Old Couple

The Old Couple, the word is really a touching. Contains not only love, it is a non-banned status. From newlyweds to practice to this level of "wife", Bureau posts to be even more difficult than the early age of civil servants to rise, here the number of inclusive commitment, trust, appreciation and loyalty ...

When they began to call each other "wife", between husband and wife truly enter nirvana: Do not you hate his "Mediterranean", beer belly, you only care about the "three high", no longer care about your measurements. Many have very sensitive topic, such as the name of your former male (female) friends, that once you or his brooding romance "Today is not when a mutual funny jokes! Happiness of his wife's life is similar: a day in the Mamalielie contention quarrel noisy usher in a sunny new day. Is a foul-mouthed, philandering wife specific.

Need to operate a happy marriage, marriage is like a tango,

Need someone into someone retired, co-ordination, tacit action. Stepped on the foot, stumbling are very normal. Know understand social dance tango dance partner is not temporary pull with the general will have a fixed partner, because the tango is particularly stressed the tacit understanding. So marriage as the tango, but marriage is different from the tango: a tango ten minutes would be finished, whenever there is a contradiction, endure what passed. Marriage this tango, but it is going to jump a lifetime! So, it is not enough to rely on patience. Patience but also revealed that she, communication, otherwise, it would never be more than a "partner" practicing less than the realm of the "wife".

The couple dispute is normal, "courteous, Juanqimei" is not necessarily a happy couple, the confrontation of ideas, not personal views. So bustling contention dispute enforcement for decades, more and more without scruples "wife" period - two hand in hand to the supermarket to buy what you want to compete, go for a walk, who go too fast, who is too slow to have to fight car time which way to where to Shui have to fight ...... are his wife, nothing Kaibulekou? So noisy join both the Alumni Association and retired colleagues for dinner, go to the gym, to participate in a variety of activities to accompany each other ... his wife a little like Siamese twins - a young man constantly cries do not lose in marriage self, and strive to have their own private space, think that only when you call each other husband took his wife's hand, only the most insecure!

When the marriage run-in to call each other husband, the feelings between each other than, "I love you" expressed a deep, because the two have one each other, you have me, I have you. Just as "War and Peace" Bier said his wife Natasha: You say that I love my fingers? Perhaps I will not be a day to feel I love it because it has become a form part of my body, once I missing fingers, it is far less than just sadness and pain, because I have mutilated. This is the feelings of the wife.

In China, the majority of the elderly are "old before getting rich", but as long as his wife to accompany the side, is the richest.

His wife is the most successful marriage and moisture level. Today found that many young couples in the parents of such a "sunset is magnificent," valuable time, in order to allow a mother to their children, virtually "forcing" Mom and Dad separated. Perhaps the young people feel that all this age, what separated not separated. They do not know, Mom and Dad is very cruel. Young couples, Japan, long, small do heart grow fonder; wife, I said, is the Siamese twins, both traveled thousands of miles, finally ushered in the "sunset is magnificent," but "it is almost dusk, let the old the dad mom multi point Sishou time!

Stay

The group at the hold mouth, alone hold the heart. Actually teach people how to conduct themselves in society.

The group at the to hold mouth, solitude hold the heart group to hold the mouth. Get along with others, to pay attention to their own language. To get along with others, rhetoric, it seems that the broad perspective, knowledgeable huge accumulation, know ye not that the impression is frivolous, superficial and arrogant. Along with others, would like to say that is to say, there is no masking, no evasive, often inadvertently hurt others.

Silence is golden, this extremely simple language contains extremely intriguing truth. -

Silence does not mean that thinking stop. Deep thoughts often derived from the the seemingly silent thinking process. Temporarily silence the people, positive thinking in silence, listened in effective trade-offs can often misses the point, Midas touch shows insights, Lingrenganpei admiration. -

The silence does not represent the thinking of emptiness. The silence is a ready to wait for the process, and the silence of the earth in the birth of the autumn harvest, the silence of the eagle in the waiting wings of the fly, severe winter silence Blossoming Spring is in the build-up.

Silence savings momentum. Often Winners applaud, but I do not know they are willing to silence, willing spirit to silence. Is the so-called late bloomer, Great Music, not craze, blockbuster is. -

Silence is a quality that is an accomplishment, is demanding constraints, is a severe test of their own will, is the a reasonable manner insistence and patience. -

Solitude hold the heart. Heart of ancient saying goes, a man of integrity, Zhao's world, not the people I do not know. That gentleman Tan sway. The hustle and bustle of Sai dust, snobbish disputes, to live in this world, will inevitably encounter goes wrong, things go wrong. How to deal with these things it is a severe test of human virtue.

Often late at night, alone Vipassana its heart, the true face of their own will be surfacing. Often reflect on, you will feel really my show so usually hiding the truth from your fake my true colors, and this you will shame really treat the true soul. Formed such a habit, your realm will be continuously improved. Therefore, the Analects I three times daily is also

One alone, often thinking of others for their own benefits, you will be kind to everyone. So, you are willing to pay for him, and are willing to connect with him, friendship between people will be Lang Syne. -

A person alone, often thinking about the benefits of others, you will let their own feelings of superiority continues to expand, thus losing the true nature. When he moment regarding doing against you, you will feel wronged, feel uncomfortable, you will find a reason to punish him, which is not conducive to the improvement of personality is not conducive to the harmonious interpersonal.

So, when you encounter happy, you have to remember to exercise restraint, because to get carried away, carried away the hurt this forgetting volatile. When you encounter the confusion, you have to step back and thinking, step back even better.

An idea of ​​the good, all is good. An idea of ​​evil, are evil! So you want to develop a group at Moriguchi, alone to keep the good habits of the heart!

Strive for Tomrrow

TIAN Wei-like text, whether it is her positive or her selfless fascination with the color of her characters - the event which the world has never, then, what regrets, what sad life stumble twists, death The quiet of the night, turn to dust, attributed to rain, I no longer have in this world, but everywhere I.

[Capricorn]
Capricorn traits too heavy people they say there are not very happy, lonely and boring childhood, lack dressed youth that shoot "the Kikujiro the summer" Takeshi Kitano, the twenty-year-old began writing Murakami Haruki, that has become the King of Jay, no one doubted Capricorn has tremendous energy. dear Capricorn child, someone always says, to live such a contradiction is a tiring thing, the appearance of serious rock-solid, but my mind was Some Like It Hot, full of confidence, there is little sense of inferiority. deep and shallow flowers Youth Chinese I Capricorn.

[Black day /'s going to rain / day black / black
Light and shadow roll, overlapping into the time and what my life is still faire selfish with my kid threw temper tantrums, there is always a lot of people behind me with me uneasy and lonely with the moment appease, if they never be forgotten when I stand up alone when everything, in front of this lush world, countless fork in too many cars too many people the end is always unclear I understand the adult world there always hidden flaws, but also I was at ease to meet. risked my pursuit afar I believe has been them to accompany me to live a simple life.

My youth! Youth!]
If dazed, just forget the past, so always delusions desperate Polaris light, stumbled in looking for time lost Eden. Always facing the sun smiling sunflower wither before last blooming gorgeous in wither being freeze condensate is eternal legend is no longer naive, can no longer get a the windward flying dandelion fluff excited to know what to do. Dazed and Confused edges paper airplane quietly away and left lying in an ivory tower the other side, I think, I was growing up.

[Crystal ball, whether it is in the Queen's hands or in witch the hands I would like to ask that
In mind, but not in the side, not wronged, but gradually forget wronged, is not so naive as to not to care about the calculations, but regardless of the calculations are useless, could not contain the heart of the renegade, to invest in him as long as he eyes , frown or a smile, she has become such a swing can not be determined.

[You will pain you cry I guess I do not have a strong heart]
I was afraid of thunder child, I always panic when the middle of the night playing Ray went to the parents' room, the mother will rope me in the side, murmured, not afraid not afraid of lightning across the night sky, polish the night I curled up in the protection of the mother slowly calm mother gave me the most safe and inclusive. later that day, the mother did in me when thunder hold my hand holding at all times of danger. my shoulder who?

[World a stare dad is my mother's gray soldiers]
Naive days before, in addition to the daily relative tarried in the side of the father and mother, or turn around Mom and Dad, stored in the memory of the sum of the images they associated often precipitated sad extricate themselves, and turned around to see the world eventually found some pictures of, dare Panasonic an inexplicable from the gas in high school should be a great turning point, a lot of time is no longer so dependent on their carefully tended, I think in their heart Although I can not be an independent little girl However, there will always be days I have to face the fact that I shortly afterwards need to leave home independent, they may my heart still turn the ball less, but is no longer complete.

[I will always miss you like a darling]
Seems all youth detached things are beautiful, so even if you only glance I was a boy, has become my wound amazing memories I remember, I like you, like, dare with love, I like it very much like your own, or that the mere appearance, carefully treasure a heart, silence not play because youth can not afford so heavy word;
I like you, like that time like your own.
That time is no longer the only years of sedimentation a somewhat heavy imply to.

[Optional Ju sent to your side / to softly sing your favorite song]
Sometimes, some of the melody can change my mood. Flock of birds flying south, each spring will come back, I can stand on the roof to wait for them to fly over my head, waiting for their feathers were numerous falls as spring most gentle Yanghwa But those who leave, no matter what I have long to wait, they were scattered in the horizon, voice and facial expression, no miss.

[Pulled out of my life since I will no longer have a life you]
I have been thinking to me how a man, he can tolerate my bad temper to hide my smile inside it can be seen that, in fact, not happy, it can know, in fact, I am not a good student, because I was live forward to a demon incinerated I already stricken heart of corruption, he can know that I quietly when in fact, be very afraid, because I tend to think so as far as it will not let me alone, that he can stay with me with the sink can also walked out of demons, he appeared in front of me when I need it most to give me a hug, he can in my lonely give me a bright flower smile, he can be when I suddenly mad know I was rather crazy for what I most want to abandon the life he gave me a slap in the face to scold me awake, his life and I know each other intersect the premise that he can hide in a corner I cry when accompanied with me crying and then swore me silly not stupid, he can understand my heart but if I do not want it can be installed as a daft as a brush, he also can Houchu I heard Wang Xin Yan, You idiot, but I know I probably never encountered such a person this is too good not fit with my acquaintance.

[Everything can not kill you will only make you stronger.]
All buried in the sand into the city, all the ugly face exposed to the air, a lot of warm and legend, and then even more disheartened to break the all pressed powder piled up the ugly face of all the circumstances. asphalt polybrene good and evil, life is every thing has whether good or bad, no one qualified to trample alive disregard, but every life has long gauge, regardless of the relationship, it is also even and then close again efforts not touch life needs more love more warm and I do not deny that the reality is the reality, it requires you how you have to do, what also can not escape is the reality on the contrary can only destroy.

Two Letters From Father

The end of the college entrance examination. Goodbye to the pile of papers that pile and burning the midnight oil studying for the night, but my mood can not be relaxed. When the postman father every day from dawn to dusk, run around, work hard and support their families. Although he all day unlike other parents as talks about the college entrance examination, but I know he is also all hope sustenance in me. If this test is not good, how to be accountable to him?

The next few days, I have all day to stay at home and do nothing, came up to find some work to do. But father, I just want to exercise it. He listened to my thoughts, the silent child, said: "graduation, you like fun to play with. Okay dad, earn enough to you to go to school, do not even think about." In fact, the situation at home I clear all pointed to the father's point of wages, every month stretched. However, I have not heard him, find a company that can accept their own construction sites. Boss see that I'm sincere, let me do some miscellaneous family. Every day, I will be in his father left to go out, and then go home before he finishes his work. But not an unventilated wall under the sun, or was my children's things in the site work to tell his father. -

One afternoon, the father deliberately bypass the incoming mail site, far to find me. I'm ready to Tibet, it was too late. Father, like a lost child at this time, the hand on the handlebars, stare pestle in there. I pretended not to find him, head down, sweat continue working children. -

The night I came home from the site. Father see my body up and down dirty, eyes suddenly wet. Eyes shining crystal clear and bright smile. He Sheng dumplings end of a full bowl I like to eat at my desk and commanded me to hurry to eat. -

The HKALE results would be released that day, I get up early and went straight to school on his bicycle along a familiar piece of road. Very heavy heart, nervous heart like a hastily rotating wheels the same uneasy. To the classroom to see the mood of the students are very different part of the sorrow and pain;, some of them rejoice and be glad. The teacher came up to me holding transcripts, cheerful, said: "The college entrance examination results in the school seems you are still very good, the University score than you'd expect even higher than 40 points." My one, watching transcripts hearts happiness. -

Noon I Jianbu got home, my father was doing quietly on the sofa smoking mouthful. He saw me, and quickly stubbed out a cigarette, stood up and asked my grades. I told the teacher that the very good results, the ecstatic father listened to, actually once again I am treated like a boy hugging his mouth with both hands stretched out the rough crack: "Good, good, good, Dad know you are the best, and did not let them down ah. "Then the father told the mother to cook a few road dishes, his house took out a bottle of liquor, and I know that is the weekdays reluctant River collection over years of wine. The father opened the bottle of liquor, carefully pour a full glass or two of concern, saying: "Come on, today we Yeliang good to drink a few glasses!" I took the father handed me the cup of the wine in one gulp. -

"Come, come," Then my father gave me poured a full glass of, then we gulp. -

That only remember his father drank a lot, and feel their own minds a little vertigo, I said to him: "Dad, we do not drink, do not drunk!"

The father listened, the red neck smiled and nodded and said: "Well, you do not drink, Davis in the coming few glasses, Davis is pleased."

Hearing this, my nose is slightly acid. Mother in the side of comfort: "Your father is old, along with him, let him Comin good to drink a few glasses."

A few days later, the father came back from the post office, the hand my college acceptance letter. His side into the house side look elated: "Congratulations, your son Goldbond nomination!"

Hee hee smile mother, yell rushed father: "do? Do not forget, this is not inside your home."

Father chuckled, pointing to the notice began to say to them: "Look, this is not a happy from the post office to the house where nobody Chouchou show him a Zan son is Kwame glorious!"

Since then, I know I of this notice, good save by his father in his bedroom drawer only come when he hastened to come up with to make everyone look. I also know that the father every night before lamp office will open the drawer glance, so that he would then do his thing. -

Day, while the father has not come back to work. I sneaked into his room, opened a drawer in the middle of the bookcase most see neatly inside stood a large pile of books, I notice placed by the father in the middle of the flat Crimping. Come up with the notice, the following also pressing two stacked with good note. I carefully open the Set eyes, turned out to be the father wrote to me, but I have not been to see two of the most simple letter, his father said in it:

Dear son: -

Father know you best, your teacher proud parents proud folks. You to pursue efforts to struggle and will certainly reap the sweet fruit, bless you after azure sky to open up one of their own in their former way street road! -

Love you dad -

Another says: -

Dear son: -

This test is not good, you do not have to have a little remorse, blame, blame no fault of their own. Your pursuit of efforts to again struggle but it is impossible to time can be very successful, believe in yourself! Zan good review, next year is sure to test out a good result. To believe that the sun after the storm. -

Always supports your father -

Just two brief note, but I looked for. Moment, my tears unscrupulous cicada wins the orbital and the next moment I finally understood the father's selfless love. Know how to fly, fly fatherly Qingqi that blue sky! -

Text / Jinhua Jiang -

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Learn to Be Brave

Everyone in life will encounter some difficult and unpredictable things, like me, this story, I think only only on TV screen. But: When I experienced these things, know that life is indeed a pain and joy coexist today, I wrote a story yesterday. I hope you and I calmly ....... - Inscription

Is my happiest day in March 2000, my husband and I into a private company in Nanjing units, after two years of work, the preparations for the wedding, when we do not have a house, a rental house that we both marriage room, simple tourist back in his hometown, to handle the banquet even if married, our hands down the wedding left thirty thousand yuan. The reason we do this is that we want to leave extra money to buy a house with to prevent our marriage around.

Hard work pays off, in August 2000 the company began the implementation of welfare housing distribution, the husband was to be regarded as the backbone of the company, to be included in the list of welfare housing, and soon the implementation of sound, we have to get a house of their own, simple the wedding hands of the remaining three million has become a life-saving food. Most of the company out of the half remaining grandfathers and grandmothers Chouqi. At that time I was 26 years old, seems to be the most happy people of this world. My husband and I juggle a busy forgot almost all mother-in-law father-in-law also helped us to spend time together with, when our family be enjoyable.

However, there are unexpected storms, people have always happens. In Shen invasion joy among us in the new house the first Dragon Boat Festival in May 2001, the phone about a father-in-law to work in Nanjing with over. At noon that day feeling father looks very haggard, nor drink wine, eat too little, which is usually the father-in-law of state is completely incompatible. Asked his situation he was just very calm and said I heard estimates stomach problems, eating rice, a short break, the father-in-law went back to his unit, the night her husband came back to my father-in-law's a lot like her husband described her husband immediately telephoned her father-in-law, who told him to go to the hospital to check, he refused to go, was delayed until July, he realized the seriousness, and called her husband to accompany him to the hospital for a gastroscopy, in a week long waiting, our hearts just as jack pressing, and get a report card time, we like thunderstruck, ultimately concerns become a reality, a gastric cancer. Can not believe this is true, but the facts tell us, have to accept. Conceal his condition when we stabilize the mood when a call and told abdominal hydrocephalus to surgery immediately, and then called to tell her mother.

When we buy a house to get married, the remaining money can say the same, my mother-in-law borrowed from relatives and three million, live in the hospital immediately. And through a series of checks, and then the implementation of the surgical resection, two-thirds of the father-in-law of gastrectomy, when the doctor holding a bowl of bloody tumor out, my mother-in-law fainted.

Father-in-law be regarded as successful surgery in a series of postoperative chemotherapy has not suffered any injury, with normal to see the people of the father-in-law said he was not sick. When I got married there three years, 61-year-old father-in-law has no grandchildren yet, I want to have children in the father's repeated requests, the expected date of birth is July 23, 2003, I regularly checked during pregnancy months to find out I'm pregnant with twins for the first time, I told the good news of the father-in-law, he was excited even speechless. The arrival of our family for maybe a little angel, all of them smiling, still feel God is finally fair.

Two little guys grow up happy in my stomach, there are twenty days necessary childbirth may at that time my body because of excessive bile acids, each part of the powerful itch night sleep . I lay in bed in the morning of July 3, two little guys keep moving in my stomach, and stomach also began to slight pain. O'clock was admitted to the hospital, the doctor I do check found bloody amniotic fluid, and only one fetal heart in action, several doctors busy busy hands and feet I advanced operating table immediately cesarean production surgery, results of another little angel or God merciless claimed lives. The news was not dare to tell her father-in-law, afraid he can not accept a grandson who died at things. But the father-in-law asked her mother to two children, I was born and also healthy when her mother could no longer bear this sad news to tell the father repeatedly asked. Father-in-law fell at this time, although there are two sons, 61-year-old father-in-law is still not a grandson, wish I can safely gave birth to his two grandchildren. One month's time the disease again attacked the body of the father-in-law, the full moon 42 days when I return home with my daughter and a regret, father-in-law in order to see a granddaughter of fierce resistance to the pain of torture. When I go back to see the father-in-law only skinny when tears could no longer bear it, such as the heavy rain pouring instantly blurred eyes. See the next morning granddaughter's father-in-law and serene close your eyes, forever.

I remember in August 2003. At that time, I was like pushed into an abyss, all of a sudden lost two relatives I complain Heaven tease in people, give me the beginning of a smooth, let me bear life in such a big blow.

In the subsequent two years time, finally smooth over, the godfather relative child at home. Life can be considered enjoyable. God seems intentionally and against me in November 2006, my body discomfort, but fortunately, not a serious illness in the hospital for twenty days were discharged. Then I have to go to work, kids kindergarten days forward in such a dull life.

Since the father-in-law after the death of her mother has been feeling bad stomach, we is not her mother-in-law and honest son at home Dependence, home of all things or mother-in-law to command the two pro-oldest maternal aunt, mother-in-law is unique in the home can rely, however, In the final stage, the mother-in-law for a checkup but did not tell the two oldest maternal aunt. While in Nanjing, in fact it is thinking about the body of the mother-in-law, is very worried about her mother doing numerous inspections are not abnormal, August 2007, her mother phoned to tell her husband that she suffered from esophageal cancer, called how we I believe that this is true, my mother-in-law for fear that we are worried that she did not tell us, did not tell the oldest maternal aunt, she went to the hospital last gastroscopy result, she is also a person to pick up the report, finally playing to the phone to tell the bad news of this bolt from the blue. Then we only bad news to tell the two oldest maternal aunt. The two oldest maternal aunt then broke down in tears, their sisters three in the case of the mother-in-law living in the rural areas, the other two are living in the city, and the children of the two oldest maternal aunt usually good care of her mother. When he learned the sad news of her mother, they could bear.

We called in the case of helpless oldest maternal aunt with her mother to go to the Cancer Hospital in the diagnosis, when a glimmer of hope lies in the Cancer Hospital in Nanjing, hope the result is misdiagnosed, but when her husband once again got the report and did not help crying, mother-in-law is a cancer of the esophagus spray door, very serious, if not timely surgery dangerous to life and immediately with the mother-in-law do inpatient surgery, when the mother-in-law on the operating table doctor opened her chest and back between a full a foot of the hole, the desire to let her mother-in-law to survive the surgery was successful. Mother-in-law you'd rather die in the two years of chemotherapy in late, living death, to every chemotherapy will allow her mother to go to the gates of hell to go once. The chemotherapy her in bed Heartbreakers. But the mother is reported to have a glimmer of hope, always hope that once the chemotherapy will allow her to live another day. Last CT examination, the doctor told us has been transferred to the body of the mother-in-law of the cancer cells are, and we did not tell her mother the truth, my mother-in-law always thought that her illness will be good, of course we are also trying to tie with the mother-in-law, also want to have turn of Health last chemotherapy in mother-in-law could no longer afford to resist chemotherapy side effects fall.

Mother-in-law after two years of pain and suffering, at 8 o'clock in the morning on July 5 with a nostalgic, a sadness and regret died, aged 61 years.

Gone through so many things, I did not expect I was the master of the story, before will see the story of such newspapers or appear on TV screen, I did not think I'd experienced. Mother-in-law passed away two years time, not demand that rich, just for the sake of family peace.

Experienced so many strong and brave, and maybe this is God to the test of our lives, that we have to have the courage to accept it. Although life is very unfair to me, but I learned in life strong, Brave, learned to accept.

I hope my story can help those who are negative and have lost confidence in friends. I also hope that this article can bring you more inspiration alive, we must be strong, brave of you to accept things. Everything past, everything will be fine.

I do not miss the deceased's family, but strong.

How to Live Happily

A blank is also a color

Into the inner depth live Favre Taichetaiwu under the Bodhi tree, enlightened my stove next to the world, not all things are worth wholeheartedly to do the appropriate blank one color.

It took me a long time to eat a small fruit, I read a long time did not finish one morning light readings, I spent the whole day in pajamas in the room wandered. Sometimes I leisurely get by, because I found the cause of course I have to create a temple, but should have a garden in the back of the temple.

Men busy fight for money and status, and indulge in trivial and vulgar, title, identity, property is full of every corner of life, this is not a blank life, and ultimately have a few not win the others, and lose his own .

The blank is not a Word romantic inaction to the leisurely, a leisurely wealthy naturally present, is the kind of wisdom and philosophy of life. The blank can unlock fame rope burden, it can remove the fortune to enjoy life camp, the fragrance of the night life big spit.

Blank Life is full of desire in life, life will never have peace of mind, there will be no quiet intoxication, not the spirit of pleasure, not to someone with a natural blend.

In this world, the art of living, sometimes is a blank art.

Live to more than one

There are countless forms of life, more than one living law. Others looked natural, awkward live a; live natural, others looked awkward and a. Their favorite day in this world, too, is the best day to live their favorite living law, is the best living law.

I was the envy of a location on the career, but then I respect this position most of the false respect, I gave up this envy. I had to look up a lot of character, and later I found after they leave the authority, and the rest is just petty, I no longer have this to look up. I had adored superior rich Later I found out that they are also dark Mu I relaxed, I no longer have this kind of worship. Not envious of others, do not humble themselves, according to their nature crossing finish their own time, that is, the days of heaven.

In the road of life, learn to enjoy life, to avoid dragging lives go forward, is the best choice in life; accustomed to no appreciation, not live for others to see, is the wisdom of life; nature save point incomprehensible place, the hearts unduly concerned about the era's face makes life more interesting.

The world, life is no fixed pattern, who for some purpose in a mode to framed their own, he sooner or later have to leave the laughing stock. Never uninstall the actor, always carrying his leadership of the shelf, turned most people Chi to nose.

I insist on looking for the living law, the hearts of most comfortable one. I am convinced that to do so is to get the people of God competitive talent.

Third, happiness is the smell of the soul

Happiness as a magnet, in life, such as iron. Philosophers and poets to explore the true meaning of life, said White is looking for one of their own happiness. Mortal beings, alive and dedication to the pursuit of love is sweet, the consummation of the marriage, career success, could there during which contains the well-being of humanity.

Happiness is the smell of the soul, materialized in the form, there is no quantitative criteria. Contemptible pleasure, is no way people can meet, however, they are not going to have true happiness.

Happiness has nothing to do with the form of life. Health is a blessing in the patient's eyes, the victims of the eyes, Pinganshifu, in MasterCard liking the eyes, there is no happiness.

Happiness is a concomitant. Not hesitating in the world of ice and snow hallux people will not feel warm room light coverlet comfortable; I did not experience hunger, suffering people, do not know the meaning of food and clothing; deep thinking about the people, not Taichetaiwu indifferent.

The happy story also did not answer. Millionaire Simmons in bed tossing and turning in the streets, homeless sleep very soundly.

Happiness is constantly changing look back again, a the original sadness may be today's happiness, happiness today may be just what tomorrow's melancholy.

Happiness also can not explain in words. Happy when we can cheer, happiness drop falls, we meet it usually tearful eyes. In this world, happy expression, happiness is always silent.

Happiness is God throw the bait to the earth one of the most tough job faced, did not get the time, it makes you dreaming once, letting you feel the taste dull. Wisdom discovered this truth, happiness is defined as the constant pursuit of the unfortunate definition for enjoyment and possession.

Fourth, a return to zero

Everything from scratch, will eventually return to zero.

The morning sun rises in the east and return to the East, after a night of it also.

Towering mountains, snow wore Millennium; vicissitudes of life on the earth torrent ancient rivers return to its original place to go, same is true of thinking about sleeping with the snow and ice.

Quibble no matter how noisy and irrational no matter how slick and artful, calm, will fall into the real trap set. Similarly, the fallacy regardless jump how high must return to the truth in the earth dug slot.

Innocent children, after things a weathered, become steady and strong and, worse still become the man of the hour, has become the backbone of the country. However, one day their grandson grandfather is sitting on the garden loungers sun hat capture that smile and the look and three years old when the photo.

The regression, gentle and powerful; regression, kind and solemn; regression unknowingly resilient. However, the true face of the regression is satisfactory.

Arena, whether you run the 5,000 or a million, if not back to the starting point, your score is calculated with zero forever.

The spacecraft sent to other planets, if it can not return to the ground, it is called a failed experiment.

Start all over again, but also to return to zero. This is the world's most simple, plain, plain philosophy. It is the thinking of the root, the root of the arts. The difference is that the universal life, some larger zero-painting, and some it draw smaller.

V. born shall only

Born shall only born with their talent for something. This is a timeless truth.

God we were born, will be endowed with the mission. In order for our ability to accomplish this mission, it must have the potential to accomplish this mission have not forgotten us into this potential is our strengths is our key to successful door opens.

Unfortunately, it does not have the strengths of the Li Shi clearly written on the palm or forehead, but it injected into our self-confidence and sweat injected into our thinking and the spirit.

In the journey of life, everyone had confused and hesitant, and do not know their own strengths where, do not know their potential, do not know the road must be taken. However, we have had this experience: As long as we stop to consider, confident, and continuously explore hesitate to sweat. We will inadvertently discovering their own strengths, and find their own mission, sometimes even quick success.

God is the reason not directly tell us with what potential it want training exercise before the mission effort honing strengthen their will, so that we can not pride in the success in front of applause among fans to not revel in the flowers in front of . Therefore, it is interested in our potential into the setbacks and frustrations into the twists and turns in the mud. Tears as touch, so you look for waving Khan.

However, some people end their lives do not understand this truth, their superficial understanding of providence, blindly follow the fate. They do not know their potential workers of their bones, their body skin hunger, the suffering of their mind temptations. They refused to try, fear of ridicule, fear of failure. They do not know the talents and abilities, knowledge, and wisdom, and that the key to success in these so-called disaster and misfortune. These people mediocre life, you can be said to be God's fault?

God give each person a key to success, it was found, was not found. Therefore, this world there are two kinds of life forms: one is rotten, one is burning. Rotten to the buried burning potential shine.

Sixth, not comparable

Tree each leaf are similar, each leaf and both are different. Mortal beings also have their own characteristics, their own merits. The commander in chief of the three services of only long poetry Fu; he good song, good dance; his ability to pull the mountain, you can swim across the river. No one is born the same for others. People have their own talent, each with its own mission.

Elan is small but fragrant poppy flower Yan was tasteless. Shallow and have lowly rustic shallow beauty, luxury have the luxury of sorrow. The greatnesses with trivialization lowly, a top of the hill at the foot of the location is so poor, however, the two saw each other was the same size.

In real life, there are people who take their own compare with others, they put themselves and others on the same starting line, than the gap between the front and rear, than how much salary than the level of duties, even more than the size of the house, than the sons and daughters of the similarities and differences . This seemingly sanliujiudeng ratio method, in fact, is humanity outside a social comparison, this comparison most people framed mode to use someone else's life, so this is a live fresh and unique Life lose their proper tension.

As people, along with most intelligent way to cherish their own style, to hold their own spiritual garden, maintain their individuality dignity, become best.

Seven, suffering the first wipe dawn of the wisdom

Painful the first wipe dawn of the wisdom, God only so this arrangement, because the truth of life, not by clever can understand and rely on pain after thoroughly aware.

The pain is God hidden a gift to mankind. It's coming, sometimes reminded of happiness, and sometimes a hint of genius. Be used as a reminder when you do not deviate from the law of happiness; be used as implied, to tell you, you turned out the important task is to play.

The pain is a melting pot, it melted who impurities. When your pain, your heart may be painful kind, your conversation may be due to the pain deep marrow. Pain or a touchstone of life. Pain means you survive, you have pain, you explore, you have pain, which means there is a hope that the seeds sprout.

In this world, there is no pain, only humble happiness. Do not you see, the trivial troubles always a small joy go hand in hand, unfortunately always sharing weal and woe with success and disaster. No pain, the human mind will never be able to mature. Do not you see, philosopher bred in pain, the poet was born in pain, hero rise in pain. In this secular society, which person is not experienced pain, only to find the value of their own, only to see the true colors of life.

The painful enhance the human soul, and pain and suffering to the flesh, so wise only treat pain, do not have pain. They do the pain, as indispensable to life the season, when it arrives, sow the successful seed, when it departs, responded with a happy smile.

This world, every one of the depths of the soul, has a unique pain deep in the hearts of all have a happiness-facing windows. Once you have discovered the meaning of pain, suffering no longer into it as painful.

Eight successful aristocratic angel

Success is a most aristocratic color angel, it is always synchronized and self-confidence, and success once come confidence by side, will be coming back.

Successful door ajar mostly, as long as you have the courage to go knock on the success will warmly greet you; however and success to meet with you, usually there is a partner, it's called jealousy.

The secret of success is to seize the target and hold. The losers only so failed, is that no goals or objectives forgotten; successful only so successful is that others say never because of his desire can not be achieved while a loss.

Success of size, is to measure the extent you desire. Set goals, as long as you have the determination: not in the pursuit of success in the pursuit of death. So the success of the angels, to pick out the biggest fruit of a roadside lost in your struggle.

Success is the countless failures crystallization. Successful people are fall more than others to get up once. To be successful, you must have the guts: loneliness, overcome the fear of failure, the crowd can disregard and contempt eyes.

Success is certainly successful, success is a reward for the winners; success can become successful epitaph, however, success is not successful overweening passes. Because in this world, the so-called success is a success, are a particular area of ​​success.

Know this truth, you and I do not need to head Aung too high.

It is Important to Be A Man of Power

Now an important historical period, to the ability of society to convert a qualification social and human development ultimately is the ability to rely on. So what is the capacity? Need and how to cultivate it? Available to friends as a reference in the following:

To be a capable people, only to realize, is the essence of their own - the ability of a person there is no culture, not to see that he has a diploma is not to see how many books he read, but to see him every day whether sentiment, if he is not good at sentiment, then he is a "yokel".

A person is not thinking, not that he can not write the article, can not eloquent, but to see whether he often when a person can continue to contemplation, constantly sentiment. If he had thought, perception, then he would have thought.

A person can not afford not to see what he knows and can do, but often to see if he "realized", and "realized" the ability to form because only realize is their own!

Self-confidence is the first element of the ability - the ability of the elements. Capacity is a possibility, the possibility of a person strive to use the conditions to achieve objectives. My capacity formula is: the ability = the attitude + conditions + goals. Therefore, the ability of the first element is the attitude, the tendency efforts. People's initiative, and its core is to choose, in fact, is self-confidence.

Confidence, also known as self-confidence, the mental state of a person believe that their own ability, that believe they have the ability to achieve their own goals of psychological tendencies. Confidence is based on the correct understanding of their own, a correct estimate of their own strength and positive affirmation is an important component of self-awareness.

How to improve the self-confidence it?

I think there are four ladder process:

1, the first step: experience.

Is to experience success, little success, and then big success.

2, the second step: to explore their own.

Constant awareness of their own, find themselves, explore their recognize their own uniqueness, as well as personal advantages District.

3, the third step: thinking.

Continual problem-solving process, the formation of a stable mode of thinking. True self-confidence is a stable system of thinking. The methodology of thinking like a life of total coordinate system is the chain of command of all acts of life. In fact, very few people have the appropriate methodology system. Most are driven by instinct, empiricism or the bookishness-thinking technology. This constitutes the restlessness tilt of the state of our society as a whole, therefore, establish distinctive methodology of the scientific system, is an important part. Stable mode of thinking, confidence is subjective, idealistic, and can not be stable.

4, the fourth ladder: habit.

Is the behavior of the program and behavior habits. Self-confidence is ultimately a habit is internalized morality and wisdom.

The objective of self-confidence system established premise forming ability. The ability of the first element - the attitude, in addition to self-confidence, the other two components: a sense of responsibility and willpower.

Want, and need to do to get the - the capacity of the ladder. Ability of the substance - want and need to do to get. Knowledge but can not afford, or think of but can not do, it seems as if was only a little bit, in essence, far worse.

I think that the bridge - that we often say "enlighten" Why do we always want to do the same? "Think" and "so that" there is a kind of bridge between?

Not "enlighten", even if they know the thought of, or can not be converted to their own ability, or can not be transformed into effective action to achieve the goal. For example: not good at reading people, the chance to read the more the more confused, a drag on the knowledge I became a man, will study Kaiqiao, can be caused by reading books. How to improve the execution, but also this problem. : Bookish bookish intellectuals comparison, the core of the "bookish" It is not "enlighten" intellectuals "weak" and "calcium deficiency" epitomized here.

I want to explore - how resuscitation, is how to develop their own understanding? Solve this problem, in essence, the problem will solve the capacity of self-cultivation: resuscitation = understanding + epiphany. The so-called understanding is reliable generalizations; so-called epiphany, is beyond thinking.

Resuscitation of the many ways to introduce a classic ladder mode:

1, a first mode: read a lot. By reading a lot of books to get enough information, and information to classify, distinguish, sorting, reading break rolls, getting a God.

2 Mode: Hangwanlilu. Is through practice, experience, contacts, on the basis of the experience, rational understanding and summarized.

3, the third mode: reading countless people. Is a lot of contact with different people, from different people who find the similarities and the intersection at, to gain a correct understanding of things.

4, the fourth mode: Follow the footsteps of the successful. Imitate and follow a shortcut for ordinary people get insight imitate and follow the self-training, from training to obtain a reliable understanding.

5, the fifth mode: an expert point of enlightenment. Expert Gordon inspired point, the person fails to grasp the supreme form of the lowest cost, effective. All the wisdom of China's highly centralized to the top of the "inspired" word.

Fourth, the ability to adhere after the corner - ability to achieve.

Capacity, from a certain kind of sense that is a joy of life. Any joy in the world, the spirit, the flesh, will appear in a corner of adhere to the following.

The big man with the little people of distinction also lies in the ability to adhere to, and did not insist, there is no joy, there is no ability to. Adhere to, not explosive, is a tough, all-conquering often it is this seemingly term expires but potentially very strong staying power.

Our physical education in schools, often do suspension movement with both hands, usually insist on doing ten minutes on the monkey bars felt that he could not hold on, and jump to the ground from the horizontal bar on safety. However, we imagine, if it is in the case of an accident, your both hands than 2 meters from the ground the horizontal bar, but you do not know when to be a wing of 500 meters above the ground, rescue, So only patiently persisted, this time, maybe you can be extraordinary to adhere to more than one hour. This is the willpower in the role.

Many limit, usually can not go beyond, and so many people to do things, to the difficult times, gave up, and just as easily jump to the ground from the horizontal bar. In fact, the success, often in a time of hardship adhere to the moment when it will appear!