It is Important to Be A Man of Power

Now an important historical period, to the ability of society to convert a qualification social and human development ultimately is the ability to rely on. So what is the capacity? Need and how to cultivate it? Available to friends as a reference in the following:

To be a capable people, only to realize, is the essence of their own - the ability of a person there is no culture, not to see that he has a diploma is not to see how many books he read, but to see him every day whether sentiment, if he is not good at sentiment, then he is a "yokel".

A person is not thinking, not that he can not write the article, can not eloquent, but to see whether he often when a person can continue to contemplation, constantly sentiment. If he had thought, perception, then he would have thought.

A person can not afford not to see what he knows and can do, but often to see if he "realized", and "realized" the ability to form because only realize is their own!

Self-confidence is the first element of the ability - the ability of the elements. Capacity is a possibility, the possibility of a person strive to use the conditions to achieve objectives. My capacity formula is: the ability = the attitude + conditions + goals. Therefore, the ability of the first element is the attitude, the tendency efforts. People's initiative, and its core is to choose, in fact, is self-confidence.

Confidence, also known as self-confidence, the mental state of a person believe that their own ability, that believe they have the ability to achieve their own goals of psychological tendencies. Confidence is based on the correct understanding of their own, a correct estimate of their own strength and positive affirmation is an important component of self-awareness.

How to improve the self-confidence it?

I think there are four ladder process:

1, the first step: experience.

Is to experience success, little success, and then big success.

2, the second step: to explore their own.

Constant awareness of their own, find themselves, explore their recognize their own uniqueness, as well as personal advantages District.

3, the third step: thinking.

Continual problem-solving process, the formation of a stable mode of thinking. True self-confidence is a stable system of thinking. The methodology of thinking like a life of total coordinate system is the chain of command of all acts of life. In fact, very few people have the appropriate methodology system. Most are driven by instinct, empiricism or the bookishness-thinking technology. This constitutes the restlessness tilt of the state of our society as a whole, therefore, establish distinctive methodology of the scientific system, is an important part. Stable mode of thinking, confidence is subjective, idealistic, and can not be stable.

4, the fourth ladder: habit.

Is the behavior of the program and behavior habits. Self-confidence is ultimately a habit is internalized morality and wisdom.

The objective of self-confidence system established premise forming ability. The ability of the first element - the attitude, in addition to self-confidence, the other two components: a sense of responsibility and willpower.

Want, and need to do to get the - the capacity of the ladder. Ability of the substance - want and need to do to get. Knowledge but can not afford, or think of but can not do, it seems as if was only a little bit, in essence, far worse.

I think that the bridge - that we often say "enlighten" Why do we always want to do the same? "Think" and "so that" there is a kind of bridge between?

Not "enlighten", even if they know the thought of, or can not be converted to their own ability, or can not be transformed into effective action to achieve the goal. For example: not good at reading people, the chance to read the more the more confused, a drag on the knowledge I became a man, will study Kaiqiao, can be caused by reading books. How to improve the execution, but also this problem. : Bookish bookish intellectuals comparison, the core of the "bookish" It is not "enlighten" intellectuals "weak" and "calcium deficiency" epitomized here.

I want to explore - how resuscitation, is how to develop their own understanding? Solve this problem, in essence, the problem will solve the capacity of self-cultivation: resuscitation = understanding + epiphany. The so-called understanding is reliable generalizations; so-called epiphany, is beyond thinking.

Resuscitation of the many ways to introduce a classic ladder mode:

1, a first mode: read a lot. By reading a lot of books to get enough information, and information to classify, distinguish, sorting, reading break rolls, getting a God.

2 Mode: Hangwanlilu. Is through practice, experience, contacts, on the basis of the experience, rational understanding and summarized.

3, the third mode: reading countless people. Is a lot of contact with different people, from different people who find the similarities and the intersection at, to gain a correct understanding of things.

4, the fourth mode: Follow the footsteps of the successful. Imitate and follow a shortcut for ordinary people get insight imitate and follow the self-training, from training to obtain a reliable understanding.

5, the fifth mode: an expert point of enlightenment. Expert Gordon inspired point, the person fails to grasp the supreme form of the lowest cost, effective. All the wisdom of China's highly centralized to the top of the "inspired" word.

Fourth, the ability to adhere after the corner - ability to achieve.

Capacity, from a certain kind of sense that is a joy of life. Any joy in the world, the spirit, the flesh, will appear in a corner of adhere to the following.

The big man with the little people of distinction also lies in the ability to adhere to, and did not insist, there is no joy, there is no ability to. Adhere to, not explosive, is a tough, all-conquering often it is this seemingly term expires but potentially very strong staying power.

Our physical education in schools, often do suspension movement with both hands, usually insist on doing ten minutes on the monkey bars felt that he could not hold on, and jump to the ground from the horizontal bar on safety. However, we imagine, if it is in the case of an accident, your both hands than 2 meters from the ground the horizontal bar, but you do not know when to be a wing of 500 meters above the ground, rescue, So only patiently persisted, this time, maybe you can be extraordinary to adhere to more than one hour. This is the willpower in the role.

Many limit, usually can not go beyond, and so many people to do things, to the difficult times, gave up, and just as easily jump to the ground from the horizontal bar. In fact, the success, often in a time of hardship adhere to the moment when it will appear!