Don't Be Jelous

She contacted me have said many times, from undergraduate to graduate, every time I wanted to take to find her out Pinjiu, she always reminded me to me there is a bright fresh, but I really only took her as a sister to see other that feeling. Do her thinking is very comprehensive, every time I call home, my mother always kept nagging at the ear: small South, favors good ah, beautiful and excellent after we two do relatives I went to the mother's relatives drop in for a save toll. privately speculate countless times, is not she gave my mother bribed? -

But in the end I still have to fight and Min grace room, eagerly waited one morning in the bedroom, the candidates did not appear the second time I tell myself that even if Sister Furong to candidates, I would not hesitate choose the latter rather than the former. -

I know that the Min grace this person is definitely not fuel-efficient. Fight room the next day, this woman gave me trouble, I admit that I really wanted to take her into pieces. The next morning at six up and dress up, because the night before iron son said he wanted me to introduce both beautiful, with two beautiful women I at six themselves from head to toe to pack a lot of eight when iron sub call me downstairs, I went downstairs Pidianpidian closed when Min grace a mist looked at me. At that time, I felt that comfortable ... I did not expect just arrived downstairs, just raised his hand to say hello and human beauty, Min grace upstairs shouted into the following: "The south, out to take care of people, and sister play at night, I'll wait for you to come back for dinner. action spot on Jiangzainali the iron sub with a look at the alien's eyes looked at me: "Luo Xiangnan, only one night ... ye cooked meal?" I like root The wood like startled to know that there Diansha. Then is to go out for a morning, two beautiful Leng Shimo Zheng Yanqiao I look ...

Came back at noon, I kicked open the door, she saw my actions, immediately went up to his face ridicule: "south, tired of it, such a hot day." I flew her a supercilious never thought and She bucket, and I know her bucket up to the end I am sure to suffer. Then I went to the couch holding the remote control slide like to change with the channel. Then she had to say: "Luo Xiangnan, knowing that I've liked you, you still find me under the eyes of little girls, I can stand it, ah." To be honest, after listening to these words I was a bit coursing. She went on to say: Luo Xiangnan, aesthetic problem ah? Looking for it to find pictures, also from bad to worse, both beautiful morning, not fuel-efficient. "Listen to her say to the fire I said: "I is an aesthetic problem, but just strange strange, you say my aesthetic how you point not forward side of it?" she heard this green face. For words, I am proud for several days. -

The later discovered She said that both beauty really not good stuff, and I'm a little fluke, thinking she Man or Tingyou the vision. But I also summed up a truth: the fight room is a dangerous thing, especially unsuccessful, but the woman had a strong jealousy and crush you.

The years pale face

The years pale face, the quicksand deposition of the pearl. I do not know how many years, snatched the youthful years, life rings will turn faster, the most beloved of my life before I understand life and death, cruel death at different times, ruthless away relatives - his grandmother and uncle.

The first time away from home to school that day, tears pulling pain our eye. Your eyes are red from crying, rough hands touched my head, and murmured: Blessings, go to the other side to remember to write back, sick, remember to call my brother to take you to see a doctor in a timely manner what to buy, eat in school If someone bullied you remember telling my brother. Cold remember more clothes ... my eyes are red from crying ferocious stare cold parents, listening the wicket aunt anxious blowing on the car's sound, I clung to the train platforms, railings, adhere to the dead are not on the train cruel father and an I picked up the wearer's plug into the cart, I kick the name of his father's arms, until the train doors closed that moment, the door of my parents solemn warning his brother to take care of me brother tightly pregnant live me his eyes trace sympathy. At the moment, I realize that I want a very long time to meet with you, I cried and beat the train windows of despair, through the window, I saw your site, hand one a wipe from the face tears. Eyes gazed at me in the train, the parents escorted you step by step with the movement of the train moving, until the train disappeared in the end you can not catch it, I can not see the end.

First semester winter vacation home, parents are busy with work, no time to go to the train station to meet us, and thus served to pick our glorious task, who knows when my brother and I just take a step off the train door, your sharp-eyed to see us , regardless of image yell my name, ran hurried kiss my face over and over again, carefully looked at me, his face sometimes exposed to frown and a surprised expression, murmured: you are not school not used to the dish, is not reluctant to buy something delicious to eat enough with pocket money in school, you see, so you lean. Then, you turned to the brother scolded fiercely that he would not take good care of me, brother wronged endure all this does not belong to his crimes. Towards the site, check the itinerant security aunt smile to say to you: You see your heart is so anxious to see grandson, 14:30 car 14:00 to remind you here and so no later than, chosen to 6:00 am on a cold day, I'm really afraid you love their grandchildren! You did not answer, you give her a very slight sun's smiling face. Out of the train station, I hold your hand, serious to say to you: the grandmother to come pick me up just 30 minutes early enough, are not allowed as it is today so early to pick me up, otherwise I would be angry. You gently pinching my nose smile said: Silly boy.

Warm and delicious dinner will begin looking at the sumptuous dinner on the table, kept his mouth turned saliva, secretly aiming a living room, not people, and my heart thought, before tasting one being the eyes closed to enjoy mouth delicious dishes the taste, and my father came into my solemn roar to me: school teachers how to teach you, how educated are not. I the tears endured outflow wronged also yell at him: I was not educated, I was fighting and classmates you hard heart of an 8-year-old child to another city to study, you are not worried I will not go hungry, the sick will not know called my brother to bring a doctor, you know, selfish that you do everything that is good for me. I think for yourself! You lift blazing slap "popping" sound rang in my face, my heart to hate you, I cried and reincarnation to leave the living room, back to the room, with wash parents hate such a flood of tears, I despair the think my child is a parents love. At the moment, and grandmother gently pushed open the door, hugged me slowly, should, and I tell parents how how not, in fact, you are in the sets of my words, let me change the bad ideas of the parents, You told me the father apologized to me, and I insist that it will not, you will, really as bad as you might expect, the next day my father bought my favorite gourd doll discs gave me request I rude behavior expressed understanding. Therefore, I and the stalemate of the parents have been alleviated, I better. You looked on a harmonious picture, your mouth smile, forehead wrinkles also cater you laugh very obvious.

One year, but each year. The expiration of the three years, and grandmother still maintained that the station platform to bid farewell to the posture, eyes still some reddish bloated, eyes still looking at the car, the pace is still one step two steps chasing my leavin ... ... then I go home, your old figure active in the platform, looking at the car down pedestrians, searching for my shadow, followed by the string of another string of kissing my face. This year, my triumphant return, I stepped out of the door, the pace is so, so excited. Why? When I look to the site, and grandmother, you figure what ah? I dragged heavy suitcase, stepped out of the site, and asked often and you say hello aunt, why? The aunt said that today do not see you, my grandmother, love my grandmother, you do not trouble ah! Suddenly felt my heart hurts hurts my heart stop jump was amazing, I quickly ride back to your home. Entered the room, the living room pale, the incense before placing the tablets, stinging my eyes, the legs soft kneeling on the ground, the most familiar face, kindly face, the most favorite of my grandmother, why ? You suddenly lying that does not belong to your place! This must be a dream, a dream, I constantly shaking his head, I do not believe, I howled, and why? House of Love my grandmother, you do not answer me ah! Grandma, you see, I test the focus of the city's junior high school, is the city's junior high school! You look at the good, I am unable to scream crying, but you just do not answer my ears only worried about my parents and brother looked at me and calling me ... wake up, my parents and brother worried mother told I, grandmother until the last moment she disappeared, his mouth still calling my name, big eyes wide open efforts to want to see me one last look ah! But ...... I'm in the examination room, and why? Grandmother, you do not work hard ah! I agree so quietly left me, I tell you, I do not agree with this practice, I do not agree! I sat in bed tussle with beds, holding my mother, The condensate choke cried and said: Blessings, Come on, my mother will be sad, and grandmother do not want you, you have to carry on ...

PASSING fleeting, you promise me I, warmth. Grandmother, House of Love My grandmother, whether Fortunately you in heaven? Your granddaughter miss you.

Six Word

Handed several never said thank friends is not easy! Friends, perhaps to say "thank you" is an easy task, even simple to could recall However, I really do not have to say a thank you be able to do, but it is a rare realm of true friends life do not say a 'thank' words, emotions and friendship between them, not because of the lack of a 'thank' words, while there is no way inferior to the contrary, more precious.

Said Xie word, this friend of love implies a deep sense of family; said Xie word, this friend's situation is much more simple and natural. When we lost a lot of unnecessary courtesy, presented in front of each other is a natural and really pure friendship, no disguise, not false, and some are just mind close communication; does not say thank word, not spiritual apathy, and expression and returns becomes another form that is abandoned empty promises, the real treasure of friendship internalized as a force in our hearts, to build genuine friendship building. Think of our own, all the friends, there are several able life to say thank you friends? Vast sea, the vicissitudes of things. When we are faced with a growing number of so-called reality, looking for a do not say thank friends, and how hard. If you have a friend Needless to say thank you, even if it only has you cherish it.

You know, this friendship is that money can not buy, it is time not lead back to the share of the sincere friendship Heart exchange are the wealth of your life. When you pay, you do not have to always look forward to a friend to say thank you. A thousand times, thanks a thousand times, and may not be able to compete with an understanding eyes! I have at least five Needless to say thank friends, so I am grateful to God, will cherish the hard-won mutual affection!

On the family

Day in day by day from the side over the 40-year-old, seems to suddenly see the light, suddenly bearish many things, figured out a lot of sense ...

Life is simple happy fate: life in a foot, hard to find ten feet, the old saying goes quite reasonable, there is no need to do unnecessary struggle, God early as you arrange everything sawed sawed .

Hungry have about money: external things, support vain, big deal for him to eat seafood, I eat a pickle, the same as full control, nothing more than that he wore mink, I'm wearing a down jacket, still warm,

Concerning status: that something fundamental has nothing to do with me, he for his dignitaries me for my poor people, the final resting place is not all that little box like sketch says: What?

About the Business: there is no distinction or distinction, the man for me for all, as long as the legal, do what pocket money most shameful, things do not dry Siyaomianzi a pain.

Marriage: broken pot own broken lid Han people since so what people love the original firm want to marry him, there must be a reason to marry him. Now, he can not tolerate turning a blind eye to close one eye, open eyes one eye, look at the poor only bright spot for him, no one is perfect thing.

On the family: a few discordant notes ingenious conspire a chances to play the unusual and beautiful piece of music that, you appreciate how, anyway, the music in which performers.

About friends: want to leave you, do not insist, chances are seeking back is a villain, really ingratiate themselves, they do not call them every day, as long as the other problems, and say hello on call, Liangleichadao OK.

Children: on and give you a certificate of deposit, of course, not your account, password, and I wonder if you just kept inside when you can take out to enjoy, it depends on its owner, do not count on it When the dedication.

About parents: they account for me, although they are not trying to recover the cost, but also the double your money back when, perhaps until they left me, can not clear it.

Maybe I was really decadent, getting old, depression, but also feel relaxed, open-minded, cheerful, everything and competing every day than people, it is not solely against themselves, and torture yourself.? learn to coax yourself happy, will calm the people around.

Looking back, I drove there bike which I ride there walk which I walk there Zhu Shui which my crutches there are no legs which, I have no legs be dead which ... ... ha ha, you might laugh at me than down, but people only in this way than to not expect you A life for decades, whether you live the emperor or a beggar, and ultimately is not attributed to a pile of loess What?

The Power of Examples Is Endless

The power of examples is endless. This sentence, we all can understand. That the person to find a role model for my own life - you most want to be.

If there is no readily available, can also be a combination of "a. Then, as the role is assumed, psychology called within the simulation, that is all the time to think of yourself as you want "a.

Not only manners to be like, the more important is the thinking and behavior should be like. Reflect on their own often lead to positive thinking positive frame of mind: "If he (she) would want to do this? Him (her) what would they think and how to do it?" Mentality and behavior is closely linked: and behavior, positive thinking and behavior is bound to develop a positive attitude.

A Frenchman, 42-year-old is still nothing, he also believes that simply unlucky thoroughly: divorce, bankruptcy, unemployment ... he does not know the value of their own survival and significance from birth. His own dissatisfaction becomes eccentric, irritable, and very fragile.

- Days, a Gypsy fortune teller in the streets of Paris, he is free to try. Gypsies seen his palmistry, said: "You are a great man, you are great!"
"What?" He was shocked, "I was a great man, you're not kidding?!"
Gypsy said quietly: "You know who you are?"
"Who am I?" He thought to himself, "is Cooler is a pauper, I abandoned life!" But he still pretending to be calm and asked: "Who is it?"
"You are a great man," said Gypsy, "You know, your reincarnation Napoleon! Flow of blood in your body, your courage and wisdom, Napoleon ah! Mr. Do you really did not notice, you look much like Napoleon? "
"Would not it ..." he said hesitantly, "I divorce ... I'm broke ... I lost my job ... I almost homeless ..."
"Hey, it was your past, the Gypsies had said, your future can be incredible If you do not believe, Mr. do not have to give money to a good However, after five years, you will be the most successful French ah! because you Napoleon's incarnation! "

The surface, he left the pretend do not believe, but my heart there never had a great feeling. He generated strong interest in Napoleon. Home, trying to find all books of writings relating to Napoleon to learn.

Gradually, he found that the surrounding environment began to change, friends, family, colleagues, bosses, have changed in another perspective, another expression of his. Things started smoothly. Later, he had realized that, in fact, everything has not changed, he changed: his courage, thinking mode in imitation of Napoleon, and even walk and speak like.

In college

Emotions, to take care of all the students in the university's another thing that is possible for other students. In college, we found that two students: a classmate only concerned about their own achievements, their interests, their own how to win in the competition, does not care about others. This mentality to develop general community will be trounced, because this society will not accept the only people to fight for their interests. Therefore, the time in college to learn to focus on other people, good left to others as much as possible, a bad thing as much as possible for themselves, so you get the trust of the students, the future you things, someone will help you. I was in college, we adhere to four years to draw water sweeping quarters. I find in the new East university students to help, they are willing to help me. Because they feel that in college I was a good person, a person willing to help people, so that the formation of a team of university students with dry New Oriental. My circle contacts have been very, very widely, but my best friend is still university students.

In college, another thing we have to do as much as possible in emotional something. I am talking about is not just friendship, affection between men and women. In college if given the opportunity to talk about a love that is a very good harvest. I was in college, there would be no girls to talk to me, if you have this opportunity, or to seize the opportunity. Of course, not to fall in love and fall in love. The must really unforgettable fall in love with each other, in order to talk about. Because only in good faith in order to truly feel, in order to bring real growth. If you really love each other, love wholeheartedly. I say single-minded than in the university only talk once in love, but when talking about can only talk about one. Because a real feelings of belonging in the heart of a period of time with no distraction, feel deeply in love with another person. If you truly love, you have to love the generosity. Generous, I said not to let your boyfriend or girlfriend to someone else, but in college talents, they fall in love with you today, tomorrow may fall in love with someone else. Sometimes love there will be a special phenomenon in college when our class took place over such a thing, the two male students buddies, a guy has a girlfriend, and we play with, results playing playing Another two people play to go, the boys push to one side. As we all know, love is the happiest two people love each other, or two people at the same time does not love. Love is the most painful is it? You also deeply in love with each other, the other no longer love you and you love each other's heart and how also fit to. A university last year, two people fall in love, then this girl does not love the boys, the boys are also deeply in love with this girl. Boys how could not pass the test, the last boys went to the women's dormitory, the girls pushed down from the window, and then jump. This is a tragic love story, but it is a dirty love story. This despicable is that this boy's despicable, if you really love each other, we must bless them all the way, and let them take a good, but not to hurt them. So, if I found the two men talk about love, and that I must bless them, they go all the way Well, until walked divorce. You can not say that destroyed their lives with the lives of others at the same time our students here will encounter this kind of love and pain, and also be sure to use a generous way to solve this pain.

In college unloved, how do you do? In other words, the university is not necessarily everyone should love, not necessarily everyone has the opportunity to fall in love. Even if you want to talk about, but do not have anyone to talk to you in love. My first love and last love, a 25-year-old when I graduated from university two years later, in the campus of Peking University to find my girlfriend, later became my wife, the mother of my child. That is to say, the students remember, even if it is late for love that is true love. If we say that there is no love today, you wait. Like today you do not succeed, you wait. To work hard to find waiting in the waiting, waiting to believe in their own future someday, you can move toward success and glory. Today our topic is called "I believe the future". "I believe the future" is a poem written by the famous Chinese poet forefinger. Ask someone must believe that, regardless of your environment, no matter where you are today, as long as your heart is genuine passion for life, as long as you believe in your future one day will become a better place, as long as you believe in hard work and struggle the power, you must have a better future.

For our eyes

I remember one philosopher said this sentence: For our eyes is not the lack of beauty, but the lack of discovery. In real life, there will always be many people complain about the social ugly, people walk through the social ugly.

Good at discovering US fact, this idea is too radical, there are a lot of beauty in society or, is found because people do not just blindly through the surface of a conclusion. The story is this: day, get together and go to the beach to swim beauty and ugliness, beauty is wearing a beautiful coat, and ugly to wear ugly coat. Two swimming after the the ugly first on the shore, casually picked up a coat to wear, followed by the United States also put on a coat on the shore, and the two went home. The home was found wearing the wrong clothes, ugly find themselves beautiful, and the United States found themselves ugly. In fact, the beauty and ugliness are compared in terms of this story is to explain beauty and ugliness sometimes only need a coat can change, the key is that they have not found.

Life is so, when a face black, the look of scars girl to come to your side, the first reaction is how so ugly, in fact, when you carefully looked at, you will find, his smile was brilliant to see it is beautiful, and then when you get along with her for some time, you will find that her teeth very kind heart. When you walk in a barren fields, the fields filled with garbage and stink to high heaven, and even the busy flies out of the time to patronize. You feel nausea should not, there are other feelings, you will be killjoys want to get out of here as soon as possible, but when you stop and anxious footsteps, you will find next to the lush grass is thriving growth, as well as the budding flowers facing the sun extraordinarily mouthwatering. The United States is that there in the the ugly middle of the key is to rely on our eyes to discover, which requires us to be more careful, more observation, good find the beautiful from the ugly behind.

October 2, 2007 World Summer Special Olympics in Shanghai grand opening, this is a special group of people together to fight for their sports dreams. They are people who have a special body, they are defective. Assuming see from the outside, they may give the first impression is ugly, but when they stood at the moment of the sports arena, you will find that they are beautiful, they are the world's most lovable person.

With the advancement of technology, improving the quality of people's minds, people's aesthetic has changed. Some abstract thing people can go to find his beauty, this is progress, people know how to discover the progress of the United States, the arm of Wei Nasi people given reverence, the United States is reflected most vividly. Van Gogh painted paintings of life after death it was discovered the beauty of his paintings side. Making it painting became priceless. Van Gogh Unfortunately lifelong, would not this end, if the people are good at to discover beauty. Around the United States like a shadow and the shadows not leave, but we did not go to pay attention to him, did not go to carefully found.

Beautiful and ugly in fact, sometimes is a step away, beautiful, ugly, ugly in the beautiful, which wanted us to go to be good at discovering, When eyes go carefully taste ugly in the beautiful, you will find that this is also a kind of happiness from the side to find those people to get rid of the ugly, beautiful side to his own spiritual world purify their minds in the beautiful.

The eyes are the windows of the soul, to knock on the window with a beautiful, to feel more comfortable, why not do it? Let's heart to drip beautiful life, and those who have been forgotten beauty.