2012年12月11日星期二
Love is the need for capacity
Have, we do not know love, easy coquetry When the wayward. Love a person have the right to overbearing and said: "Do not wear that dress, ugly death. Wear this, this is my new you buy." Zhang Xiaofeng says "a woman's views on love. In fact, a lot of women in front of their men are so overbearing wayward. We thought that love him, have the right to him, do not like him. We thought that love him, you can look at his pockets, watching his chats, check his mailbox. We thought that love him, of course, you can hide in front of him to vent our emotions -
Overbearing, self-willed, as long as our overbearing allow him to realize our dependence, our headstrong to make him happy, all emotions are cute like a baby: in the silence of the night, you rub his pregnant inside, refused to go to bed like a baby; tired of walking when you walk him back you spoiled;, you shook his arms and kissed his face is like a baby when he was angry. Short, spoiled is the spice of love, is the natural expression of intimate love, coquetry never quarrel fuse. When coquetry into a stubborn, When our wayward become unreasonable, when our love into distrust. Dear, love and our drifting away -
Have, we do not know love, easy to suspect when ridicule -
We love him, really, this love can even penetrated the bone marrow. We thought that the only man in the world best, we think we love the man, another woman must like. So, we put him in the mouth with the fear, afraid of breaking my hands. We do not know that what treasure we go, we become about the outcome, nervous -
Because I love him, so we are afraid of losing. Our fear of accidentally, and he which woman to Guaipao the. So, we begin to lose self, we begin to be sensitive, suspicious -
Love him, and we will believe him. Only if you believe him, you can happier. Because you feel happy, you will love him, and he will love you more. Suspected once implanted in your mind, and your love will disappear a little bit. Because you always would like to put him at worst, nature, psychological suggestion own every day to stay away from him. You are in pain, suffering, and you hurt yourself, hurt with love. Love is not possession, love is forgiving generosity Mastery understand -
"Chinese-style divorce" Lin Xiaofeng finally understand the truth, she said: Love is the need for capacity. Because I do not have this ability, so I failed, so I love the talent so desperate to be away from me -
Love is the need for capacity. That ability is, let the people you love to love you -
2012年12月10日星期一
Chance to Win
I'm not good at speech, just want to thank the members of the Nobel Committee have generously granted me the honor here.
Any writer, when he knows there are many great writers have not received this prize impossible peace of mind to accept the award without feeling not deserve. Here we do not have to enumerate the names of these great writers. Because here are listed based on his knowledge and conscience own list.
I request the ambassadors of their country, I read this speech on behalf of, but want felt by the mind of a writer say the best is not easy. Something a person works may not be immediately understood, at this point, sometimes he is fortunate; but the passage of time, in the end they will be very clear, according to the size of them, and the writers have the Midas touch skills, writer immortal works will make or forgotten.
Writing is in peak condition, is a lonely career. While various writers' organization can alleviate the loneliness of the writer, but I suspect they may not be able to promote the creation of the writer. A writer grew up surrounded by the crowd being, of course, you can get rid of the sense of his loneliness, but he works tend to flow in mediocrity. A writer working alone in solitude, if he is indeed striking, must daily face eternity, or face eternal lack.
For a real writer, his every work should continue to explore a new starting point for those who have not yet reached the field. It should always try something never been done before, or someone else did not pan out, so that he have the chance to win.
2012年12月9日星期日
Old Couple
The Old Couple, the word is really a touching. Contains not only love, it is a non-banned status. From newlyweds to practice to this level of "wife", Bureau posts to be even more difficult than the early age of civil servants to rise, here the number of inclusive commitment, trust, appreciation and loyalty ...
When they began to call each other "wife", between husband and wife truly enter nirvana: Do not you hate his "Mediterranean", beer belly, you only care about the "three high", no longer care about your measurements. Many have very sensitive topic, such as the name of your former male (female) friends, that once you or his brooding romance "Today is not when a mutual funny jokes! Happiness of his wife's life is similar: a day in the Mamalielie contention quarrel noisy usher in a sunny new day. Is a foul-mouthed, philandering wife specific.
Need to operate a happy marriage, marriage is like a tango,
Need someone into someone retired, co-ordination, tacit action. Stepped on the foot, stumbling are very normal. Know understand social dance tango dance partner is not temporary pull with the general will have a fixed partner, because the tango is particularly stressed the tacit understanding. So marriage as the tango, but marriage is different from the tango: a tango ten minutes would be finished, whenever there is a contradiction, endure what passed. Marriage this tango, but it is going to jump a lifetime! So, it is not enough to rely on patience. Patience but also revealed that she, communication, otherwise, it would never be more than a "partner" practicing less than the realm of the "wife".
The couple dispute is normal, "courteous, Juanqimei" is not necessarily a happy couple, the confrontation of ideas, not personal views. So bustling contention dispute enforcement for decades, more and more without scruples "wife" period - two hand in hand to the supermarket to buy what you want to compete, go for a walk, who go too fast, who is too slow to have to fight car time which way to where to Shui have to fight ...... are his wife, nothing Kaibulekou? So noisy join both the Alumni Association and retired colleagues for dinner, go to the gym, to participate in a variety of activities to accompany each other ... his wife a little like Siamese twins - a young man constantly cries do not lose in marriage self, and strive to have their own private space, think that only when you call each other husband took his wife's hand, only the most insecure!
When the marriage run-in to call each other husband, the feelings between each other than, "I love you" expressed a deep, because the two have one each other, you have me, I have you. Just as "War and Peace" Bier said his wife Natasha: You say that I love my fingers? Perhaps I will not be a day to feel I love it because it has become a form part of my body, once I missing fingers, it is far less than just sadness and pain, because I have mutilated. This is the feelings of the wife.
In China, the majority of the elderly are "old before getting rich", but as long as his wife to accompany the side, is the richest.
His wife is the most successful marriage and moisture level. Today found that many young couples in the parents of such a "sunset is magnificent," valuable time, in order to allow a mother to their children, virtually "forcing" Mom and Dad separated. Perhaps the young people feel that all this age, what separated not separated. They do not know, Mom and Dad is very cruel. Young couples, Japan, long, small do heart grow fonder; wife, I said, is the Siamese twins, both traveled thousands of miles, finally ushered in the "sunset is magnificent," but "it is almost dusk, let the old the dad mom multi point Sishou time!
When they began to call each other "wife", between husband and wife truly enter nirvana: Do not you hate his "Mediterranean", beer belly, you only care about the "three high", no longer care about your measurements. Many have very sensitive topic, such as the name of your former male (female) friends, that once you or his brooding romance "Today is not when a mutual funny jokes! Happiness of his wife's life is similar: a day in the Mamalielie contention quarrel noisy usher in a sunny new day. Is a foul-mouthed, philandering wife specific.
Need to operate a happy marriage, marriage is like a tango,
Need someone into someone retired, co-ordination, tacit action. Stepped on the foot, stumbling are very normal. Know understand social dance tango dance partner is not temporary pull with the general will have a fixed partner, because the tango is particularly stressed the tacit understanding. So marriage as the tango, but marriage is different from the tango: a tango ten minutes would be finished, whenever there is a contradiction, endure what passed. Marriage this tango, but it is going to jump a lifetime! So, it is not enough to rely on patience. Patience but also revealed that she, communication, otherwise, it would never be more than a "partner" practicing less than the realm of the "wife".
The couple dispute is normal, "courteous, Juanqimei" is not necessarily a happy couple, the confrontation of ideas, not personal views. So bustling contention dispute enforcement for decades, more and more without scruples "wife" period - two hand in hand to the supermarket to buy what you want to compete, go for a walk, who go too fast, who is too slow to have to fight car time which way to where to Shui have to fight ...... are his wife, nothing Kaibulekou? So noisy join both the Alumni Association and retired colleagues for dinner, go to the gym, to participate in a variety of activities to accompany each other ... his wife a little like Siamese twins - a young man constantly cries do not lose in marriage self, and strive to have their own private space, think that only when you call each other husband took his wife's hand, only the most insecure!
When the marriage run-in to call each other husband, the feelings between each other than, "I love you" expressed a deep, because the two have one each other, you have me, I have you. Just as "War and Peace" Bier said his wife Natasha: You say that I love my fingers? Perhaps I will not be a day to feel I love it because it has become a form part of my body, once I missing fingers, it is far less than just sadness and pain, because I have mutilated. This is the feelings of the wife.
In China, the majority of the elderly are "old before getting rich", but as long as his wife to accompany the side, is the richest.
His wife is the most successful marriage and moisture level. Today found that many young couples in the parents of such a "sunset is magnificent," valuable time, in order to allow a mother to their children, virtually "forcing" Mom and Dad separated. Perhaps the young people feel that all this age, what separated not separated. They do not know, Mom and Dad is very cruel. Young couples, Japan, long, small do heart grow fonder; wife, I said, is the Siamese twins, both traveled thousands of miles, finally ushered in the "sunset is magnificent," but "it is almost dusk, let the old the dad mom multi point Sishou time!
2012年12月6日星期四
Stay
The group at the hold mouth, alone hold the heart. Actually teach people how to conduct themselves in society.
The group at the to hold mouth, solitude hold the heart group to hold the mouth. Get along with others, to pay attention to their own language. To get along with others, rhetoric, it seems that the broad perspective, knowledgeable huge accumulation, know ye not that the impression is frivolous, superficial and arrogant. Along with others, would like to say that is to say, there is no masking, no evasive, often inadvertently hurt others.
Silence is golden, this extremely simple language contains extremely intriguing truth. -
Silence does not mean that thinking stop. Deep thoughts often derived from the the seemingly silent thinking process. Temporarily silence the people, positive thinking in silence, listened in effective trade-offs can often misses the point, Midas touch shows insights, Lingrenganpei admiration. -
The silence does not represent the thinking of emptiness. The silence is a ready to wait for the process, and the silence of the earth in the birth of the autumn harvest, the silence of the eagle in the waiting wings of the fly, severe winter silence Blossoming Spring is in the build-up.
Silence savings momentum. Often Winners applaud, but I do not know they are willing to silence, willing spirit to silence. Is the so-called late bloomer, Great Music, not craze, blockbuster is. -
Silence is a quality that is an accomplishment, is demanding constraints, is a severe test of their own will, is the a reasonable manner insistence and patience. -
Solitude hold the heart. Heart of ancient saying goes, a man of integrity, Zhao's world, not the people I do not know. That gentleman Tan sway. The hustle and bustle of Sai dust, snobbish disputes, to live in this world, will inevitably encounter goes wrong, things go wrong. How to deal with these things it is a severe test of human virtue.
Often late at night, alone Vipassana its heart, the true face of their own will be surfacing. Often reflect on, you will feel really my show so usually hiding the truth from your fake my true colors, and this you will shame really treat the true soul. Formed such a habit, your realm will be continuously improved. Therefore, the Analects I three times daily is also
One alone, often thinking of others for their own benefits, you will be kind to everyone. So, you are willing to pay for him, and are willing to connect with him, friendship between people will be Lang Syne. -
A person alone, often thinking about the benefits of others, you will let their own feelings of superiority continues to expand, thus losing the true nature. When he moment regarding doing against you, you will feel wronged, feel uncomfortable, you will find a reason to punish him, which is not conducive to the improvement of personality is not conducive to the harmonious interpersonal.
So, when you encounter happy, you have to remember to exercise restraint, because to get carried away, carried away the hurt this forgetting volatile. When you encounter the confusion, you have to step back and thinking, step back even better.
An idea of the good, all is good. An idea of evil, are evil! So you want to develop a group at Moriguchi, alone to keep the good habits of the heart!
The group at the to hold mouth, solitude hold the heart group to hold the mouth. Get along with others, to pay attention to their own language. To get along with others, rhetoric, it seems that the broad perspective, knowledgeable huge accumulation, know ye not that the impression is frivolous, superficial and arrogant. Along with others, would like to say that is to say, there is no masking, no evasive, often inadvertently hurt others.
Silence is golden, this extremely simple language contains extremely intriguing truth. -
Silence does not mean that thinking stop. Deep thoughts often derived from the the seemingly silent thinking process. Temporarily silence the people, positive thinking in silence, listened in effective trade-offs can often misses the point, Midas touch shows insights, Lingrenganpei admiration. -
The silence does not represent the thinking of emptiness. The silence is a ready to wait for the process, and the silence of the earth in the birth of the autumn harvest, the silence of the eagle in the waiting wings of the fly, severe winter silence Blossoming Spring is in the build-up.
Silence savings momentum. Often Winners applaud, but I do not know they are willing to silence, willing spirit to silence. Is the so-called late bloomer, Great Music, not craze, blockbuster is. -
Silence is a quality that is an accomplishment, is demanding constraints, is a severe test of their own will, is the a reasonable manner insistence and patience. -
Solitude hold the heart. Heart of ancient saying goes, a man of integrity, Zhao's world, not the people I do not know. That gentleman Tan sway. The hustle and bustle of Sai dust, snobbish disputes, to live in this world, will inevitably encounter goes wrong, things go wrong. How to deal with these things it is a severe test of human virtue.
Often late at night, alone Vipassana its heart, the true face of their own will be surfacing. Often reflect on, you will feel really my show so usually hiding the truth from your fake my true colors, and this you will shame really treat the true soul. Formed such a habit, your realm will be continuously improved. Therefore, the Analects I three times daily is also
One alone, often thinking of others for their own benefits, you will be kind to everyone. So, you are willing to pay for him, and are willing to connect with him, friendship between people will be Lang Syne. -
A person alone, often thinking about the benefits of others, you will let their own feelings of superiority continues to expand, thus losing the true nature. When he moment regarding doing against you, you will feel wronged, feel uncomfortable, you will find a reason to punish him, which is not conducive to the improvement of personality is not conducive to the harmonious interpersonal.
So, when you encounter happy, you have to remember to exercise restraint, because to get carried away, carried away the hurt this forgetting volatile. When you encounter the confusion, you have to step back and thinking, step back even better.
An idea of the good, all is good. An idea of evil, are evil! So you want to develop a group at Moriguchi, alone to keep the good habits of the heart!
2012年12月5日星期三
Strive for Tomrrow
TIAN Wei-like text, whether it is her positive or her selfless fascination with the color of her characters - the event which the world has never, then, what regrets, what sad life stumble twists, death The quiet of the night, turn to dust, attributed to rain, I no longer have in this world, but everywhere I.
[Capricorn]
Capricorn traits too heavy people they say there are not very happy, lonely and boring childhood, lack dressed youth that shoot "the Kikujiro the summer" Takeshi Kitano, the twenty-year-old began writing Murakami Haruki, that has become the King of Jay, no one doubted Capricorn has tremendous energy. dear Capricorn child, someone always says, to live such a contradiction is a tiring thing, the appearance of serious rock-solid, but my mind was Some Like It Hot, full of confidence, there is little sense of inferiority. deep and shallow flowers Youth Chinese I Capricorn.
[Black day /'s going to rain / day black / black
Light and shadow roll, overlapping into the time and what my life is still faire selfish with my kid threw temper tantrums, there is always a lot of people behind me with me uneasy and lonely with the moment appease, if they never be forgotten when I stand up alone when everything, in front of this lush world, countless fork in too many cars too many people the end is always unclear I understand the adult world there always hidden flaws, but also I was at ease to meet. risked my pursuit afar I believe has been them to accompany me to live a simple life.
My youth! Youth!]
If dazed, just forget the past, so always delusions desperate Polaris light, stumbled in looking for time lost Eden. Always facing the sun smiling sunflower wither before last blooming gorgeous in wither being freeze condensate is eternal legend is no longer naive, can no longer get a the windward flying dandelion fluff excited to know what to do. Dazed and Confused edges paper airplane quietly away and left lying in an ivory tower the other side, I think, I was growing up.
[Crystal ball, whether it is in the Queen's hands or in witch the hands I would like to ask that
In mind, but not in the side, not wronged, but gradually forget wronged, is not so naive as to not to care about the calculations, but regardless of the calculations are useless, could not contain the heart of the renegade, to invest in him as long as he eyes , frown or a smile, she has become such a swing can not be determined.
[You will pain you cry I guess I do not have a strong heart]
I was afraid of thunder child, I always panic when the middle of the night playing Ray went to the parents' room, the mother will rope me in the side, murmured, not afraid not afraid of lightning across the night sky, polish the night I curled up in the protection of the mother slowly calm mother gave me the most safe and inclusive. later that day, the mother did in me when thunder hold my hand holding at all times of danger. my shoulder who?
[World a stare dad is my mother's gray soldiers]
Naive days before, in addition to the daily relative tarried in the side of the father and mother, or turn around Mom and Dad, stored in the memory of the sum of the images they associated often precipitated sad extricate themselves, and turned around to see the world eventually found some pictures of, dare Panasonic an inexplicable from the gas in high school should be a great turning point, a lot of time is no longer so dependent on their carefully tended, I think in their heart Although I can not be an independent little girl However, there will always be days I have to face the fact that I shortly afterwards need to leave home independent, they may my heart still turn the ball less, but is no longer complete.
[I will always miss you like a darling]
Seems all youth detached things are beautiful, so even if you only glance I was a boy, has become my wound amazing memories I remember, I like you, like, dare with love, I like it very much like your own, or that the mere appearance, carefully treasure a heart, silence not play because youth can not afford so heavy word;
I like you, like that time like your own.
That time is no longer the only years of sedimentation a somewhat heavy imply to.
[Optional Ju sent to your side / to softly sing your favorite song]
Sometimes, some of the melody can change my mood. Flock of birds flying south, each spring will come back, I can stand on the roof to wait for them to fly over my head, waiting for their feathers were numerous falls as spring most gentle Yanghwa But those who leave, no matter what I have long to wait, they were scattered in the horizon, voice and facial expression, no miss.
[Pulled out of my life since I will no longer have a life you]
I have been thinking to me how a man, he can tolerate my bad temper to hide my smile inside it can be seen that, in fact, not happy, it can know, in fact, I am not a good student, because I was live forward to a demon incinerated I already stricken heart of corruption, he can know that I quietly when in fact, be very afraid, because I tend to think so as far as it will not let me alone, that he can stay with me with the sink can also walked out of demons, he appeared in front of me when I need it most to give me a hug, he can in my lonely give me a bright flower smile, he can be when I suddenly mad know I was rather crazy for what I most want to abandon the life he gave me a slap in the face to scold me awake, his life and I know each other intersect the premise that he can hide in a corner I cry when accompanied with me crying and then swore me silly not stupid, he can understand my heart but if I do not want it can be installed as a daft as a brush, he also can Houchu I heard Wang Xin Yan, You idiot, but I know I probably never encountered such a person this is too good not fit with my acquaintance.
[Everything can not kill you will only make you stronger.]
All buried in the sand into the city, all the ugly face exposed to the air, a lot of warm and legend, and then even more disheartened to break the all pressed powder piled up the ugly face of all the circumstances. asphalt polybrene good and evil, life is every thing has whether good or bad, no one qualified to trample alive disregard, but every life has long gauge, regardless of the relationship, it is also even and then close again efforts not touch life needs more love more warm and I do not deny that the reality is the reality, it requires you how you have to do, what also can not escape is the reality on the contrary can only destroy.
2012年12月4日星期二
Two Letters From Father
The end of the college entrance examination. Goodbye to the pile of papers that pile and burning the midnight oil studying for the night, but my mood can not be relaxed. When the postman father every day from dawn to dusk, run around, work hard and support their families. Although he all day unlike other parents as talks about the college entrance examination, but I know he is also all hope sustenance in me. If this test is not good, how to be accountable to him?
The next few days, I have all day to stay at home and do nothing, came up to find some work to do. But father, I just want to exercise it. He listened to my thoughts, the silent child, said: "graduation, you like fun to play with. Okay dad, earn enough to you to go to school, do not even think about." In fact, the situation at home I clear all pointed to the father's point of wages, every month stretched. However, I have not heard him, find a company that can accept their own construction sites. Boss see that I'm sincere, let me do some miscellaneous family. Every day, I will be in his father left to go out, and then go home before he finishes his work. But not an unventilated wall under the sun, or was my children's things in the site work to tell his father. -
One afternoon, the father deliberately bypass the incoming mail site, far to find me. I'm ready to Tibet, it was too late. Father, like a lost child at this time, the hand on the handlebars, stare pestle in there. I pretended not to find him, head down, sweat continue working children. -
The night I came home from the site. Father see my body up and down dirty, eyes suddenly wet. Eyes shining crystal clear and bright smile. He Sheng dumplings end of a full bowl I like to eat at my desk and commanded me to hurry to eat. -
The HKALE results would be released that day, I get up early and went straight to school on his bicycle along a familiar piece of road. Very heavy heart, nervous heart like a hastily rotating wheels the same uneasy. To the classroom to see the mood of the students are very different part of the sorrow and pain;, some of them rejoice and be glad. The teacher came up to me holding transcripts, cheerful, said: "The college entrance examination results in the school seems you are still very good, the University score than you'd expect even higher than 40 points." My one, watching transcripts hearts happiness. -
Noon I Jianbu got home, my father was doing quietly on the sofa smoking mouthful. He saw me, and quickly stubbed out a cigarette, stood up and asked my grades. I told the teacher that the very good results, the ecstatic father listened to, actually once again I am treated like a boy hugging his mouth with both hands stretched out the rough crack: "Good, good, good, Dad know you are the best, and did not let them down ah. "Then the father told the mother to cook a few road dishes, his house took out a bottle of liquor, and I know that is the weekdays reluctant River collection over years of wine. The father opened the bottle of liquor, carefully pour a full glass or two of concern, saying: "Come on, today we Yeliang good to drink a few glasses!" I took the father handed me the cup of the wine in one gulp. -
"Come, come," Then my father gave me poured a full glass of, then we gulp. -
That only remember his father drank a lot, and feel their own minds a little vertigo, I said to him: "Dad, we do not drink, do not drunk!"
The father listened, the red neck smiled and nodded and said: "Well, you do not drink, Davis in the coming few glasses, Davis is pleased."
Hearing this, my nose is slightly acid. Mother in the side of comfort: "Your father is old, along with him, let him Comin good to drink a few glasses."
A few days later, the father came back from the post office, the hand my college acceptance letter. His side into the house side look elated: "Congratulations, your son Goldbond nomination!"
Hee hee smile mother, yell rushed father: "do? Do not forget, this is not inside your home."
Father chuckled, pointing to the notice began to say to them: "Look, this is not a happy from the post office to the house where nobody Chouchou show him a Zan son is Kwame glorious!"
Since then, I know I of this notice, good save by his father in his bedroom drawer only come when he hastened to come up with to make everyone look. I also know that the father every night before lamp office will open the drawer glance, so that he would then do his thing. -
Day, while the father has not come back to work. I sneaked into his room, opened a drawer in the middle of the bookcase most see neatly inside stood a large pile of books, I notice placed by the father in the middle of the flat Crimping. Come up with the notice, the following also pressing two stacked with good note. I carefully open the Set eyes, turned out to be the father wrote to me, but I have not been to see two of the most simple letter, his father said in it:
Dear son: -
Father know you best, your teacher proud parents proud folks. You to pursue efforts to struggle and will certainly reap the sweet fruit, bless you after azure sky to open up one of their own in their former way street road! -
Love you dad -
Another says: -
Dear son: -
This test is not good, you do not have to have a little remorse, blame, blame no fault of their own. Your pursuit of efforts to again struggle but it is impossible to time can be very successful, believe in yourself! Zan good review, next year is sure to test out a good result. To believe that the sun after the storm. -
Always supports your father -
Just two brief note, but I looked for. Moment, my tears unscrupulous cicada wins the orbital and the next moment I finally understood the father's selfless love. Know how to fly, fly fatherly Qingqi that blue sky! -
Text / Jinhua Jiang -
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2012年12月3日星期一
Learn to Be Brave
Everyone in life will encounter some difficult and unpredictable things, like me, this story, I think only only on TV screen. But: When I experienced these things, know that life is indeed a pain and joy coexist today, I wrote a story yesterday. I hope you and I calmly ....... - Inscription
Is my happiest day in March 2000, my husband and I into a private company in Nanjing units, after two years of work, the preparations for the wedding, when we do not have a house, a rental house that we both marriage room, simple tourist back in his hometown, to handle the banquet even if married, our hands down the wedding left thirty thousand yuan. The reason we do this is that we want to leave extra money to buy a house with to prevent our marriage around.
Hard work pays off, in August 2000 the company began the implementation of welfare housing distribution, the husband was to be regarded as the backbone of the company, to be included in the list of welfare housing, and soon the implementation of sound, we have to get a house of their own, simple the wedding hands of the remaining three million has become a life-saving food. Most of the company out of the half remaining grandfathers and grandmothers Chouqi. At that time I was 26 years old, seems to be the most happy people of this world. My husband and I juggle a busy forgot almost all mother-in-law father-in-law also helped us to spend time together with, when our family be enjoyable.
However, there are unexpected storms, people have always happens. In Shen invasion joy among us in the new house the first Dragon Boat Festival in May 2001, the phone about a father-in-law to work in Nanjing with over. At noon that day feeling father looks very haggard, nor drink wine, eat too little, which is usually the father-in-law of state is completely incompatible. Asked his situation he was just very calm and said I heard estimates stomach problems, eating rice, a short break, the father-in-law went back to his unit, the night her husband came back to my father-in-law's a lot like her husband described her husband immediately telephoned her father-in-law, who told him to go to the hospital to check, he refused to go, was delayed until July, he realized the seriousness, and called her husband to accompany him to the hospital for a gastroscopy, in a week long waiting, our hearts just as jack pressing, and get a report card time, we like thunderstruck, ultimately concerns become a reality, a gastric cancer. Can not believe this is true, but the facts tell us, have to accept. Conceal his condition when we stabilize the mood when a call and told abdominal hydrocephalus to surgery immediately, and then called to tell her mother.
When we buy a house to get married, the remaining money can say the same, my mother-in-law borrowed from relatives and three million, live in the hospital immediately. And through a series of checks, and then the implementation of the surgical resection, two-thirds of the father-in-law of gastrectomy, when the doctor holding a bowl of bloody tumor out, my mother-in-law fainted.
Father-in-law be regarded as successful surgery in a series of postoperative chemotherapy has not suffered any injury, with normal to see the people of the father-in-law said he was not sick. When I got married there three years, 61-year-old father-in-law has no grandchildren yet, I want to have children in the father's repeated requests, the expected date of birth is July 23, 2003, I regularly checked during pregnancy months to find out I'm pregnant with twins for the first time, I told the good news of the father-in-law, he was excited even speechless. The arrival of our family for maybe a little angel, all of them smiling, still feel God is finally fair.
Two little guys grow up happy in my stomach, there are twenty days necessary childbirth may at that time my body because of excessive bile acids, each part of the powerful itch night sleep . I lay in bed in the morning of July 3, two little guys keep moving in my stomach, and stomach also began to slight pain. O'clock was admitted to the hospital, the doctor I do check found bloody amniotic fluid, and only one fetal heart in action, several doctors busy busy hands and feet I advanced operating table immediately cesarean production surgery, results of another little angel or God merciless claimed lives. The news was not dare to tell her father-in-law, afraid he can not accept a grandson who died at things. But the father-in-law asked her mother to two children, I was born and also healthy when her mother could no longer bear this sad news to tell the father repeatedly asked. Father-in-law fell at this time, although there are two sons, 61-year-old father-in-law is still not a grandson, wish I can safely gave birth to his two grandchildren. One month's time the disease again attacked the body of the father-in-law, the full moon 42 days when I return home with my daughter and a regret, father-in-law in order to see a granddaughter of fierce resistance to the pain of torture. When I go back to see the father-in-law only skinny when tears could no longer bear it, such as the heavy rain pouring instantly blurred eyes. See the next morning granddaughter's father-in-law and serene close your eyes, forever.
I remember in August 2003. At that time, I was like pushed into an abyss, all of a sudden lost two relatives I complain Heaven tease in people, give me the beginning of a smooth, let me bear life in such a big blow.
In the subsequent two years time, finally smooth over, the godfather relative child at home. Life can be considered enjoyable. God seems intentionally and against me in November 2006, my body discomfort, but fortunately, not a serious illness in the hospital for twenty days were discharged. Then I have to go to work, kids kindergarten days forward in such a dull life.
Since the father-in-law after the death of her mother has been feeling bad stomach, we is not her mother-in-law and honest son at home Dependence, home of all things or mother-in-law to command the two pro-oldest maternal aunt, mother-in-law is unique in the home can rely, however, In the final stage, the mother-in-law for a checkup but did not tell the two oldest maternal aunt. While in Nanjing, in fact it is thinking about the body of the mother-in-law, is very worried about her mother doing numerous inspections are not abnormal, August 2007, her mother phoned to tell her husband that she suffered from esophageal cancer, called how we I believe that this is true, my mother-in-law for fear that we are worried that she did not tell us, did not tell the oldest maternal aunt, she went to the hospital last gastroscopy result, she is also a person to pick up the report, finally playing to the phone to tell the bad news of this bolt from the blue. Then we only bad news to tell the two oldest maternal aunt. The two oldest maternal aunt then broke down in tears, their sisters three in the case of the mother-in-law living in the rural areas, the other two are living in the city, and the children of the two oldest maternal aunt usually good care of her mother. When he learned the sad news of her mother, they could bear.
We called in the case of helpless oldest maternal aunt with her mother to go to the Cancer Hospital in the diagnosis, when a glimmer of hope lies in the Cancer Hospital in Nanjing, hope the result is misdiagnosed, but when her husband once again got the report and did not help crying, mother-in-law is a cancer of the esophagus spray door, very serious, if not timely surgery dangerous to life and immediately with the mother-in-law do inpatient surgery, when the mother-in-law on the operating table doctor opened her chest and back between a full a foot of the hole, the desire to let her mother-in-law to survive the surgery was successful. Mother-in-law you'd rather die in the two years of chemotherapy in late, living death, to every chemotherapy will allow her mother to go to the gates of hell to go once. The chemotherapy her in bed Heartbreakers. But the mother is reported to have a glimmer of hope, always hope that once the chemotherapy will allow her to live another day. Last CT examination, the doctor told us has been transferred to the body of the mother-in-law of the cancer cells are, and we did not tell her mother the truth, my mother-in-law always thought that her illness will be good, of course we are also trying to tie with the mother-in-law, also want to have turn of Health last chemotherapy in mother-in-law could no longer afford to resist chemotherapy side effects fall.
Mother-in-law after two years of pain and suffering, at 8 o'clock in the morning on July 5 with a nostalgic, a sadness and regret died, aged 61 years.
Gone through so many things, I did not expect I was the master of the story, before will see the story of such newspapers or appear on TV screen, I did not think I'd experienced. Mother-in-law passed away two years time, not demand that rich, just for the sake of family peace.
Experienced so many strong and brave, and maybe this is God to the test of our lives, that we have to have the courage to accept it. Although life is very unfair to me, but I learned in life strong, Brave, learned to accept.
I hope my story can help those who are negative and have lost confidence in friends. I also hope that this article can bring you more inspiration alive, we must be strong, brave of you to accept things. Everything past, everything will be fine.
I do not miss the deceased's family, but strong.
Is my happiest day in March 2000, my husband and I into a private company in Nanjing units, after two years of work, the preparations for the wedding, when we do not have a house, a rental house that we both marriage room, simple tourist back in his hometown, to handle the banquet even if married, our hands down the wedding left thirty thousand yuan. The reason we do this is that we want to leave extra money to buy a house with to prevent our marriage around.
Hard work pays off, in August 2000 the company began the implementation of welfare housing distribution, the husband was to be regarded as the backbone of the company, to be included in the list of welfare housing, and soon the implementation of sound, we have to get a house of their own, simple the wedding hands of the remaining three million has become a life-saving food. Most of the company out of the half remaining grandfathers and grandmothers Chouqi. At that time I was 26 years old, seems to be the most happy people of this world. My husband and I juggle a busy forgot almost all mother-in-law father-in-law also helped us to spend time together with, when our family be enjoyable.
However, there are unexpected storms, people have always happens. In Shen invasion joy among us in the new house the first Dragon Boat Festival in May 2001, the phone about a father-in-law to work in Nanjing with over. At noon that day feeling father looks very haggard, nor drink wine, eat too little, which is usually the father-in-law of state is completely incompatible. Asked his situation he was just very calm and said I heard estimates stomach problems, eating rice, a short break, the father-in-law went back to his unit, the night her husband came back to my father-in-law's a lot like her husband described her husband immediately telephoned her father-in-law, who told him to go to the hospital to check, he refused to go, was delayed until July, he realized the seriousness, and called her husband to accompany him to the hospital for a gastroscopy, in a week long waiting, our hearts just as jack pressing, and get a report card time, we like thunderstruck, ultimately concerns become a reality, a gastric cancer. Can not believe this is true, but the facts tell us, have to accept. Conceal his condition when we stabilize the mood when a call and told abdominal hydrocephalus to surgery immediately, and then called to tell her mother.
When we buy a house to get married, the remaining money can say the same, my mother-in-law borrowed from relatives and three million, live in the hospital immediately. And through a series of checks, and then the implementation of the surgical resection, two-thirds of the father-in-law of gastrectomy, when the doctor holding a bowl of bloody tumor out, my mother-in-law fainted.
Father-in-law be regarded as successful surgery in a series of postoperative chemotherapy has not suffered any injury, with normal to see the people of the father-in-law said he was not sick. When I got married there three years, 61-year-old father-in-law has no grandchildren yet, I want to have children in the father's repeated requests, the expected date of birth is July 23, 2003, I regularly checked during pregnancy months to find out I'm pregnant with twins for the first time, I told the good news of the father-in-law, he was excited even speechless. The arrival of our family for maybe a little angel, all of them smiling, still feel God is finally fair.
Two little guys grow up happy in my stomach, there are twenty days necessary childbirth may at that time my body because of excessive bile acids, each part of the powerful itch night sleep . I lay in bed in the morning of July 3, two little guys keep moving in my stomach, and stomach also began to slight pain. O'clock was admitted to the hospital, the doctor I do check found bloody amniotic fluid, and only one fetal heart in action, several doctors busy busy hands and feet I advanced operating table immediately cesarean production surgery, results of another little angel or God merciless claimed lives. The news was not dare to tell her father-in-law, afraid he can not accept a grandson who died at things. But the father-in-law asked her mother to two children, I was born and also healthy when her mother could no longer bear this sad news to tell the father repeatedly asked. Father-in-law fell at this time, although there are two sons, 61-year-old father-in-law is still not a grandson, wish I can safely gave birth to his two grandchildren. One month's time the disease again attacked the body of the father-in-law, the full moon 42 days when I return home with my daughter and a regret, father-in-law in order to see a granddaughter of fierce resistance to the pain of torture. When I go back to see the father-in-law only skinny when tears could no longer bear it, such as the heavy rain pouring instantly blurred eyes. See the next morning granddaughter's father-in-law and serene close your eyes, forever.
I remember in August 2003. At that time, I was like pushed into an abyss, all of a sudden lost two relatives I complain Heaven tease in people, give me the beginning of a smooth, let me bear life in such a big blow.
In the subsequent two years time, finally smooth over, the godfather relative child at home. Life can be considered enjoyable. God seems intentionally and against me in November 2006, my body discomfort, but fortunately, not a serious illness in the hospital for twenty days were discharged. Then I have to go to work, kids kindergarten days forward in such a dull life.
Since the father-in-law after the death of her mother has been feeling bad stomach, we is not her mother-in-law and honest son at home Dependence, home of all things or mother-in-law to command the two pro-oldest maternal aunt, mother-in-law is unique in the home can rely, however, In the final stage, the mother-in-law for a checkup but did not tell the two oldest maternal aunt. While in Nanjing, in fact it is thinking about the body of the mother-in-law, is very worried about her mother doing numerous inspections are not abnormal, August 2007, her mother phoned to tell her husband that she suffered from esophageal cancer, called how we I believe that this is true, my mother-in-law for fear that we are worried that she did not tell us, did not tell the oldest maternal aunt, she went to the hospital last gastroscopy result, she is also a person to pick up the report, finally playing to the phone to tell the bad news of this bolt from the blue. Then we only bad news to tell the two oldest maternal aunt. The two oldest maternal aunt then broke down in tears, their sisters three in the case of the mother-in-law living in the rural areas, the other two are living in the city, and the children of the two oldest maternal aunt usually good care of her mother. When he learned the sad news of her mother, they could bear.
We called in the case of helpless oldest maternal aunt with her mother to go to the Cancer Hospital in the diagnosis, when a glimmer of hope lies in the Cancer Hospital in Nanjing, hope the result is misdiagnosed, but when her husband once again got the report and did not help crying, mother-in-law is a cancer of the esophagus spray door, very serious, if not timely surgery dangerous to life and immediately with the mother-in-law do inpatient surgery, when the mother-in-law on the operating table doctor opened her chest and back between a full a foot of the hole, the desire to let her mother-in-law to survive the surgery was successful. Mother-in-law you'd rather die in the two years of chemotherapy in late, living death, to every chemotherapy will allow her mother to go to the gates of hell to go once. The chemotherapy her in bed Heartbreakers. But the mother is reported to have a glimmer of hope, always hope that once the chemotherapy will allow her to live another day. Last CT examination, the doctor told us has been transferred to the body of the mother-in-law of the cancer cells are, and we did not tell her mother the truth, my mother-in-law always thought that her illness will be good, of course we are also trying to tie with the mother-in-law, also want to have turn of Health last chemotherapy in mother-in-law could no longer afford to resist chemotherapy side effects fall.
Mother-in-law after two years of pain and suffering, at 8 o'clock in the morning on July 5 with a nostalgic, a sadness and regret died, aged 61 years.
Gone through so many things, I did not expect I was the master of the story, before will see the story of such newspapers or appear on TV screen, I did not think I'd experienced. Mother-in-law passed away two years time, not demand that rich, just for the sake of family peace.
Experienced so many strong and brave, and maybe this is God to the test of our lives, that we have to have the courage to accept it. Although life is very unfair to me, but I learned in life strong, Brave, learned to accept.
I hope my story can help those who are negative and have lost confidence in friends. I also hope that this article can bring you more inspiration alive, we must be strong, brave of you to accept things. Everything past, everything will be fine.
I do not miss the deceased's family, but strong.
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