster is. -
Silence is a quality that is an accomplishment, is demanding constraints, is a severe test of their own will, is the a reasonable manner insistence and patience. -
Solitude hold the heart. Heart of ancient saying goes, a man of integrity, Zhao's world, not the people I do not know. That gentleman Tan sway. The hustle and bustle of Sai dust, snobbish disputes, to live in this world, will inevitably encounter goes wrong, things go wrong. How to deal with these things it is a severe test of human virtue.
Often late at night, alone Vipassana its heart, the true face of their own will be surfacing. Often reflect on, you will feel really my show so usually hiding the truth from your fake my true colors, and this you will shame really treat the true soul. Formed such a habit, your realm will be continuously improved. Therefore, the Analects I three times daily is also
One alone, often thinking of others for their own benefits, you will be kind to everyone. So, you are willing to pay for him, and are willing to connect with him, friendship between people will be Lang Syne. -
A person alone, often thinking about the benefits of others, you will let their own feelings of superiority continues to expand, thus losing the true nature. When he moment regarding doing against you, you will feel wronged, feel uncomfortable, you will find a reason to punish him, which is not conducive to the improvement of personality is not conducive to the harmonious interpersonal.
So, when you encounter happy, you have to remember to exercise restraint, because to get carried away, carried away the hurt this forgetting volatile. When you encounter the confusion, you have to step back and thinking, step back even better.
An idea of the good, all is good. An idea of evil, are evil! So you want to develop a group at Moriguchi, alone to keep the good habits of the heart!
The group at the to hold mouth, solitude hold the heart group to hold the mouth. Get along with others, to pay attention to their own language. To get along with others, rhetoric, it seems that the broad perspective, knowledgeable huge accumulation, know ye not that the impression is frivolous, superficial and arrogant. Along with others, would like to say that is to say, there is no masking, no evasive, often inadvertently hurt others.
Silence is golden, this extremely simple language contains extremely intriguing truth. -
Silence does not mean that thinking stop. Deep thoughts often derived from the the seemingly silent thinking process. Temporarily silence the people, positive thinking in silence, listened in effective trade-offs can often misses the point, Midas touch shows insights, Lingrenganpei admiration. -
The silence does not represent the thinking of emptiness. The silence is a ready to wait for the process, and the silence of the earth in the birth of the autumn harvest, the silence of the eagle in the waiting wings of the fly, severe winter silence Blossoming Spring is in the build-up.
Silence savings momentum. Often Winners applaud, but I do not know they are willing to silence, willing spirit to silence. Is the so-called late bloomer, Great Music, not craze, blockbuster is. -
Silence is a quality that is an accomplishment, is demanding constraints, is a severe test of their own will, is the a reasonable manner insistence and patience. -
Solitude hold the heart. Heart of ancient saying goes, a man of integrity, Zhao's world, not the people I do not know. That gentleman Tan sway. The hustle and bustle of Sai dust, snobbish disputes, to live in this world, will inevitably encounter goes wrong, things go wrong. How to deal with these things it is a severe test of human virtue.
Often late at night, alone Vipassana its heart, the true face of their own will be surfacing. Often reflect on, you will feel really my show so usually hiding the truth from your fake my true colors, and this you will shame really treat the true soul. Formed such a habit, your realm will be continuously improved. Therefore, the Analects I three times daily is also
One alone, often thinking of others for their own benefits, you will be kind to everyone. So, you are willing to pay for him, and are willing to connect with him, friendship between people will be Lang Syne. -
A person alone, often thinking about the benefits of others, you will let their own feelings of superiority continues to expand, thus losing the true nature. When he moment regarding doing against you, you will feel wronged, feel uncomfortable, you will find a reason to punish him, which is not conducive to the improvement of personality is not conducive to the harmonious interpersonal.
So, when you encounter happy, you have to remember to exercise restraint, because to get carried away, carried away the hurt this forgetting volatile. When you encounter the confusion, you have to step back and thinking, step back even better.
An idea of the good, all is good. An idea of evil, are evil! So you want to develop a group at Moriguchi, alone to keep the good habits of the heart!
2012年12月5日星期三
Strive for Tomrrow
TIAN Wei-like text, whether it is her positive or her selfless fascination with the color of her characters - the event which the world has never, then, what regrets, what sad life stumble twists, death The quiet of the night, turn to dust, attributed to rain, I no longer have in this world, but everywhere I.
[Capricorn]
Capricorn traits too heavy people they say there are not very happy, lonely and boring childhood, lack dressed youth that shoot "the Kikujiro the summer" Takeshi Kitano, the twenty-year-old began writing Murakami Haruki, that has become the King of Jay, no one doubted Capricorn has tremendous energy. dear Capricorn child, someone always says, to live such a contradiction is a tiring thing, the appearance of serious rock-solid, but my mind was Some Like It Hot, full of confidence, there is little sense of inferiority. deep and shallow flowers Youth Chinese I Capricorn.
[Black day /'s going to rain / day black / black
Light and shadow roll, overlapping into the time and what my life is still faire selfish with my kid threw temper tantrums, there is always a lot of people behind me with me uneasy and lonely with the moment appease, if they never be forgotten when I stand up alone when everything, in front of this lush world, countless fork in too many cars too many people the end is always unclear I understand the adult world there always hidden flaws, but also I was at ease to meet. risked my pursuit afar I believe has been them to accompany me to live a simple life.
My youth! Youth!]
If dazed, just forget the past, so always delusions desperate Polaris light, stumbled in looking for time lost Eden. Always facing the sun smiling sunflower wither before last blooming gorgeous in wither being freeze condensate is eternal legend is no longer naive, can no longer get a the windward flying dandelion fluff excited to know what to do. Dazed and Confused edges paper airplane quietly away and left lying in an ivory tower the other side, I think, I was growing up.
[Crystal ball, whether it is in the Queen's hands or in witch the hands I would like to ask that
In mind, but not in the side, not wronged, but gradually forget wronged, is not so naive as to not to care about the calculations, but regardless of the calculations are useless, could not contain the heart of the renegade, to invest in him as long as he eyes , frown or a smile, she has become such a swing can not be determined.
[You will pain you cry I guess I do not have a strong heart]
I was afraid of thunder child, I always panic when the middle of the night playing Ray went to the parents' room, the mother will rope me in the side, murmured, not afraid not afraid of lightning across the night sky, polish the night I curled up in the protection of the mother slowly calm mother gave me the most safe and inclusive. later that day, the mother did in me when thunder hold my hand holding at all times of danger. my shoulder who?
[World a stare dad is my mother's gray soldiers]
Naive days before, in addition to the daily relative tarried in the side of the father and mother, or turn around Mom and Dad, stored in the memory of the sum of the images they associated often precipitated sad extricate themselves, and turned around to see the world eventually found some pictures of, dare Panasonic an inexplicable from the gas in high school should be a great turning point, a lot of time is no longer so dependent on their carefully tended, I think in their heart Although I can not be an independent little girl However, there will always be days I have to face the fact that I shortly afterwards need to leave home independent, they may my heart still turn the ball less, but is no longer complete.
[I will always miss you like a darling]
Seems all youth detached things are beautiful, so even if you only glance I was a boy, has become my wound amazing memories I remember, I like you, like, dare with love, I like it very much like your own, or that the mere appearance, carefully treasure a heart, silence not play because youth can not afford so heavy word;
I like you, like that time like your own.
That time is no longer the only years of sedimentation a somewhat heavy imply to.
[Optional Ju sent to your side / to softly sing your favorite song]
Sometimes, some of the melody can change my mood. Flock of birds flying south, each spring will come back, I can stand on the roof to wait for them to fly over my head, waiting for their feathers were numerous falls as spring most gentle Yanghwa But those who leave, no matter what I have long to wait, they were scattered in the horizon, voice and facial expression, no miss.
[Pulled out of my life since I will no longer have a life you]
I have been thinking to me how a man, he can tolerate my bad temper to hide my smile inside it can be seen that, in fact, not happy, it can know, in fact, I am not a good student, because I was live forward to a demon incinerated I already stricken heart of corruption, he can know that I quietly when in fact, be very afraid, because I tend to think so as far as it will not let me alone, that he can stay with me with the sink can also walked out of demons, he appeared in front of me when I need it most to give me a hug, he can in my lonely give me a bright flower smile, he can be when I suddenly mad know I was rather crazy for what I most want to abandon the life he gave me a slap in the face to scold me awake, his life and I know each other intersect the premise that he can hide in a corner I cry when accompanied with me crying and then swore me silly not stupid, he can understand my heart but if I do not want it can be installed as a daft as a brush, he also can Houchu I heard Wang Xin Yan, You idiot, but I know I probably never encountered such a person this is too good not fit with my acquaintance.
[Everything can not kill you will only make you stronger.]
All buried in the sand into the city, all the ugly face exposed to the air, a lot of warm and legend, and then even more disheartened to break the all pressed powder piled up the ugly face of all the circumstances. asphalt polybrene good and evil, life is every thing has whether good or bad, no one qualified to trample alive disregard, but every life has long gauge, regardless of the relationship, it is also even and then close again efforts not touch life needs more love more warm and I do not deny that the reality is the reality, it requires you how you have to do, what also can not escape is the reality on the contrary can only destroy.
2012年12月4日星期二
Two Letters From Father
The end of the college entrance examination. Goodbye to the pile of papers that pile and burning the midnight oil studying for the night, but my mood can not be relaxed. When the postman father every day from dawn to dusk, run around, work hard and support their families. Although he all day unlike other parents as talks about the college entrance examination, but I know he is also all hope sustenance in me. If this test is not good, how to be accountable to him?
The next few days, I have all day to stay at home and do nothing, came up to find some work to do. But father, I just want to exercise it. He listened to my thoughts, the silent child, said: "graduation, you like fun to play with. Okay dad, earn enough to you to go to school, do not even think about." In fact, the situation at home I clear all pointed to the father's point of wages, every month stretched. However, I have not heard him, find a company that can accept their own construction sites. Boss see that I'm sincere, let me do some miscellaneous family. Every day, I will be in his father left to go out, and then go home before he finishes his work. But not an unventilated wall under the sun, or was my children's things in the site work to tell his father. -
One afternoon, the father deliberately bypass the incoming mail site, far to find me. I'm ready to Tibet, it was too late. Father, like a lost child at this time, the hand on the handlebars, stare pestle in there. I pretended not to find him, head down, sweat continue working children. -
The night I came home from the site. Father see my body up and down dirty, eyes suddenly wet. Eyes shining crystal clear and bright smile. He Sheng dumplings end of a full bowl I like to eat at my desk and commanded me to hurry to eat. -
The HKALE results would be released that day, I get up early and went straight to school on his bicycle along a familiar piece of road. Very heavy heart, nervous heart like a hastily rotating wheels the same uneasy. To the classroom to see the mood of the students are very different part of the sorrow and pain;, some of them rejoice and be glad. The teacher came up to me holding transcripts, cheerful, said: "The college entrance examination results in the school seems you are still very good, the University score than you'd expect even higher than 40 points." My one, watching transcripts hearts happiness. -
Noon I Jianbu got home, my father was doing quietly on the sofa smoking mouthful. He saw me, and quickly stubbed out a cigarette, stood up and asked my grades. I told the teacher that the very good results, the ecstatic father listened to, actually once again I am treated like a boy hugging his mouth with both hands stretched out the rough crack: "Good, good, good, Dad know you are the best, and did not let them down ah. "Then the father told the mother to cook a few road dishes, his house took out a bottle of liquor, and I know that is the weekdays reluctant River collection over years of wine. The father opened the bottle of liquor, carefully pour a full glass or two of concern, saying: "Come on, today we Yeliang good to drink a few glasses!" I took the father handed me the cup of the wine in one gulp. -
"Come, come," Then my father gave me poured a full glass of, then we gulp. -
That only remember his father drank a lot, and feel their own minds a little vertigo, I said to him: "Dad, we do not drink, do not drunk!"
The father listened, the red neck smiled and nodded and said: "Well, you do not drink, Davis in the coming few glasses, Davis is pleased."
Hearing this, my nose is slightly acid. Mother in the side of comfort: "Your father is old, along with him, let him Comin good to drink a few glasses."
A few days later, the father came back from the post office, the hand my college acceptance letter. His side into the house side look elated: "Congratulations, your son Goldbond nomination!"
Hee hee smile mother, yell rushed father: "do? Do not forget, this is not inside your home."
Father chuckled, pointing to the notice began to say to them: "Look, this is not a happy from the post office to the house where nobody Chouchou show him a Zan son is Kwame glorious!"
Since then, I know I of this notice, good save by his father in his bedroom drawer only come when he hastened to come up with to make everyone look. I also know that the father every night before lamp office will open the drawer glance, so that he would then do his thing. -
Day, while the father has not come back to work. I sneaked into his room, opened a drawer in the middle of the bookcase most see neatly inside stood a large pile of books, I notice placed by the father in the middle of the flat Crimping. Come up with the notice, the following also pressing two stacked with good note. I carefully open the Set eyes, turned out to be the father wrote to me, but I have not been to see two of the most simple letter, his father said in it:
Dear son: -
Father know you best, your teacher proud parents proud folks. You to pursue efforts to struggle and will certainly reap the sweet fruit, bless you after azure sky to open up one of their own in their former way street road! -
Love you dad -
Another says: -
Dear son: -
This test is not good, you do not have to have a little remorse, blame, blame no fault of their own. Your pursuit of efforts to again struggle but it is impossible to time can be very successful, believe in yourself! Zan good review, next year is sure to test out a good result. To believe that the sun after the storm. -
Always supports your father -
Just two brief note, but I looked for. Moment, my tears unscrupulous cicada wins the orbital and the next moment I finally understood the father's selfless love. Know how to fly, fly fatherly Qingqi that blue sky! -
Text / Jinhua Jiang -
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2012年12月3日星期一
Learn to Be Brave
Everyone in life will encounter some difficult and unpredictable things, like me, this story, I think only only on TV screen. But: When I experienced these things, know that life is indeed a pain and joy coexist today, I wrote a story yesterday. I hope you and I calmly ....... - Inscription
Is my happiest day in March 2000, my husband and I into a private company in Nanjing units, after two years of work, the preparations for the wedding, when we do not have a house, a rental house that we both marriage room, simple tourist back in his hometown, to handle the banquet even if married, our hands down the wedding left thirty thousand yuan. The reason we do this is that we want to leave extra money to buy a house with to prevent our marriage around.
Hard work pays off, in August 2000 the company began the implementation of welfare housing distribution, the husband was to be regarded as the backbone of the company, to be included in the list of welfare housing, and soon the implementation of sound, we have to get a house of their own, simple the wedding hands of the remaining three million has become a life-saving food. Most of the company out of the half remaining grandfathers and grandmothers Chouqi. At that time I was 26 years old, seems to be the most happy people of this world. My husband and I juggle a busy forgot almost all mother-in-law father-in-law also helped us to spend time together with, when our family be enjoyable.
However, there are unexpected storms, people have always happens. In Shen invasion joy among us in the new house the first Dragon Boat Festival in May 2001, the phone about a father-in-law to work in Nanjing with over. At noon that day feeling father looks very haggard, nor drink wine, eat too little, which is usually the father-in-law of state is completely incompatible. Asked his situation he was just very calm and said I heard estimates stomach problems, eating rice, a short break, the father-in-law went back to his unit, the night her husband came back to my father-in-law's a lot like her husband described her husband immediately telephoned her father-in-law, who told him to go to the hospital to check, he refused to go, was delayed until July, he realized the seriousness, and called her husband to accompany him to the hospital for a gastroscopy, in a week long waiting, our hearts just as jack pressing, and get a report card time, we like thunderstruck, ultimately concerns become a reality, a gastric cancer. Can not believe this is true, but the facts tell us, have to accept. Conceal his condition when we stabilize the mood when a call and told abdominal hydrocephalus to surgery immediately, and then called to tell her mother.
When we buy a house to get married, the remaining money can say the same, my mother-in-law borrowed from relatives and three million, live in the hospital immediately. And through a series of checks, and then the implementation of the surgical resection, two-thirds of the father-in-law of gastrectomy, when the doctor holding a bowl of bloody tumor out, my mother-in-law fainted.
Father-in-law be regarded as successful surgery in a series of postoperative chemotherapy has not suffered any injury, with normal to see the people of the father-in-law said he was not sick. When I got married there three years, 61-year-old father-in-law has no grandchildren yet, I want to have children in the father's repeated requests, the expected date of birth is July 23, 2003, I regularly checked during pregnancy months to find out I'm pregnant with twins for the first time, I told the good news of the father-in-law, he was excited even speechless. The arrival of our family for maybe a little angel, all of them smiling, still feel God is finally fair.
Two little guys grow up happy in my stomach, there are twenty days necessary childbirth may at that time my body because of excessive bile acids, each part of the powerful itch night sleep . I lay in bed in the morning of July 3, two little guys keep moving in my stomach, and stomach also began to slight pain. O'clock was admitted to the hospital, the doctor I do check found bloody amniotic fluid, and only one fetal heart in action, several doctors busy busy hands and feet I advanced operating table immediately cesarean production surgery, results of another little angel or God merciless claimed lives. The news was not dare to tell her father-in-law, afraid he can not accept a grandson who died at things. But the father-in-law asked her mother to two children, I was born and also healthy when her mother could no longer bear this sad news to tell the father repeatedly asked. Father-in-law fell at this time, although there are two sons, 61-year-old father-in-law is still not a grandson, wish I can safely gave birth to his two grandchildren. One month's time the disease again attacked the body of the father-in-law, the full moon 42 days when I return home with my daughter and a regret, father-in-law in order to see a granddaughter of fierce resistance to the pain of torture. When I go back to see the father-in-law only skinny when tears could no longer bear it, such as the heavy rain pouring instantly blurred eyes. See the next morning granddaughter's father-in-law and serene close your eyes, forever.
I remember in August 2003. At that time, I was like pushed into an abyss, all of a sudden lost two relatives I complain Heaven tease in people, give me the beginning of a smooth, let me bear life in such a big blow.
In the subsequent two years time, finally smooth over, the godfather relative child at home. Life can be considered enjoyable. God seems intentionally and against me in November 2006, my body discomfort, but fortunately, not a serious illness in the hospital for twenty days were discharged. Then I have to go to work, kids kindergarten days forward in such a dull life.
Since the father-in-law after the death of her mother has been feeling bad stomach, we is not her mother-in-law and honest son at home Dependence, home of all things or mother-in-law to command the two pro-oldest maternal aunt, mother-in-law is unique in the home can rely, however, In the final stage, the mother-in-law for a checkup but did not tell the two oldest maternal aunt. While in Nanjing, in fact it is thinking about the body of the mother-in-law, is very worried about her mother doing numerous inspections are not abnormal, August 2007, her mother phoned to tell her husband that she suffered from esophageal cancer, called how we I believe that this is true, my mother-in-law for fear that we are worried that she did not tell us, did not tell the oldest maternal aunt, she went to the hospital last gastroscopy result, she is also a person to pick up the report, finally playing to the phone to tell the bad news of this bolt from the blue. Then we only bad news to tell the two oldest maternal aunt. The two oldest maternal aunt then broke down in tears, their sisters three in the case of the mother-in-law living in the rural areas, the other two are living in the city, and the children of the two oldest maternal aunt usually good care of her mother. When he learned the sad news of her mother, they could bear.
We called in the case of helpless oldest maternal aunt with her mother to go to the Cancer Hospital in the diagnosis, when a glimmer of hope lies in the Cancer Hospital in Nanjing, hope the result is misdiagnosed, but when her husband once again got the report and did not help crying, mother-in-law is a cancer of the esophagus spray door, very serious, if not timely surgery dangerous to life and immediately with the mother-in-law do inpatient surgery, when the mother-in-law on the operating table doctor opened her chest and back between a full a foot of the hole, the desire to let her mother-in-law to survive the surgery was successful. Mother-in-law you'd rather die in the two years of chemotherapy in late, living death, to every chemotherapy will allow her mother to go to the gates of hell to go once. The chemotherapy her in bed Heartbreakers. But the mother is reported to have a glimmer of hope, always hope that once the chemotherapy will allow her to live another day. Last CT examination, the doctor told us has been transferred to the body of the mother-in-law of the cancer cells are, and we did not tell her mother the truth, my mother-in-law always thought that her illness will be good, of course we are also trying to tie with the mother-in-law, also want to have turn of Health last chemotherapy in mother-in-law could no longer afford to resist chemotherapy side effects fall.
Mother-in-law after two years of pain and suffering, at 8 o'clock in the morning on July 5 with a nostalgic, a sadness and regret died, aged 61 years.
Gone through so many things, I did not expect I was the master of the story, before will see the story of such newspapers or appear on TV screen, I did not think I'd experienced. Mother-in-law passed away two years time, not demand that rich, just for the sake of family peace.
Experienced so many strong and brave, and maybe this is God to the test of our lives, that we have to have the courage to accept it. Although life is very unfair to me, but I learned in life strong, Brave, learned to accept.
I hope my story can help those who are negative and have lost confidence in friends. I also hope that this article can bring you more inspiration alive, we must be strong, brave of you to accept things. Everything past, everything will be fine.
I do not miss the deceased's family, but strong.
Is my happiest day in March 2000, my husband and I into a private company in Nanjing units, after two years of work, the preparations for the wedding, when we do not have a house, a rental house that we both marriage room, simple tourist back in his hometown, to handle the banquet even if married, our hands down the wedding left thirty thousand yuan. The reason we do this is that we want to leave extra money to buy a house with to prevent our marriage around.
Hard work pays off, in August 2000 the company began the implementation of welfare housing distribution, the husband was to be regarded as the backbone of the company, to be included in the list of welfare housing, and soon the implementation of sound, we have to get a house of their own, simple the wedding hands of the remaining three million has become a life-saving food. Most of the company out of the half remaining grandfathers and grandmothers Chouqi. At that time I was 26 years old, seems to be the most happy people of this world. My husband and I juggle a busy forgot almost all mother-in-law father-in-law also helped us to spend time together with, when our family be enjoyable.
However, there are unexpected storms, people have always happens. In Shen invasion joy among us in the new house the first Dragon Boat Festival in May 2001, the phone about a father-in-law to work in Nanjing with over. At noon that day feeling father looks very haggard, nor drink wine, eat too little, which is usually the father-in-law of state is completely incompatible. Asked his situation he was just very calm and said I heard estimates stomach problems, eating rice, a short break, the father-in-law went back to his unit, the night her husband came back to my father-in-law's a lot like her husband described her husband immediately telephoned her father-in-law, who told him to go to the hospital to check, he refused to go, was delayed until July, he realized the seriousness, and called her husband to accompany him to the hospital for a gastroscopy, in a week long waiting, our hearts just as jack pressing, and get a report card time, we like thunderstruck, ultimately concerns become a reality, a gastric cancer. Can not believe this is true, but the facts tell us, have to accept. Conceal his condition when we stabilize the mood when a call and told abdominal hydrocephalus to surgery immediately, and then called to tell her mother.
When we buy a house to get married, the remaining money can say the same, my mother-in-law borrowed from relatives and three million, live in the hospital immediately. And through a series of checks, and then the implementation of the surgical resection, two-thirds of the father-in-law of gastrectomy, when the doctor holding a bowl of bloody tumor out, my mother-in-law fainted.
Father-in-law be regarded as successful surgery in a series of postoperative chemotherapy has not suffered any injury, with normal to see the people of the father-in-law said he was not sick. When I got married there three years, 61-year-old father-in-law has no grandchildren yet, I want to have children in the father's repeated requests, the expected date of birth is July 23, 2003, I regularly checked during pregnancy months to find out I'm pregnant with twins for the first time, I told the good news of the father-in-law, he was excited even speechless. The arrival of our family for maybe a little angel, all of them smiling, still feel God is finally fair.
Two little guys grow up happy in my stomach, there are twenty days necessary childbirth may at that time my body because of excessive bile acids, each part of the powerful itch night sleep . I lay in bed in the morning of July 3, two little guys keep moving in my stomach, and stomach also began to slight pain. O'clock was admitted to the hospital, the doctor I do check found bloody amniotic fluid, and only one fetal heart in action, several doctors busy busy hands and feet I advanced operating table immediately cesarean production surgery, results of another little angel or God merciless claimed lives. The news was not dare to tell her father-in-law, afraid he can not accept a grandson who died at things. But the father-in-law asked her mother to two children, I was born and also healthy when her mother could no longer bear this sad news to tell the father repeatedly asked. Father-in-law fell at this time, although there are two sons, 61-year-old father-in-law is still not a grandson, wish I can safely gave birth to his two grandchildren. One month's time the disease again attacked the body of the father-in-law, the full moon 42 days when I return home with my daughter and a regret, father-in-law in order to see a granddaughter of fierce resistance to the pain of torture. When I go back to see the father-in-law only skinny when tears could no longer bear it, such as the heavy rain pouring instantly blurred eyes. See the next morning granddaughter's father-in-law and serene close your eyes, forever.
I remember in August 2003. At that time, I was like pushed into an abyss, all of a sudden lost two relatives I complain Heaven tease in people, give me the beginning of a smooth, let me bear life in such a big blow.
In the subsequent two years time, finally smooth over, the godfather relative child at home. Life can be considered enjoyable. God seems intentionally and against me in November 2006, my body discomfort, but fortunately, not a serious illness in the hospital for twenty days were discharged. Then I have to go to work, kids kindergarten days forward in such a dull life.
Since the father-in-law after the death of her mother has been feeling bad stomach, we is not her mother-in-law and honest son at home Dependence, home of all things or mother-in-law to command the two pro-oldest maternal aunt, mother-in-law is unique in the home can rely, however, In the final stage, the mother-in-law for a checkup but did not tell the two oldest maternal aunt. While in Nanjing, in fact it is thinking about the body of the mother-in-law, is very worried about her mother doing numerous inspections are not abnormal, August 2007, her mother phoned to tell her husband that she suffered from esophageal cancer, called how we I believe that this is true, my mother-in-law for fear that we are worried that she did not tell us, did not tell the oldest maternal aunt, she went to the hospital last gastroscopy result, she is also a person to pick up the report, finally playing to the phone to tell the bad news of this bolt from the blue. Then we only bad news to tell the two oldest maternal aunt. The two oldest maternal aunt then broke down in tears, their sisters three in the case of the mother-in-law living in the rural areas, the other two are living in the city, and the children of the two oldest maternal aunt usually good care of her mother. When he learned the sad news of her mother, they could bear.
We called in the case of helpless oldest maternal aunt with her mother to go to the Cancer Hospital in the diagnosis, when a glimmer of hope lies in the Cancer Hospital in Nanjing, hope the result is misdiagnosed, but when her husband once again got the report and did not help crying, mother-in-law is a cancer of the esophagus spray door, very serious, if not timely surgery dangerous to life and immediately with the mother-in-law do inpatient surgery, when the mother-in-law on the operating table doctor opened her chest and back between a full a foot of the hole, the desire to let her mother-in-law to survive the surgery was successful. Mother-in-law you'd rather die in the two years of chemotherapy in late, living death, to every chemotherapy will allow her mother to go to the gates of hell to go once. The chemotherapy her in bed Heartbreakers. But the mother is reported to have a glimmer of hope, always hope that once the chemotherapy will allow her to live another day. Last CT examination, the doctor told us has been transferred to the body of the mother-in-law of the cancer cells are, and we did not tell her mother the truth, my mother-in-law always thought that her illness will be good, of course we are also trying to tie with the mother-in-law, also want to have turn of Health last chemotherapy in mother-in-law could no longer afford to resist chemotherapy side effects fall.
Mother-in-law after two years of pain and suffering, at 8 o'clock in the morning on July 5 with a nostalgic, a sadness and regret died, aged 61 years.
Gone through so many things, I did not expect I was the master of the story, before will see the story of such newspapers or appear on TV screen, I did not think I'd experienced. Mother-in-law passed away two years time, not demand that rich, just for the sake of family peace.
Experienced so many strong and brave, and maybe this is God to the test of our lives, that we have to have the courage to accept it. Although life is very unfair to me, but I learned in life strong, Brave, learned to accept.
I hope my story can help those who are negative and have lost confidence in friends. I also hope that this article can bring you more inspiration alive, we must be strong, brave of you to accept things. Everything past, everything will be fine.
I do not miss the deceased's family, but strong.
2012年12月2日星期日
How to Live Happily
A blank is also a color
Into the inner depth live Favre Taichetaiwu under the Bodhi tree, enlightened my stove next to the world, not all things are worth wholeheartedly to do the appropriate blank one color.
It took me a long time to eat a small fruit, I read a long time did not finish one morning light readings, I spent the whole day in pajamas in the room wandered. Sometimes I leisurely get by, because I found the cause of course I have to create a temple, but should have a garden in the back of the temple.
Men busy fight for money and status, and indulge in trivial and vulgar, title, identity, property is full of every corner of life, this is not a blank life, and ultimately have a few not win the others, and lose his own .
The blank is not a Word romantic inaction to the leisurely, a leisurely wealthy naturally present, is the kind of wisdom and philosophy of life. The blank can unlock fame rope burden, it can remove the fortune to enjoy life camp, the fragrance of the night life big spit.
Blank Life is full of desire in life, life will never have peace of mind, there will be no quiet intoxication, not the spirit of pleasure, not to someone with a natural blend.
In this world, the art of living, sometimes is a blank art.
Live to more than one
There are countless forms of life, more than one living law. Others looked natural, awkward live a; live natural, others looked awkward and a. Their favorite day in this world, too, is the best day to live their favorite living law, is the best living law.
I was the envy of a location on the career, but then I respect this position most of the false respect, I gave up this envy. I had to look up a lot of character, and later I found after they leave the authority, and the rest is just petty, I no longer have this to look up. I had adored superior rich Later I found out that they are also dark Mu I relaxed, I no longer have this kind of worship. Not envious of others, do not humble themselves, according to their nature crossing finish their own time, that is, the days of heaven.
In the road of life, learn to enjoy life, to avoid dragging lives go forward, is the best choice in life; accustomed to no appreciation, not live for others to see, is the wisdom of life; nature save point incomprehensible place, the hearts unduly concerned about the era's face makes life more interesting.
The world, life is no fixed pattern, who for some purpose in a mode to framed their own, he sooner or later have to leave the laughing stock. Never uninstall the actor, always carrying his leadership of the shelf, turned most people Chi to nose.
I insist on looking for the living law, the hearts of most comfortable one. I am convinced that to do so is to get the people of God competitive talent.
Third, happiness is the smell of the soul
Happiness as a magnet, in life, such as iron. Philosophers and poets to explore the true meaning of life, said White is looking for one of their own happiness. Mortal beings, alive and dedication to the pursuit of love is sweet, the consummation of the marriage, career success, could there during which contains the well-being of humanity.
Happiness is the smell of the soul, materialized in the form, there is no quantitative criteria. Contemptible pleasure, is no way people can meet, however, they are not going to have true happiness.
Happiness has nothing to do with the form of life. Health is a blessing in the patient's eyes, the victims of the eyes, Pinganshifu, in MasterCard liking the eyes, there is no happiness.
Happiness is a concomitant. Not hesitating in the world of ice and snow hallux people will not feel warm room light coverlet comfortable; I did not experience hunger, suffering people, do not know the meaning of food and clothing; deep thinking about the people, not Taichetaiwu indifferent.
The happy story also did not answer. Millionaire Simmons in bed tossing and turning in the streets, homeless sleep very soundly.
Happiness is constantly changing look back again, a the original sadness may be today's happiness, happiness today may be just what tomorrow's melancholy.
Happiness also can not explain in words. Happy when we can cheer, happiness drop falls, we meet it usually tearful eyes. In this world, happy expression, happiness is always silent.
Happiness is God throw the bait to the earth one of the most tough job faced, did not get the time, it makes you dreaming once, letting you feel the taste dull. Wisdom discovered this truth, happiness is defined as the constant pursuit of the unfortunate definition for enjoyment and possession.
Fourth, a return to zero
Everything from scratch, will eventually return to zero.
The morning sun rises in the east and return to the East, after a night of it also.
Towering mountains, snow wore Millennium; vicissitudes of life on the earth torrent ancient rivers return to its original place to go, same is true of thinking about sleeping with the snow and ice.
Quibble no matter how noisy and irrational no matter how slick and artful, calm, will fall into the real trap set. Similarly, the fallacy regardless jump how high must return to the truth in the earth dug slot.
Innocent children, after things a weathered, become steady and strong and, worse still become the man of the hour, has become the backbone of the country. However, one day their grandson grandfather is sitting on the garden loungers sun hat capture that smile and the look and three years old when the photo.
The regression, gentle and powerful; regression, kind and solemn; regression unknowingly resilient. However, the true face of the regression is satisfactory.
Arena, whether you run the 5,000 or a million, if not back to the starting point, your score is calculated with zero forever.
The spacecraft sent to other planets, if it can not return to the ground, it is called a failed experiment.
Start all over again, but also to return to zero. This is the world's most simple, plain, plain philosophy. It is the thinking of the root, the root of the arts. The difference is that the universal life, some larger zero-painting, and some it draw smaller.
V. born shall only
Born shall only born with their talent for something. This is a timeless truth.
God we were born, will be endowed with the mission. In order for our ability to accomplish this mission, it must have the potential to accomplish this mission have not forgotten us into this potential is our strengths is our key to successful door opens.
Unfortunately, it does not have the strengths of the Li Shi clearly written on the palm or forehead, but it injected into our self-confidence and sweat injected into our thinking and the spirit.
In the journey of life, everyone had confused and hesitant, and do not know their own strengths where, do not know their potential, do not know the road must be taken. However, we have had this experience: As long as we stop to consider, confident, and continuously explore hesitate to sweat. We will inadvertently discovering their own strengths, and find their own mission, sometimes even quick success.
God is the reason not directly tell us with what potential it want training exercise before the mission effort honing strengthen their will, so that we can not pride in the success in front of applause among fans to not revel in the flowers in front of . Therefore, it is interested in our potential into the setbacks and frustrations into the twists and turns in the mud. Tears as touch, so you look for waving Khan.
However, some people end their lives do not understand this truth, their superficial understanding of providence, blindly follow the fate. They do not know their potential workers of their bones, their body skin hunger, the suffering of their mind temptations. They refused to try, fear of ridicule, fear of failure. They do not know the talents and abilities, knowledge, and wisdom, and that the key to success in these so-called disaster and misfortune. These people mediocre life, you can be said to be God's fault?
God give each person a key to success, it was found, was not found. Therefore, this world there are two kinds of life forms: one is rotten, one is burning. Rotten to the buried burning potential shine.
Sixth, not comparable
Tree each leaf are similar, each leaf and both are different. Mortal beings also have their own characteristics, their own merits. The commander in chief of the three services of only long poetry Fu; he good song, good dance; his ability to pull the mountain, you can swim across the river. No one is born the same for others. People have their own talent, each with its own mission.
Elan is small but fragrant poppy flower Yan was tasteless. Shallow and have lowly rustic shallow beauty, luxury have the luxury of sorrow. The greatnesses with trivialization lowly, a top of the hill at the foot of the location is so poor, however, the two saw each other was the same size.
In real life, there are people who take their own compare with others, they put themselves and others on the same starting line, than the gap between the front and rear, than how much salary than the level of duties, even more than the size of the house, than the sons and daughters of the similarities and differences . This seemingly sanliujiudeng ratio method, in fact, is humanity outside a social comparison, this comparison most people framed mode to use someone else's life, so this is a live fresh and unique Life lose their proper tension.
As people, along with most intelligent way to cherish their own style, to hold their own spiritual garden, maintain their individuality dignity, become best.
Seven, suffering the first wipe dawn of the wisdom
Painful the first wipe dawn of the wisdom, God only so this arrangement, because the truth of life, not by clever can understand and rely on pain after thoroughly aware.
The pain is God hidden a gift to mankind. It's coming, sometimes reminded of happiness, and sometimes a hint of genius. Be used as a reminder when you do not deviate from the law of happiness; be used as implied, to tell you, you turned out the important task is to play.
The pain is a melting pot, it melted who impurities. When your pain, your heart may be painful kind, your conversation may be due to the pain deep marrow. Pain or a touchstone of life. Pain means you survive, you have pain, you explore, you have pain, which means there is a hope that the seeds sprout.
In this world, there is no pain, only humble happiness. Do not you see, the trivial troubles always a small joy go hand in hand, unfortunately always sharing weal and woe with success and disaster. No pain, the human mind will never be able to mature. Do not you see, philosopher bred in pain, the poet was born in pain, hero rise in pain. In this secular society, which person is not experienced pain, only to find the value of their own, only to see the true colors of life.
The painful enhance the human soul, and pain and suffering to the flesh, so wise only treat pain, do not have pain. They do the pain, as indispensable to life the season, when it arrives, sow the successful seed, when it departs, responded with a happy smile.
This world, every one of the depths of the soul, has a unique pain deep in the hearts of all have a happiness-facing windows. Once you have discovered the meaning of pain, suffering no longer into it as painful.
Eight successful aristocratic angel
Success is a most aristocratic color angel, it is always synchronized and self-confidence, and success once come confidence by side, will be coming back.
Successful door ajar mostly, as long as you have the courage to go knock on the success will warmly greet you; however and success to meet with you, usually there is a partner, it's called jealousy.
The secret of success is to seize the target and hold. The losers only so failed, is that no goals or objectives forgotten; successful only so successful is that others say never because of his desire can not be achieved while a loss.
Success of size, is to measure the extent you desire. Set goals, as long as you have the determination: not in the pursuit of success in the pursuit of death. So the success of the angels, to pick out the biggest fruit of a roadside lost in your struggle.
Success is the countless failures crystallization. Successful people are fall more than others to get up once. To be successful, you must have the guts: loneliness, overcome the fear of failure, the crowd can disregard and contempt eyes.
Success is certainly successful, success is a reward for the winners; success can become successful epitaph, however, success is not successful overweening passes. Because in this world, the so-called success is a success, are a particular area of success.
Know this truth, you and I do not need to head Aung too high.
Into the inner depth live Favre Taichetaiwu under the Bodhi tree, enlightened my stove next to the world, not all things are worth wholeheartedly to do the appropriate blank one color.
It took me a long time to eat a small fruit, I read a long time did not finish one morning light readings, I spent the whole day in pajamas in the room wandered. Sometimes I leisurely get by, because I found the cause of course I have to create a temple, but should have a garden in the back of the temple.
Men busy fight for money and status, and indulge in trivial and vulgar, title, identity, property is full of every corner of life, this is not a blank life, and ultimately have a few not win the others, and lose his own .
The blank is not a Word romantic inaction to the leisurely, a leisurely wealthy naturally present, is the kind of wisdom and philosophy of life. The blank can unlock fame rope burden, it can remove the fortune to enjoy life camp, the fragrance of the night life big spit.
Blank Life is full of desire in life, life will never have peace of mind, there will be no quiet intoxication, not the spirit of pleasure, not to someone with a natural blend.
In this world, the art of living, sometimes is a blank art.
Live to more than one
There are countless forms of life, more than one living law. Others looked natural, awkward live a; live natural, others looked awkward and a. Their favorite day in this world, too, is the best day to live their favorite living law, is the best living law.
I was the envy of a location on the career, but then I respect this position most of the false respect, I gave up this envy. I had to look up a lot of character, and later I found after they leave the authority, and the rest is just petty, I no longer have this to look up. I had adored superior rich Later I found out that they are also dark Mu I relaxed, I no longer have this kind of worship. Not envious of others, do not humble themselves, according to their nature crossing finish their own time, that is, the days of heaven.
In the road of life, learn to enjoy life, to avoid dragging lives go forward, is the best choice in life; accustomed to no appreciation, not live for others to see, is the wisdom of life; nature save point incomprehensible place, the hearts unduly concerned about the era's face makes life more interesting.
The world, life is no fixed pattern, who for some purpose in a mode to framed their own, he sooner or later have to leave the laughing stock. Never uninstall the actor, always carrying his leadership of the shelf, turned most people Chi to nose.
I insist on looking for the living law, the hearts of most comfortable one. I am convinced that to do so is to get the people of God competitive talent.
Third, happiness is the smell of the soul
Happiness as a magnet, in life, such as iron. Philosophers and poets to explore the true meaning of life, said White is looking for one of their own happiness. Mortal beings, alive and dedication to the pursuit of love is sweet, the consummation of the marriage, career success, could there during which contains the well-being of humanity.
Happiness is the smell of the soul, materialized in the form, there is no quantitative criteria. Contemptible pleasure, is no way people can meet, however, they are not going to have true happiness.
Happiness has nothing to do with the form of life. Health is a blessing in the patient's eyes, the victims of the eyes, Pinganshifu, in MasterCard liking the eyes, there is no happiness.
Happiness is a concomitant. Not hesitating in the world of ice and snow hallux people will not feel warm room light coverlet comfortable; I did not experience hunger, suffering people, do not know the meaning of food and clothing; deep thinking about the people, not Taichetaiwu indifferent.
The happy story also did not answer. Millionaire Simmons in bed tossing and turning in the streets, homeless sleep very soundly.
Happiness is constantly changing look back again, a the original sadness may be today's happiness, happiness today may be just what tomorrow's melancholy.
Happiness also can not explain in words. Happy when we can cheer, happiness drop falls, we meet it usually tearful eyes. In this world, happy expression, happiness is always silent.
Happiness is God throw the bait to the earth one of the most tough job faced, did not get the time, it makes you dreaming once, letting you feel the taste dull. Wisdom discovered this truth, happiness is defined as the constant pursuit of the unfortunate definition for enjoyment and possession.
Fourth, a return to zero
Everything from scratch, will eventually return to zero.
The morning sun rises in the east and return to the East, after a night of it also.
Towering mountains, snow wore Millennium; vicissitudes of life on the earth torrent ancient rivers return to its original place to go, same is true of thinking about sleeping with the snow and ice.
Quibble no matter how noisy and irrational no matter how slick and artful, calm, will fall into the real trap set. Similarly, the fallacy regardless jump how high must return to the truth in the earth dug slot.
Innocent children, after things a weathered, become steady and strong and, worse still become the man of the hour, has become the backbone of the country. However, one day their grandson grandfather is sitting on the garden loungers sun hat capture that smile and the look and three years old when the photo.
The regression, gentle and powerful; regression, kind and solemn; regression unknowingly resilient. However, the true face of the regression is satisfactory.
Arena, whether you run the 5,000 or a million, if not back to the starting point, your score is calculated with zero forever.
The spacecraft sent to other planets, if it can not return to the ground, it is called a failed experiment.
Start all over again, but also to return to zero. This is the world's most simple, plain, plain philosophy. It is the thinking of the root, the root of the arts. The difference is that the universal life, some larger zero-painting, and some it draw smaller.
V. born shall only
Born shall only born with their talent for something. This is a timeless truth.
God we were born, will be endowed with the mission. In order for our ability to accomplish this mission, it must have the potential to accomplish this mission have not forgotten us into this potential is our strengths is our key to successful door opens.
Unfortunately, it does not have the strengths of the Li Shi clearly written on the palm or forehead, but it injected into our self-confidence and sweat injected into our thinking and the spirit.
In the journey of life, everyone had confused and hesitant, and do not know their own strengths where, do not know their potential, do not know the road must be taken. However, we have had this experience: As long as we stop to consider, confident, and continuously explore hesitate to sweat. We will inadvertently discovering their own strengths, and find their own mission, sometimes even quick success.
God is the reason not directly tell us with what potential it want training exercise before the mission effort honing strengthen their will, so that we can not pride in the success in front of applause among fans to not revel in the flowers in front of . Therefore, it is interested in our potential into the setbacks and frustrations into the twists and turns in the mud. Tears as touch, so you look for waving Khan.
However, some people end their lives do not understand this truth, their superficial understanding of providence, blindly follow the fate. They do not know their potential workers of their bones, their body skin hunger, the suffering of their mind temptations. They refused to try, fear of ridicule, fear of failure. They do not know the talents and abilities, knowledge, and wisdom, and that the key to success in these so-called disaster and misfortune. These people mediocre life, you can be said to be God's fault?
God give each person a key to success, it was found, was not found. Therefore, this world there are two kinds of life forms: one is rotten, one is burning. Rotten to the buried burning potential shine.
Sixth, not comparable
Tree each leaf are similar, each leaf and both are different. Mortal beings also have their own characteristics, their own merits. The commander in chief of the three services of only long poetry Fu; he good song, good dance; his ability to pull the mountain, you can swim across the river. No one is born the same for others. People have their own talent, each with its own mission.
Elan is small but fragrant poppy flower Yan was tasteless. Shallow and have lowly rustic shallow beauty, luxury have the luxury of sorrow. The greatnesses with trivialization lowly, a top of the hill at the foot of the location is so poor, however, the two saw each other was the same size.
In real life, there are people who take their own compare with others, they put themselves and others on the same starting line, than the gap between the front and rear, than how much salary than the level of duties, even more than the size of the house, than the sons and daughters of the similarities and differences . This seemingly sanliujiudeng ratio method, in fact, is humanity outside a social comparison, this comparison most people framed mode to use someone else's life, so this is a live fresh and unique Life lose their proper tension.
As people, along with most intelligent way to cherish their own style, to hold their own spiritual garden, maintain their individuality dignity, become best.
Seven, suffering the first wipe dawn of the wisdom
Painful the first wipe dawn of the wisdom, God only so this arrangement, because the truth of life, not by clever can understand and rely on pain after thoroughly aware.
The pain is God hidden a gift to mankind. It's coming, sometimes reminded of happiness, and sometimes a hint of genius. Be used as a reminder when you do not deviate from the law of happiness; be used as implied, to tell you, you turned out the important task is to play.
The pain is a melting pot, it melted who impurities. When your pain, your heart may be painful kind, your conversation may be due to the pain deep marrow. Pain or a touchstone of life. Pain means you survive, you have pain, you explore, you have pain, which means there is a hope that the seeds sprout.
In this world, there is no pain, only humble happiness. Do not you see, the trivial troubles always a small joy go hand in hand, unfortunately always sharing weal and woe with success and disaster. No pain, the human mind will never be able to mature. Do not you see, philosopher bred in pain, the poet was born in pain, hero rise in pain. In this secular society, which person is not experienced pain, only to find the value of their own, only to see the true colors of life.
The painful enhance the human soul, and pain and suffering to the flesh, so wise only treat pain, do not have pain. They do the pain, as indispensable to life the season, when it arrives, sow the successful seed, when it departs, responded with a happy smile.
This world, every one of the depths of the soul, has a unique pain deep in the hearts of all have a happiness-facing windows. Once you have discovered the meaning of pain, suffering no longer into it as painful.
Eight successful aristocratic angel
Success is a most aristocratic color angel, it is always synchronized and self-confidence, and success once come confidence by side, will be coming back.
Successful door ajar mostly, as long as you have the courage to go knock on the success will warmly greet you; however and success to meet with you, usually there is a partner, it's called jealousy.
The secret of success is to seize the target and hold. The losers only so failed, is that no goals or objectives forgotten; successful only so successful is that others say never because of his desire can not be achieved while a loss.
Success of size, is to measure the extent you desire. Set goals, as long as you have the determination: not in the pursuit of success in the pursuit of death. So the success of the angels, to pick out the biggest fruit of a roadside lost in your struggle.
Success is the countless failures crystallization. Successful people are fall more than others to get up once. To be successful, you must have the guts: loneliness, overcome the fear of failure, the crowd can disregard and contempt eyes.
Success is certainly successful, success is a reward for the winners; success can become successful epitaph, however, success is not successful overweening passes. Because in this world, the so-called success is a success, are a particular area of success.
Know this truth, you and I do not need to head Aung too high.
It is Important to Be A Man of Power
Now an important historical period, to the ability of society to convert a qualification social and human development ultimately is the ability to rely on. So what is the capacity? Need and how to cultivate it? Available to friends as a reference in the following:
To be a capable people, only to realize, is the essence of their own - the ability of a person there is no culture, not to see that he has a diploma is not to see how many books he read, but to see him every day whether sentiment, if he is not good at sentiment, then he is a "yokel".
A person is not thinking, not that he can not write the article, can not eloquent, but to see whether he often when a person can continue to contemplation, constantly sentiment. If he had thought, perception, then he would have thought.
A person can not afford not to see what he knows and can do, but often to see if he "realized", and "realized" the ability to form because only realize is their own!
Self-confidence is the first element of the ability - the ability of the elements. Capacity is a possibility, the possibility of a person strive to use the conditions to achieve objectives. My capacity formula is: the ability = the attitude + conditions + goals. Therefore, the ability of the first element is the attitude, the tendency efforts. People's initiative, and its core is to choose, in fact, is self-confidence.
Confidence, also known as self-confidence, the mental state of a person believe that their own ability, that believe they have the ability to achieve their own goals of psychological tendencies. Confidence is based on the correct understanding of their own, a correct estimate of their own strength and positive affirmation is an important component of self-awareness.
How to improve the self-confidence it?
I think there are four ladder process:
1, the first step: experience.
Is to experience success, little success, and then big success.
2, the second step: to explore their own.
Constant awareness of their own, find themselves, explore their recognize their own uniqueness, as well as personal advantages District.
3, the third step: thinking.
Continual problem-solving process, the formation of a stable mode of thinking. True self-confidence is a stable system of thinking. The methodology of thinking like a life of total coordinate system is the chain of command of all acts of life. In fact, very few people have the appropriate methodology system. Most are driven by instinct, empiricism or the bookishness-thinking technology. This constitutes the restlessness tilt of the state of our society as a whole, therefore, establish distinctive methodology of the scientific system, is an important part. Stable mode of thinking, confidence is subjective, idealistic, and can not be stable.
4, the fourth ladder: habit.
Is the behavior of the program and behavior habits. Self-confidence is ultimately a habit is internalized morality and wisdom.
The objective of self-confidence system established premise forming ability. The ability of the first element - the attitude, in addition to self-confidence, the other two components: a sense of responsibility and willpower.
Want, and need to do to get the - the capacity of the ladder. Ability of the substance - want and need to do to get. Knowledge but can not afford, or think of but can not do, it seems as if was only a little bit, in essence, far worse.
I think that the bridge - that we often say "enlighten" Why do we always want to do the same? "Think" and "so that" there is a kind of bridge between?
Not "enlighten", even if they know the thought of, or can not be converted to their own ability, or can not be transformed into effective action to achieve the goal. For example: not good at reading people, the chance to read the more the more confused, a drag on the knowledge I became a man, will study Kaiqiao, can be caused by reading books. How to improve the execution, but also this problem. : Bookish bookish intellectuals comparison, the core of the "bookish" It is not "enlighten" intellectuals "weak" and "calcium deficiency" epitomized here.
I want to explore - how resuscitation, is how to develop their own understanding? Solve this problem, in essence, the problem will solve the capacity of self-cultivation: resuscitation = understanding + epiphany. The so-called understanding is reliable generalizations; so-called epiphany, is beyond thinking.
Resuscitation of the many ways to introduce a classic ladder mode:
1, a first mode: read a lot. By reading a lot of books to get enough information, and information to classify, distinguish, sorting, reading break rolls, getting a God.
2 Mode: Hangwanlilu. Is through practice, experience, contacts, on the basis of the experience, rational understanding and summarized.
3, the third mode: reading countless people. Is a lot of contact with different people, from different people who find the similarities and the intersection at, to gain a correct understanding of things.
4, the fourth mode: Follow the footsteps of the successful. Imitate and follow a shortcut for ordinary people get insight imitate and follow the self-training, from training to obtain a reliable understanding.
5, the fifth mode: an expert point of enlightenment. Expert Gordon inspired point, the person fails to grasp the supreme form of the lowest cost, effective. All the wisdom of China's highly centralized to the top of the "inspired" word.
Fourth, the ability to adhere after the corner - ability to achieve.
Capacity, from a certain kind of sense that is a joy of life. Any joy in the world, the spirit, the flesh, will appear in a corner of adhere to the following.
The big man with the little people of distinction also lies in the ability to adhere to, and did not insist, there is no joy, there is no ability to. Adhere to, not explosive, is a tough, all-conquering often it is this seemingly term expires but potentially very strong staying power.
Our physical education in schools, often do suspension movement with both hands, usually insist on doing ten minutes on the monkey bars felt that he could not hold on, and jump to the ground from the horizontal bar on safety. However, we imagine, if it is in the case of an accident, your both hands than 2 meters from the ground the horizontal bar, but you do not know when to be a wing of 500 meters above the ground, rescue, So only patiently persisted, this time, maybe you can be extraordinary to adhere to more than one hour. This is the willpower in the role.
Many limit, usually can not go beyond, and so many people to do things, to the difficult times, gave up, and just as easily jump to the ground from the horizontal bar. In fact, the success, often in a time of hardship adhere to the moment when it will appear!
To be a capable people, only to realize, is the essence of their own - the ability of a person there is no culture, not to see that he has a diploma is not to see how many books he read, but to see him every day whether sentiment, if he is not good at sentiment, then he is a "yokel".
A person is not thinking, not that he can not write the article, can not eloquent, but to see whether he often when a person can continue to contemplation, constantly sentiment. If he had thought, perception, then he would have thought.
A person can not afford not to see what he knows and can do, but often to see if he "realized", and "realized" the ability to form because only realize is their own!
Self-confidence is the first element of the ability - the ability of the elements. Capacity is a possibility, the possibility of a person strive to use the conditions to achieve objectives. My capacity formula is: the ability = the attitude + conditions + goals. Therefore, the ability of the first element is the attitude, the tendency efforts. People's initiative, and its core is to choose, in fact, is self-confidence.
Confidence, also known as self-confidence, the mental state of a person believe that their own ability, that believe they have the ability to achieve their own goals of psychological tendencies. Confidence is based on the correct understanding of their own, a correct estimate of their own strength and positive affirmation is an important component of self-awareness.
How to improve the self-confidence it?
I think there are four ladder process:
1, the first step: experience.
Is to experience success, little success, and then big success.
2, the second step: to explore their own.
Constant awareness of their own, find themselves, explore their recognize their own uniqueness, as well as personal advantages District.
3, the third step: thinking.
Continual problem-solving process, the formation of a stable mode of thinking. True self-confidence is a stable system of thinking. The methodology of thinking like a life of total coordinate system is the chain of command of all acts of life. In fact, very few people have the appropriate methodology system. Most are driven by instinct, empiricism or the bookishness-thinking technology. This constitutes the restlessness tilt of the state of our society as a whole, therefore, establish distinctive methodology of the scientific system, is an important part. Stable mode of thinking, confidence is subjective, idealistic, and can not be stable.
4, the fourth ladder: habit.
Is the behavior of the program and behavior habits. Self-confidence is ultimately a habit is internalized morality and wisdom.
The objective of self-confidence system established premise forming ability. The ability of the first element - the attitude, in addition to self-confidence, the other two components: a sense of responsibility and willpower.
Want, and need to do to get the - the capacity of the ladder. Ability of the substance - want and need to do to get. Knowledge but can not afford, or think of but can not do, it seems as if was only a little bit, in essence, far worse.
I think that the bridge - that we often say "enlighten" Why do we always want to do the same? "Think" and "so that" there is a kind of bridge between?
Not "enlighten", even if they know the thought of, or can not be converted to their own ability, or can not be transformed into effective action to achieve the goal. For example: not good at reading people, the chance to read the more the more confused, a drag on the knowledge I became a man, will study Kaiqiao, can be caused by reading books. How to improve the execution, but also this problem. : Bookish bookish intellectuals comparison, the core of the "bookish" It is not "enlighten" intellectuals "weak" and "calcium deficiency" epitomized here.
I want to explore - how resuscitation, is how to develop their own understanding? Solve this problem, in essence, the problem will solve the capacity of self-cultivation: resuscitation = understanding + epiphany. The so-called understanding is reliable generalizations; so-called epiphany, is beyond thinking.
Resuscitation of the many ways to introduce a classic ladder mode:
1, a first mode: read a lot. By reading a lot of books to get enough information, and information to classify, distinguish, sorting, reading break rolls, getting a God.
2 Mode: Hangwanlilu. Is through practice, experience, contacts, on the basis of the experience, rational understanding and summarized.
3, the third mode: reading countless people. Is a lot of contact with different people, from different people who find the similarities and the intersection at, to gain a correct understanding of things.
4, the fourth mode: Follow the footsteps of the successful. Imitate and follow a shortcut for ordinary people get insight imitate and follow the self-training, from training to obtain a reliable understanding.
5, the fifth mode: an expert point of enlightenment. Expert Gordon inspired point, the person fails to grasp the supreme form of the lowest cost, effective. All the wisdom of China's highly centralized to the top of the "inspired" word.
Fourth, the ability to adhere after the corner - ability to achieve.
Capacity, from a certain kind of sense that is a joy of life. Any joy in the world, the spirit, the flesh, will appear in a corner of adhere to the following.
The big man with the little people of distinction also lies in the ability to adhere to, and did not insist, there is no joy, there is no ability to. Adhere to, not explosive, is a tough, all-conquering often it is this seemingly term expires but potentially very strong staying power.
Our physical education in schools, often do suspension movement with both hands, usually insist on doing ten minutes on the monkey bars felt that he could not hold on, and jump to the ground from the horizontal bar on safety. However, we imagine, if it is in the case of an accident, your both hands than 2 meters from the ground the horizontal bar, but you do not know when to be a wing of 500 meters above the ground, rescue, So only patiently persisted, this time, maybe you can be extraordinary to adhere to more than one hour. This is the willpower in the role.
Many limit, usually can not go beyond, and so many people to do things, to the difficult times, gave up, and just as easily jump to the ground from the horizontal bar. In fact, the success, often in a time of hardship adhere to the moment when it will appear!
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How To Be Healthy
A good body
Lucky come from health is a blessing. With a healthy body only struggle to the success of the capital. Have a healthy body, in addition to pay attention to diet and exercise, but also normal habits. Now have a lot of friends, and day and night are reversed, so what would be healthy. In addition, mental health is also very important. Bad psychological conditions can also affect health, to promptly adjust. Want to be healthy, can not rely on medicine, but also to take part in more useful activities, sports. Healthy people and more beautiful, popular everywhere. Physical and mental health, will be able to successfully work life, facing the sun, brilliant and beautiful, well-being and pleasant, painless disease-free life is good fortune. Bet you do?
Second, from the good eye to
People with good intentions, goodness oriented. Charity and benevolence. Houde wide people. People feel your presence, this world is full of sunshine, more than good good newspaper today reported its own opportunities reported. Appropriate care for others, timely assistance difficult people, social warmth of the people warm and moral support from many, the road from the wide row. Such people, the fate of course. Of course, not asking you to abuse the kind-hearted. Treatment of the wickedness of the wicked, it would have to be treated differently, ah.
From good concept
Concept to bring decision, influence behavior, behavior, ending. Life, you create the conditions for survival, trying to learn survival skills, live for themselves, live Xiangmoxiangyang. Conditions also help others. With the right perspective of life on honesty create happiness, through continuous efforts, there is bound to be good results. Lucky, that comes out. However, if the wrong starting point, the behavior will wrong, the results must be wrong. For example, one would like to get something for nothing, even if the moment is to succeed, but not rather more than disaster. Such a person, it will not be lucky.
Fourth, from the good temper
Bad temper, damage our relationships affect health, anger will pollute life. Too bad temper, the fate of God does not take care of you. So, it is disappointing not to be angry, not debilitating, as was the atmosphere. Failing to calm thinking into detours, increasing the chances of success. Good luck, and how many blessing in the life!
V. good expression
People go out to look at the sky, entry to see his face, when you worry, anger, pain when you face an ugly, people do not want to see. You are by virtue of some kind of power to the people serving you, That is not convinced. If anyone wants a good expression, pretending to pretend not to. The so-called phase from the heart, respect others, smile always bring you good luck.
Sixth, from good words
Good words a three Winter blaspheming the last part of June cold. With people, pleasant, and gas wealth, good luck often. Respect people who were constant Jingzhi. Complain about not solve the problem. The verbal abuse hurt more, so-called disease from the mouth catches no flies. The interpersonal affected, non-opening only for multi troubles because the strong succeed. Sometimes, only the last part of which words have a change of your destiny. Cautious words, there must be good luck.
Seven from good behavior
Correct view of life, guiding the correct behavior of life. Indecent behavior, so that he has loved, and know how to cherish and well-being, do more good, and the so-called willing, have access to. Make it easier for people with temporary difficulties, to do a good thing, not necessarily'll be rewarded. However, to develop good behavior, not only happy themselves, but also conducive to the physical and mental health, and foster a the Deshan love Ren role model for your descendants, Yam and descendants. A meaningful thing, there will be good results, as long as the hard work, will change your destiny.
Eight from good relations
Survive in social interaction, development, whether from school, job search, a progressive, Figure Mastery, or from family affairs, financial things, seek consummation No does not need the help of a variety of relational support, guidance, helping. Singles alone spell things too hard, things are difficult, difficult at the very start. This is a very simple truth. Good relationship, rely on good intentions Depei plant, talk about sincere emotional investment. Your relatives, friends, spouse, and even your boss can help you change your fate, of course, you will also need to grasp and cherish these relationships. Sometimes, it can be said that the relationship determines the fate!
Life four off, illness and death. Health and the smooth, old with dignity, health and happiness to die peacefully, say lucky.
Depends recognized the value of life. Physical and mental health, lucky. With the right direction, peace, happiness and good luck. As for the better and to what extent, it will have to see that you comprehend the depth of and practice much.
Lucky come from health is a blessing. With a healthy body only struggle to the success of the capital. Have a healthy body, in addition to pay attention to diet and exercise, but also normal habits. Now have a lot of friends, and day and night are reversed, so what would be healthy. In addition, mental health is also very important. Bad psychological conditions can also affect health, to promptly adjust. Want to be healthy, can not rely on medicine, but also to take part in more useful activities, sports. Healthy people and more beautiful, popular everywhere. Physical and mental health, will be able to successfully work life, facing the sun, brilliant and beautiful, well-being and pleasant, painless disease-free life is good fortune. Bet you do?
Second, from the good eye to
People with good intentions, goodness oriented. Charity and benevolence. Houde wide people. People feel your presence, this world is full of sunshine, more than good good newspaper today reported its own opportunities reported. Appropriate care for others, timely assistance difficult people, social warmth of the people warm and moral support from many, the road from the wide row. Such people, the fate of course. Of course, not asking you to abuse the kind-hearted. Treatment of the wickedness of the wicked, it would have to be treated differently, ah.
From good concept
Concept to bring decision, influence behavior, behavior, ending. Life, you create the conditions for survival, trying to learn survival skills, live for themselves, live Xiangmoxiangyang. Conditions also help others. With the right perspective of life on honesty create happiness, through continuous efforts, there is bound to be good results. Lucky, that comes out. However, if the wrong starting point, the behavior will wrong, the results must be wrong. For example, one would like to get something for nothing, even if the moment is to succeed, but not rather more than disaster. Such a person, it will not be lucky.
Fourth, from the good temper
Bad temper, damage our relationships affect health, anger will pollute life. Too bad temper, the fate of God does not take care of you. So, it is disappointing not to be angry, not debilitating, as was the atmosphere. Failing to calm thinking into detours, increasing the chances of success. Good luck, and how many blessing in the life!
V. good expression
People go out to look at the sky, entry to see his face, when you worry, anger, pain when you face an ugly, people do not want to see. You are by virtue of some kind of power to the people serving you, That is not convinced. If anyone wants a good expression, pretending to pretend not to. The so-called phase from the heart, respect others, smile always bring you good luck.
Sixth, from good words
Good words a three Winter blaspheming the last part of June cold. With people, pleasant, and gas wealth, good luck often. Respect people who were constant Jingzhi. Complain about not solve the problem. The verbal abuse hurt more, so-called disease from the mouth catches no flies. The interpersonal affected, non-opening only for multi troubles because the strong succeed. Sometimes, only the last part of which words have a change of your destiny. Cautious words, there must be good luck.
Seven from good behavior
Correct view of life, guiding the correct behavior of life. Indecent behavior, so that he has loved, and know how to cherish and well-being, do more good, and the so-called willing, have access to. Make it easier for people with temporary difficulties, to do a good thing, not necessarily'll be rewarded. However, to develop good behavior, not only happy themselves, but also conducive to the physical and mental health, and foster a the Deshan love Ren role model for your descendants, Yam and descendants. A meaningful thing, there will be good results, as long as the hard work, will change your destiny.
Eight from good relations
Survive in social interaction, development, whether from school, job search, a progressive, Figure Mastery, or from family affairs, financial things, seek consummation No does not need the help of a variety of relational support, guidance, helping. Singles alone spell things too hard, things are difficult, difficult at the very start. This is a very simple truth. Good relationship, rely on good intentions Depei plant, talk about sincere emotional investment. Your relatives, friends, spouse, and even your boss can help you change your fate, of course, you will also need to grasp and cherish these relationships. Sometimes, it can be said that the relationship determines the fate!
Life four off, illness and death. Health and the smooth, old with dignity, health and happiness to die peacefully, say lucky.
Depends recognized the value of life. Physical and mental health, lucky. With the right direction, peace, happiness and good luck. As for the better and to what extent, it will have to see that you comprehend the depth of and practice much.
2012年11月22日星期四
Great Performance in the World of Warcraft
Each combination play
The war hunting NQ hands Locations good can fight a wave of NQ, However, the first wave hit NQ injury DZ and FS can easily be crippled. Our play group latent, stuffy NQ Master see the LR location of the ice ring LR we played with LR, BB, my hands directly blind soldiers, mage sheep LR, if NQ not badge the first BB is definitely second (such can lie to the Reds and the badge of NQ badges and LR hands we have no pressure). Seconds off the first BB after LR Phoenix heart strokes two BB reversal LR basic LR at this time are not the Reds or no badge, cheap wow gold on sale no badge location good shadow dance attack smoke can wave away . If LR skills at this time on the formation of a war of attrition, stealing two BB's blood and then the thief turn fire killed two BB FS when playing LR, the hunter no hurt full grass he. If you do not knock down 2 BB, watching the soldiers and NQ badge turn fire.
Hands blind soldiers if soldiers badge dare the deep chase FS can be brought into the pillars turn his wave, but not easy to turn dead soldiers, kill point between LR and NQ. The consumption period teammates playing LR optimistic NQ position, bad location deep carryforward thief dark step virtually no badge NQ direct invincible, reversal of LR or soldiers wait for the next deep junction.
Thief Fassa the V Battle hunting Sa
The hands 3 sneak past the first wave of nausea directly SM playing SM, blind soldiers. If the pressure of thieves hands, soldiers LR playing hand open preparing to fight a wave of SM FS frost ring to control LR and BB. The first wave of the SM generally a badge or soul LR connection decisive turn. You want to save the field of play SM soldiers and LR very easy two spent with badge, this time to see the soldiers and LR badge and position playing, turn LR anti-the SM3 sheep SM, playing die LR dragged soldiers waiting for World of Warcraft Gold deep carryforward Shaman, to be a foreshadowing leave a shadow dance, turn over the war the LR defense did not knock down continue reversed LR can break set fire rotation opposite pressure is very large, instead we are war LR pressing play!
The war hunting NQ hands Locations good can fight a wave of NQ, However, the first wave hit NQ injury DZ and FS can easily be crippled. Our play group latent, stuffy NQ Master see the LR location of the ice ring LR we played with LR, BB, my hands directly blind soldiers, mage sheep LR, if NQ not badge the first BB is definitely second (such can lie to the Reds and the badge of NQ badges and LR hands we have no pressure). Seconds off the first BB after LR Phoenix heart strokes two BB reversal LR basic LR at this time are not the Reds or no badge, cheap wow gold on sale no badge location good shadow dance attack smoke can wave away . If LR skills at this time on the formation of a war of attrition, stealing two BB's blood and then the thief turn fire killed two BB FS when playing LR, the hunter no hurt full grass he. If you do not knock down 2 BB, watching the soldiers and NQ badge turn fire.
Hands blind soldiers if soldiers badge dare the deep chase FS can be brought into the pillars turn his wave, but not easy to turn dead soldiers, kill point between LR and NQ. The consumption period teammates playing LR optimistic NQ position, bad location deep carryforward thief dark step virtually no badge NQ direct invincible, reversal of LR or soldiers wait for the next deep junction.
Thief Fassa the V Battle hunting Sa
The hands 3 sneak past the first wave of nausea directly SM playing SM, blind soldiers. If the pressure of thieves hands, soldiers LR playing hand open preparing to fight a wave of SM FS frost ring to control LR and BB. The first wave of the SM generally a badge or soul LR connection decisive turn. You want to save the field of play SM soldiers and LR very easy two spent with badge, this time to see the soldiers and LR badge and position playing, turn LR anti-the SM3 sheep SM, playing die LR dragged soldiers waiting for World of Warcraft Gold deep carryforward Shaman, to be a foreshadowing leave a shadow dance, turn over the war the LR defense did not knock down continue reversed LR can break set fire rotation opposite pressure is very large, instead we are war LR pressing play!
2012年11月7日星期三
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