Learn to Be Brave

Everyone in life will encounter some difficult and unpredictable things, like me, this story, I think only only on TV screen. But: When I experienced these things, know that life is indeed a pain and joy coexist today, I wrote a story yesterday. I hope you and I calmly ....... - Inscription

Is my happiest day in March 2000, my husband and I into a private company in Nanjing units, after two years of work, the preparations for the wedding, when we do not have a house, a rental house that we both marriage room, simple tourist back in his hometown, to handle the banquet even if married, our hands down the wedding left thirty thousand yuan. The reason we do this is that we want to leave extra money to buy a house with to prevent our marriage around.

Hard work pays off, in August 2000 the company began the implementation of welfare housing distribution, the husband was to be regarded as the backbone of the company, to be included in the list of welfare housing, and soon the implementation of sound, we have to get a house of their own, simple the wedding hands of the remaining three million has become a life-saving food. Most of the company out of the half remaining grandfathers and grandmothers Chouqi. At that time I was 26 years old, seems to be the most happy people of this world. My husband and I juggle a busy forgot almost all mother-in-law father-in-law also helped us to spend time together with, when our family be enjoyable.

However, there are unexpected storms, people have always happens. In Shen invasion joy among us in the new house the first Dragon Boat Festival in May 2001, the phone about a father-in-law to work in Nanjing with over. At noon that day feeling father looks very haggard, nor drink wine, eat too little, which is usually the father-in-law of state is completely incompatible. Asked his situation he was just very calm and said I heard estimates stomach problems, eating rice, a short break, the father-in-law went back to his unit, the night her husband came back to my father-in-law's a lot like her husband described her husband immediately telephoned her father-in-law, who told him to go to the hospital to check, he refused to go, was delayed until July, he realized the seriousness, and called her husband to accompany him to the hospital for a gastroscopy, in a week long waiting, our hearts just as jack pressing, and get a report card time, we like thunderstruck, ultimately concerns become a reality, a gastric cancer. Can not believe this is true, but the facts tell us, have to accept. Conceal his condition when we stabilize the mood when a call and told abdominal hydrocephalus to surgery immediately, and then called to tell her mother.

When we buy a house to get married, the remaining money can say the same, my mother-in-law borrowed from relatives and three million, live in the hospital immediately. And through a series of checks, and then the implementation of the surgical resection, two-thirds of the father-in-law of gastrectomy, when the doctor holding a bowl of bloody tumor out, my mother-in-law fainted.

Father-in-law be regarded as successful surgery in a series of postoperative chemotherapy has not suffered any injury, with normal to see the people of the father-in-law said he was not sick. When I got married there three years, 61-year-old father-in-law has no grandchildren yet, I want to have children in the father's repeated requests, the expected date of birth is July 23, 2003, I regularly checked during pregnancy months to find out I'm pregnant with twins for the first time, I told the good news of the father-in-law, he was excited even speechless. The arrival of our family for maybe a little angel, all of them smiling, still feel God is finally fair.

Two little guys grow up happy in my stomach, there are twenty days necessary childbirth may at that time my body because of excessive bile acids, each part of the powerful itch night sleep . I lay in bed in the morning of July 3, two little guys keep moving in my stomach, and stomach also began to slight pain. O'clock was admitted to the hospital, the doctor I do check found bloody amniotic fluid, and only one fetal heart in action, several doctors busy busy hands and feet I advanced operating table immediately cesarean production surgery, results of another little angel or God merciless claimed lives. The news was not dare to tell her father-in-law, afraid he can not accept a grandson who died at things. But the father-in-law asked her mother to two children, I was born and also healthy when her mother could no longer bear this sad news to tell the father repeatedly asked. Father-in-law fell at this time, although there are two sons, 61-year-old father-in-law is still not a grandson, wish I can safely gave birth to his two grandchildren. One month's time the disease again attacked the body of the father-in-law, the full moon 42 days when I return home with my daughter and a regret, father-in-law in order to see a granddaughter of fierce resistance to the pain of torture. When I go back to see the father-in-law only skinny when tears could no longer bear it, such as the heavy rain pouring instantly blurred eyes. See the next morning granddaughter's father-in-law and serene close your eyes, forever.

I remember in August 2003. At that time, I was like pushed into an abyss, all of a sudden lost two relatives I complain Heaven tease in people, give me the beginning of a smooth, let me bear life in such a big blow.

In the subsequent two years time, finally smooth over, the godfather relative child at home. Life can be considered enjoyable. God seems intentionally and against me in November 2006, my body discomfort, but fortunately, not a serious illness in the hospital for twenty days were discharged. Then I have to go to work, kids kindergarten days forward in such a dull life.

Since the father-in-law after the death of her mother has been feeling bad stomach, we is not her mother-in-law and honest son at home Dependence, home of all things or mother-in-law to command the two pro-oldest maternal aunt, mother-in-law is unique in the home can rely, however, In the final stage, the mother-in-law for a checkup but did not tell the two oldest maternal aunt. While in Nanjing, in fact it is thinking about the body of the mother-in-law, is very worried about her mother doing numerous inspections are not abnormal, August 2007, her mother phoned to tell her husband that she suffered from esophageal cancer, called how we I believe that this is true, my mother-in-law for fear that we are worried that she did not tell us, did not tell the oldest maternal aunt, she went to the hospital last gastroscopy result, she is also a person to pick up the report, finally playing to the phone to tell the bad news of this bolt from the blue. Then we only bad news to tell the two oldest maternal aunt. The two oldest maternal aunt then broke down in tears, their sisters three in the case of the mother-in-law living in the rural areas, the other two are living in the city, and the children of the two oldest maternal aunt usually good care of her mother. When he learned the sad news of her mother, they could bear.

We called in the case of helpless oldest maternal aunt with her mother to go to the Cancer Hospital in the diagnosis, when a glimmer of hope lies in the Cancer Hospital in Nanjing, hope the result is misdiagnosed, but when her husband once again got the report and did not help crying, mother-in-law is a cancer of the esophagus spray door, very serious, if not timely surgery dangerous to life and immediately with the mother-in-law do inpatient surgery, when the mother-in-law on the operating table doctor opened her chest and back between a full a foot of the hole, the desire to let her mother-in-law to survive the surgery was successful. Mother-in-law you'd rather die in the two years of chemotherapy in late, living death, to every chemotherapy will allow her mother to go to the gates of hell to go once. The chemotherapy her in bed Heartbreakers. But the mother is reported to have a glimmer of hope, always hope that once the chemotherapy will allow her to live another day. Last CT examination, the doctor told us has been transferred to the body of the mother-in-law of the cancer cells are, and we did not tell her mother the truth, my mother-in-law always thought that her illness will be good, of course we are also trying to tie with the mother-in-law, also want to have turn of Health last chemotherapy in mother-in-law could no longer afford to resist chemotherapy side effects fall.

Mother-in-law after two years of pain and suffering, at 8 o'clock in the morning on July 5 with a nostalgic, a sadness and regret died, aged 61 years.

Gone through so many things, I did not expect I was the master of the story, before will see the story of such newspapers or appear on TV screen, I did not think I'd experienced. Mother-in-law passed away two years time, not demand that rich, just for the sake of family peace.

Experienced so many strong and brave, and maybe this is God to the test of our lives, that we have to have the courage to accept it. Although life is very unfair to me, but I learned in life strong, Brave, learned to accept.

I hope my story can help those who are negative and have lost confidence in friends. I also hope that this article can bring you more inspiration alive, we must be strong, brave of you to accept things. Everything past, everything will be fine.

I do not miss the deceased's family, but strong.